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What are the news story’s you will never forget where you were at the time.

331 replies

Blueyparentsmychild · 13/04/2024 15:21

just that really,

mine will always be 7/7 - was caught up in it
grenfell tower - lived locally
9/11
Manchester bombing
probably the queens death to.

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imforeverblowingbuttons · 13/04/2024 21:00

Somatosensational · 13/04/2024 16:33

For some reason I don’t really remember anything about the Queen’s death in the news 😳

No I'm the same I wonder if now we have constant access to information we are a bit more immune? Or was it expected and less shocking?

AnOldCynic · 13/04/2024 21:03

Diana's death (cleaning the lounge)
Start of the Gulf war (just home from bar bar job, flatmate shouted down)
Manchester bomb (during a break from student job)
9/11 (Perpignan airport)
Charlotte Coleman's death (friends wedding)
John Peel's death (reading BBC website at work)
David Bowie's death (in bed on Mumsnet)

Can't remember where I was when the Queen died though. I suppose it wasn't a shock.

notnowbernadette · 13/04/2024 21:04

For me it would be

Thatcher standing down
911
John Smith dying
Brexit referendum result
Manchester arena bomb
Queen dying

NoNrGee · 13/04/2024 21:08

When the search for the missing woman Karen Buckley became a murder investigation. I was a similar age to her and often frequented the bar she went missing from. I remember watching the sickening story unfold thinking this could easily have been me or a friend of mine.

Karen was a complete stranger to me, but I often think of her and her family and my heart just breaks for them.

Same with the helicopter that crashed into the bar in Glasgow and the bin lorry crash that claimed all those innocent lives. Just tragic.

sweatervest · 13/04/2024 21:10

diana
grenfell
9/11 (was in manhattan at the time)
paula yates dying - was in the gym, sunday morning
linda mc cartney dying
michael jackson dying - radio 2 said "there are reports that he's died but this hasn't been confirmed" and i thought what an odd thing for radio 2 to say as they made it sound like gossip but obviously it was true etc etc

PitterPatter3 · 13/04/2024 21:14

HauntedBungalow · 13/04/2024 15:46

Take That splitting up
Frank Bough taking coke and wearing ladies' knickers
One True Voice losing at Popstars, The Rivals

Sorry but I couldn’t help laughing at that first one.

From what I recall there was a helpline set up for fans.

LatteLady · 13/04/2024 21:22

Death of John F Kennedy... came through just after 7:00pm and my sister and mother were distraught
Aberfan disaster, my mother would not let go of my hand as she walked me home from school and the rain rattled down
Death of Robert Kennedy
Fastnet race deaths
Mountbatten murder
Loss of the Mousehole lifeboat
Death of John Lennon
The 1987 Hurricanes
Kings Cross Fire - I was out for drinks with friends and would have been going through there at that time
Black Monday
Death of John Lennon
Lockerbie
Death of Diana
9/11
7/7
Death of the Queen

Ultravox · 13/04/2024 21:22

The ones that immediately spring to mind are:

Kurt Cobain - I remember waking up all my flatmates to tell them

Diana - I was in the USA and the news hit there before the UK

911 - was actually on a flight when it happened. Arrived at Schiphol airport just after the 2nd tower was hit

The Queen - was at work and rumours were flying and for a few hours until we heard. Felt very strange. I’m not a royalist at all but really respected her.

elp30 · 13/04/2024 21:24

I'm American so I remember where I was during events such as:

The inauguration of President Reagan as I was 10 and we were watching it at school and also learned of the release of the American hostages in Iran only minutes after Reagan was sworn in.

The Mexico City earthquake in 1985. My family are Mexican and my godparents lived in a high rise in Mexico City. My father and I were listening to a Mexican radio station (I grew up on the US/Mexico border) and heard that there was an earthquake as it was happening. It turned out to be an 8.0 tremor. My godparents were thankfully okay but they lost their livelihoods and their home.

Many schools across the nation, including mine, were watching the Challenger Space Shuttle launch as it was transporting a civilian, a teacher, into space in 1986. We saw it explode on our television screens live.

I remember driving home from work and listening to the radio to hear President Bush address the Nation on the invasion of Iraq in January 1991. I remember that many people on the road, stopped and got off the shoulder to listen to the broadcast. I remember feeling frightened.

The Waco Siege in 1993. I'm in Texas and for over 50 days, my office would have the radio on and we'd listen to the details of the standoff between federal agents and the Branch Davidians. One day, the government ended the siege and we heard it as it was happening due to the heavy media presence. It was truly shocking. 80 people died on that day.

The Oklahoma City Bombing in 1995. Again, back in the office with the radio on and we heard about the bombing of a federal building in Oklahoma City. Again, it was horrific to learn that 168 people, including many young children, died in that terrorist attack.

I married an Englishman and moved to England in late 1995. I had a four-year-old son and we were watching tv when it was interrupted and I learned about the tragedy. It was sobering to think that something like that could happen in your country. Strangely, school shootings were not common in the US back then. That changed in 1999 with Columbine.

The Death of Diana in 1997. I was heavily pregnant with my son and it was the first time I had managed to sleep comfortably and a friend from Texas phoned me in England to ask me if she was okay since it was news in the US that she had an accident. I had no idea so I turned on the tv to hear the BBC journalist announce her death.

9/11 in 2001. I was home with my baby daughter and was watching tv while she napped. It was a horrible day, that I have written about on MN on several different threads about the day. In a nutshell, my cousin, aunt and uncle were in the buildings on that day. I didn't know if they had lived or died because I couldn't reach them for several days. Thankfully, they survived but my cousin's wife did not.

7/7/2005. My family relocated to Texas and my father worked until 2am and always put on Mexican tv news when he got home. He called us and woke us up and told us to "get on the computer" about news in England. Again, horrible, horrible news.

Financial Crisis September 2008. My adopted city of Houston had a devastating hurricane in September 2008. Many areas had high water and no electricity for days. We were somewhat cut off from the world for a while and when we did get news, it was not national but local. We had no idea Lehman Brothers failed or much about the financial crash because we were hit by a hurricane that day. On the day we finally got national and international news, we saw President George W Bush's Address to the Nation about the financial crisis and how he was proposing a $770 Billion bail-out. It was a bad month!

There have been so much more but those are the highlights.
What a world!

elp30 · 13/04/2024 21:26

Sorry, I forgot to mention Dunblane in 1995.
I figured that you would know what I was speaking about.

Dymaxion · 13/04/2024 21:26

Bradford fire disaster , was actually in Bradford on the day.

Lockerbie.

Hillsborough/ Tiananmen square/ Berlin wall

Dunblane massacre.

Princess Diana dying.

9/11.

Boxing day Tsunami.

Dartwarbler · 13/04/2024 21:35

Fall of Berlin Wall - at my parents visiting.

Lockerbie bombing : we were driving back from Edinburgh (PIL Home) on Boxing Day and passed a vehicle with the bombed fuselage just around the border . you could see police vehicles out on hills looking for debris.

9/11 - worked for USA company and many Americans on our site due to a major project going on. I walked into project office to be met with silence and grown men crying.

princess di death - a Sunday. My kids were small and couldn’t understand why I was watching tv on Sunday morning.

Hungerford massacre - 1987 and first of its kind in uk. It was this incident that changed the firearm act. We lived in Berkshire at time. Hungerford was not a place you’d expect that. But I guess dunblane wasn’t either. Truely shocked it was even possible for someone to do that.

the Boxing Day tsunami - again staying with relatives for Xmas so you kind of remember

mount st Helens explosion in USA - a home, but watching tv , first pyroplatic explosion I’d seen, whilst it was expected in run up, the sheer force was not.

man landing on the moon- I was quite young but remember it distinctly watching on our old dodgy black and white tv

chernobyl- I was at uni, and it was clear that cover up was being done by Russia, and bbc/gov playing down the spread to Europe and impact on farm land. Russia took over a week to start to admit scale and cause. Welsh Sheep were eventually deemed contaminated. It was like the “China syndrome” film that had come out in 79 - didn’t seem real.

VenetiaHallisWellPosh · 13/04/2024 21:36

21/7/2005. I was at Oval station at the time. Ramzi Mohammed ran up the escalator and pegged it out of the station after attempting to bomb a train.

Also a few days later when Jean Charles de Menezes died. There's a large South American population in South London and it hit them hard.

Princess Di's funeral. I was on Whitehall next to the old Scotland Office when her coffin passed.

DryFebEmma · 13/04/2024 21:41

And another one - Jamie Bulger murder. I was 12/13 I suppose, and remember going into school the next day and the class just sitting discussing it with our teacher instead of starting normal lessons. My little brother was the same age as he was at the time of the time so it all felt even more real and heartbreaking.

elp30 · 13/04/2024 21:42

@PitterPatter3

I saw the story on the news about Take That splitting up in February 1996. I only remember because I was getting married the next day. I was a little bit bemused because it was important enough to talk about it on the evening news. However, the next day, the morning of my wedding, it was all over the tv about how distraught many of their fans were at the news and how there were extra counselors at the Samaritans and Childline.

I remember my big mouth when we were talking about it over lunch and I said that I had never heard of them. They were not popular at all in the US and I had just moved over to England a few months prior and had never actually witnessed their huge popularity in the UK. One of the young wait staff at my luncheon audibly gasped when she heard me. The manager later told me that his worker was taking the news very hard. Fair dues.

Interesting that I know where I was when Take That split up. 😂

keffie12 · 13/04/2024 21:46

Princess Diana, 9/11, and 7/7. We had family caught up in both 9/11 and 7/7

Heatherbell1978 · 13/04/2024 21:48

Dunblane - I was in the area on the day and Stirling had a feeling about the town that I'll never forget.
9/11
7/7
Diana's death
Berlin Wall coming down
Queens Death - I sobbed

Dartwarbler · 13/04/2024 21:54

DanielGault · 13/04/2024 17:16

(this is no criticism of anyone, I haven't said anything about NI myself here) but isn't it a bit mad that all the NI bloodshed has barely come up here? Like we were all totally immune to it?

Not really, I think it was not a single event that you remember specifically where you were. I was born 1963, I don’t remember a time as a child when there wasn’t a risk of bombing and or of terror attacked. I remember my dad coming back from cathedral services ( he was layclerk) on multiple occasions saying they’d got bomb warnings and evacuation. The sad bit is we grew up accepting it as the norm

i thought about the Yorkshire ripper too: but again sadly no one single event .just a slow increase in cases, the fake geordie tapes, and then a possible attack in our town (years later accepted as likely victim) and impact that had on after school clubs. But again no one point I remember where I was when I heard….

DevonDaisy24 · 13/04/2024 21:55

resignation of Thatcher
death of John Smith Labour Leader
death of Kurt cobain
death of Princess diana
9/11

Sharkysharky · 13/04/2024 21:55

Lockerbie. I was only 5 but remember seeing it on the news while I was playing with toys on the living room floor. I didn't understand at the time what had happened and asked my mum what all the stuff in the field was.
Twin Tower attacks, was about to start a part time job shift and the boss had the little TV on as usual. As I put my bags and coat on the seating I saw it broadcast. We all started late that day, we were in disbelief. We were allowed to watch it for a bit on TV.
Diana, I'd left my radio on during the night by accident so my dream was basically what they reported. I woke up really confused when I heard it on the radio.
I do remember Take That splitting and consoling my friend at school. Sitting with my arm around her while she sobbed.
When Freddie Mercury died and it was on the news, I remember my mum was really upset in the living room. She loved Queen.

Enigma52 · 13/04/2024 21:57

Death of Diana
9/11
MS Herald of Free Enterprise disaster
Death of the Queen

YaMuvva · 13/04/2024 21:59

I was on a clubbing holiday with my friend on 7/7, Kavos, this was before people took mobile phones abroad. We had been at a water park all day and on the bus on the way back the news was spreading and someone put the TV to watch the news but it was really grainy and all in Greek so someone eventually shut it off (which resulted in a fight).

When we got back to the resort, the queues for the telephone boxes were nothing like I’ve ever seen before. some people were fighting over getting to them. Someone in our hotel had lost their brother in the attack and was smashing glasses all around the pool in anger and crying like I’ve never seen a man cry. It was absolutely horrific. the desperation for all the Londoners on holiday hoping to get in touch with their relatives was something else.

Sworntofun · 13/04/2024 22:11

Lockerbie- someone on the flight was a pupil at the school I then taught at.

When Labour won a landslide election victory in 1997

Diana’s death- was in France at the time listening to Radio 4 and could hardly believe what I was hearing.

9/11 At work in a different school. Break time and someone from the office where they had a TV ran into the staff room and told us. How I managed to go back to class and teach I’ll never know.

thefamous5 · 13/04/2024 22:24

Diana's death - I was just about to start high school. We had come back from a holiday the night before and my ma called up
To my dad that di was dead.

Dunblane: I was only in primary school but all the ma's picking up the kids were crying, and we heard them all talking about it

7/7 bombings - I was on work experience in a school and was in staff room when the secretary came in and told us

Prince Philip's death - I was trying in my wedding dress because I was getting married the next morning

9/11 - was at high school, friend who had a mobile was phoned by her ma and then she told us

Cherrysoup · 13/04/2024 22:28

Diana’s death, was woken up by the very loud TV downstairs in the bnb we were staying in for my db’s wedding.

Grenfell, one of our students escaped and came in to do her Physics exam! (Passed!)

9/11-my colleague came screaming into my classroom to get me, we watched the plane hit the tower in absolute disbelief.

7/7, it was announced in the staffroom, I was very worried about a friend who I knew would likely be nearby.