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camel ride when I weigh 15stone

186 replies

KathySeldon · 06/04/2024 19:32

Husband wats to book a camel ride on holiday next week.
I'm feeling that I am too heavy to go on a camel.
AIBU to think that?

OP posts:
ontheflighttosingapore · 06/04/2024 21:22

Why anyone would do this to the poor animals I really don't understand it's very cruel no matter what the weight

2024theplot · 06/04/2024 21:22

MolkosTeenageAngst · 06/04/2024 19:56

Do you feel the same about the horses in riding stables which children in the UK regularly frequent to learn to ride? What about the horses which are used by charities such as RDA for riding for the disabled? Horses are used to have people ride them to make money and I never see anyone moan about that in the UK.

I've never met a horse that wasn't looked after exceptionally well. If I'd witnessed abused riding school horses then I would completely feel the same way about this as I do about camel rides. Animal abuse is abhorrent no matter the animal.

piefacedClique · 06/04/2024 21:24

Is it Lanzarote? Weight wise you’ll be fine. There are lots of amazing ways to experience the volcanoes if it is without going on the camels. We usually just take the kids for a wee look and then do our own thing

2024theplot · 06/04/2024 21:24

OP I forgot to add to my comment, quad bike rides across the desert are really fun, and go much faster than a camel, with none of the animal abuse.

KoolKookaburra · 06/04/2024 21:26

It's like swimming with dolphins just don't do it

TheGirlInTheGreenDress · 06/04/2024 21:30

We went on a camel last month. Weight 13 stone and DH is about 15. Camel coped fine. We weren’t the largest people there at that time.

JJathome · 06/04/2024 21:32

I think in the uk we understand that animals shouldn’t be used for entertainment like this. Why does your husband not understand this, nor do you it seems and are only worried about your weight?

tonyhawks23 · 06/04/2024 21:41

I would decide not to do it on animal welfare grounds, nothing to do with your weight though. choose something more ethical generally.

VeryStressedMum · 06/04/2024 21:45

WiddlinDiddlin · 06/04/2024 20:25

On the other hand, if you don't go, don't pay to ride, camel owner has less money, camel gets less food...

Don't ride. Do donate some camel food/cash to a charity that helps working animals.

yes, these animals lead hard lives, are often abused via neglect and ignorance and the difficulty in finding proper treatment. But on the whole so are the people, its out of necessity, and ignorance, not malicious.

The point of not partaking in camel or any other animal rides is to hopefully make using animals not profitable in the tourist trade so it stops.
It's not just about that one particular animal which needs fed

trythisforsize · 06/04/2024 21:50

MolkosTeenageAngst · 06/04/2024 19:56

Do you feel the same about the horses in riding stables which children in the UK regularly frequent to learn to ride? What about the horses which are used by charities such as RDA for riding for the disabled? Horses are used to have people ride them to make money and I never see anyone moan about that in the UK.

The UK has pretty high animal welfare standards compared to the rest of the world. The examples you cite are usually extremely well run or they wouldn't be in operation.

bumblefeline · 06/04/2024 21:58

I was the only one who refused to go on a camel in Lanzarote and I weighed about 12 stone at the time, I don't think your weight would be an issue I just felt sad for the camels trundling up the hill with loads of entitled people on them

Ratfan24 · 06/04/2024 21:59

Camels are very strong, a healthy camel can carry a load of 300lbs easily. Having said that it's true they may not be well cared for and could be overworked in tourist areas.

HausofHolbein · 06/04/2024 22:21

Animals should never be tourist attractions.

If you pay for the same, you are complicit in abuse.

Clarinetiu · 06/04/2024 22:40

Most men over 5 ten going to be 15 stone

WiddlinDiddlin · 06/04/2024 22:51

trythisforsize · 06/04/2024 21:11

On the other hand, if you don't go, don't pay to ride, camel owner has less money, camel gets less food...

. . . or camel owner accept there's no money in this anymore and finds another trade

Some do.

The camel gets sold on to someone else, or eaten, or left to forage rubbish dumps for food if its not even got enough meat on it to eat.

SallyWD · 06/04/2024 22:53

Clarinetiu · 06/04/2024 22:40

Most men over 5 ten going to be 15 stone

I disagree. My DH is 5ft 11, overweight and still weighs less than 15 stone.

lotsofpeoplenametheirswords · 06/04/2024 22:53

Ratfan24 · 06/04/2024 21:59

Camels are very strong, a healthy camel can carry a load of 300lbs easily. Having said that it's true they may not be well cared for and could be overworked in tourist areas.

I can carry quite a bit. Doesn't mean I want to or should be forced to.

Alwayswonderedwhy · 06/04/2024 22:56

I wouldn't take part in animal cruelty at any weight.

Monkeybusiness09 · 06/04/2024 22:58

No you can't ride a camel. I would be so embarrassed..

WiddlinDiddlin · 06/04/2024 22:59

VeryStressedMum · 06/04/2024 21:45

The point of not partaking in camel or any other animal rides is to hopefully make using animals not profitable in the tourist trade so it stops.
It's not just about that one particular animal which needs fed

Mm.. and if everyone all at the same time stopped funding it, maybe that would happen (it wouldn't, they'd move to shifting rubbish or other haulage, certainly in Egypt anyway, im not talking about anywhere else) - the reality is when just a few people do this, its not just camels going hungry, its people and their children too.

But hey as long as us tourists feel better!

NatM70 · 06/04/2024 23:02

KathySeldon · 06/04/2024 19:32

Husband wats to book a camel ride on holiday next week.
I'm feeling that I am too heavy to go on a camel.
AIBU to think that?

I don't agree with animals being used like this, no matter one's weight.
It's cruel.

YaMuvva · 06/04/2024 23:03

Sorry but you are too heavy, it wouldn’t be fair on the camel. Although that’s not the main reason you shouldn’t do it - these kinds of things are very cruel practices and those who sell these ‘experiences’ are renowned for mistreating animals. I like to go to Lindos in Rhodes where there’s an acropolis ant the top of the town and locals sell donkey rides up to it as it quite hilly. The path to the Acropolis goes through the town and the donkeys pass and I want to push off every lazy prick who passes on those donkeys, they MUST see that these animals are dehydrated, have skin full of weeping sores, eye infections and are mistreated by their owners - but hey as long as they don’t have to walk up a hill ey 🙄

If people stop partaking on these practices then the mistreatment would stop.

Spendysis · 06/04/2024 23:19

I wouldn’t because I don’t agree with it. Not sure where you are going but i would be looking into the treatment and welfare of the animals first

Elephantswillnever · 06/04/2024 23:24

I’m pretty sure like everything it’s a mixed bag. I once went on a camel (dive safari) out in Egypt. I would say the camels seemed really well looked after they belonged to a Bedouin tribe and took us and our kit a couple of hours along the coast where the roads ran out and to our campsite by the beach. It wasn’t uncomfortable to sit on, you have to sit cross legged and not pretend your on a horse.

The camels working at the pyramids and mount Sinai seemed in much worse condition so would suggest staying away from the short (steep) tourist rides and find somewhere who looks after the animals properly.

I don’t think your weight would be a concern for a healthy camel.

caringcarer · 06/04/2024 23:36

I'm sure there's lots of other activities you can do.