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To be terrified I'll lose my license

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PepsiMaxx0 · 04/04/2024 10:15

I have a clean driving license. Driving for over 40 years with no incidents. Like many others I sometimes go over the limit on motorways if I consider it safe to do so....
I was travelling back from Manchester airport on the m62 during the early hours of this morning. Almost empty motorway. Doing about 80mph average I would say. Occasionally crept to 85. I noticed a camera flash on the gantry. No limits were lit up. I assumed it was from the other side and carried on. Several miles later it did it again and yes for a 3rd time which is when I thought this is too much of a coincidence it must be me! I've just woken and have that sick feeling. The only defence I can offer is motorway was empty, it was between 4 - 5 am this happened and I do not think I was driving dangerously. I just wanted to get home to bed after a late night flight. What will be the penalty for this?

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Pointshopgirl · 04/04/2024 13:36

You are not entitled to break the law and drive dangerously fast just because you wanted to get home.
You could have killed someone. Hopefully you will be punished.

AllyCart · 04/04/2024 13:40

Pointshopgirl · 04/04/2024 13:36

You are not entitled to break the law and drive dangerously fast just because you wanted to get home.
You could have killed someone. Hopefully you will be punished.

She could have killed someone doing 70mph. Or 60mph. Or 40mph...

LoveSandbanks · 04/04/2024 13:40

GasPanic · 04/04/2024 10:23

Its hard to say whether you will get fined or not. For example they might set the camera to flash only between 75 and 85 mph to give a warning. And only issue a fine if it is over 85 mph. Or they may only fine when the limits are displayed, but the cameras will still flash anyway. So you will just have to wait and see.

I have a rule never to go through those motorway gantry cameras more than 10 mph over the limit (either the full limit or what is displayed). So far I have never been fined.

If you are getting flashed it is at the very minimum a warning. So you should slow down.

80 going through a no limit gantry cam, I would be surprised if you got fined. When you take into account your speedo is also probably reading over. 85 I think is probably starting to get into the territory where it is a possibility.

At the end of the day you will just have to wait and see.

Some years ago I was driving at 80 on the motorway. I saw the car on the bridge but thought “speedo overreacting, plus a bit of generosity from the police I’ll be fine”. I wasn’t, they registered a speed of 79 and the cut off was 78. I had a clean license and was offered the speed awareness course. Almost never speed now, it doesn’t actually buy you a significant amount of time, is harder work for your brain and uses much more fuel.

CagneyAndLazy · 04/04/2024 13:43

BobnLen · 04/04/2024 13:22

Are people making it up as they go along

Undoubtedly.

Few MN threads attract such uneducated nonsense as a motoring themed one.

Iwasafool · 04/04/2024 13:47

AllyCart · 04/04/2024 13:40

She could have killed someone doing 70mph. Or 60mph. Or 40mph...

Don't the odds change as the speed goes up?

carpetmedoen · 04/04/2024 13:49

I'm sorry but you have no excuse -bad news or not
Always remember last summer reading about a pregnant woman who died when she was in the car with her sons and nephew
And an idiot speeding hit her.....

Itsaloadofbollocksbut · 04/04/2024 13:50

Iwasafool · 04/04/2024 13:47

Don't the odds change as the speed goes up?

From about 40mph up, not really.

Shade17 · 04/04/2024 13:50

EnglishBluebell · 04/04/2024 13:17

I'm sorry but it's very likely you'll lose your licence if you were flashed 3 separate times. Maximum is 9 points and you get 3 points per flash but I think there's some rule about over 80mph but I could be wrong. I know my colleague lost her licence for 12 months as she got caught once doing 90mph on the M1

Assuming what the OP told us is correct that there weren’t reduced limits in place and she currently has a clean license then there is ZERO chance that she’s getting a ban. Stop talking shite.

JosieJones1987 · 04/04/2024 13:51

carpetmedoen · 04/04/2024 13:49

I'm sorry but you have no excuse -bad news or not
Always remember last summer reading about a pregnant woman who died when she was in the car with her sons and nephew
And an idiot speeding hit her.....

Or the awful crash where the young woman was killed after the Range Rover power onto train tracks

Ihearyousingingdownthewire · 04/04/2024 13:53

This is not the place to come if you want a rational discussion about speeding, or driving in general.

Most posters appear to be intensely law-fearing, nervous drivers who drive tiny little electric hatchbacks and think anyone in anything bigger is a killer, and anyone who hits the speed limit, let alone creeps over it, is a murderer.

Jovacknockowitch · 04/04/2024 13:57

Iwasafool · 04/04/2024 13:47

Don't the odds change as the speed goes up?

As with all things, it depends entirely on circumstances - if OP hits a pedestrian on the motorway, anything over 20 mph will likely have a higher likelihood of fatality for the pedestrian, but the difference in outcome between 40 and 80 isn't likely to be much.
Of course, the time OP and others have to react is reduced with increasing speed, and the kinetic energy released is higher with higher speeds - but speeds need to be judged in context, otherwise we'd have a blanket 20mph limit on all roads including motorways (which I get the impression some posters would favour).

JosieJones1987 · 04/04/2024 13:57

Ihearyousingingdownthewire · 04/04/2024 13:53

This is not the place to come if you want a rational discussion about speeding, or driving in general.

Most posters appear to be intensely law-fearing, nervous drivers who drive tiny little electric hatchbacks and think anyone in anything bigger is a killer, and anyone who hits the speed limit, let alone creeps over it, is a murderer.

Surely you acknowledge there's a difference between accidentally hitting 2/3 mph over the limit, and intentionally driving at 80/85, while tired, and distracted, in an attempt to rush home? OP has admitted they weren't in a good frame of mind, wanting to get home faster and was well aware they were speeding.

MsFaversham · 04/04/2024 13:58

Brendabigbaps · 04/04/2024 10:37

You have no defence FULL STOP

im not sure how any if your excuses make it any better, they only make it worse! You’ll have been tired from a night flight and you had bad news so were no doubt stressed out and distracted!

maybe just take your punishment and be grateful you weren’t the cause of bad news for other people who may have been on holiday

This. You’ve got to suck up the punishment. Why you didn’t slow down after the first flash baffles me though.

Willyoujustbequiet · 04/04/2024 14:02

CagneyAndLazy · 04/04/2024 12:15

Driving at 160pmh on a motorway (if indeed you did, I'm somewhat sceptical), is an extremely stupid idea even if permissible by law.

Be as sceptical as you like, I couldn't give a shit. My car will do a genuine 194mph (over 200mph on speedo) but 160-170mph was plenty for me.

I've also done well over 100mph on public roads on the Isle of Man loads of times.

I'm perfectly happy with my choices, thanks.

And the Darwin Award goes to....

As long as you don't take some poor innocent soul with you.

Jk8 · 04/04/2024 14:04

Like many others I sometimes go over the limit on motorways if I consider it safe to do so....

yh many people also lose liscenses & gain fines for the same mentality....

Jovacknockowitch · 04/04/2024 14:04

MargaretThursday · 04/04/2024 12:52

I remember an accident near my parents. 50 limit road, duel carriageway, two lanes.
It was a collision between a hgv and a motorbike, resulting in the death of the motorcyclist. Fine day, not too sunny etc. Perfect conditions.
The hgv driver held his hands up and said "I never even saw him. I must not have looked."

Then they investigated, and found that the motorcyclist had been clocked at 150mph further up the road. His brake cable had melted in his desperation to try and brake in time to stop. The speedometer was stuck on 120mph.
Investigations showed that the hgv driver would not have been able to see him at the point he started to move out

I'm certain that the motorcyclist, had he simply been pulled over for speeding, would have said he had assessed the situation and was perfectly safe at the speed he went, and was a careful driver.
It's a pity he hadn't been pulled over.

Cool story but no road bike that can do 150mph had cable brakes - what a laugh. Even if it did, there's no heat transfer to brake cables that could melt one - it's just nonsense.

HellonHeels · 04/04/2024 14:06

Brendabigbaps · 04/04/2024 10:37

You have no defence FULL STOP

im not sure how any if your excuses make it any better, they only make it worse! You’ll have been tired from a night flight and you had bad news so were no doubt stressed out and distracted!

maybe just take your punishment and be grateful you weren’t the cause of bad news for other people who may have been on holiday

Have to agree with this.

Driving at night, after a flight, when tired, and having had bad or upsetting news is a serious set of conditions to deal with. Add significant speeding on top, well you are lucky if a fine / points/ mags court is all you have to worry about.

BotterMon · 04/04/2024 14:08

God this thread is full of pearl clutchers. You were not going very fast, yes over the limit but not excessively so, motorway was empty. Just say your name is KP as per other currently active thread and you'll get off with a slap on the wrist.

Honestly, most people speed on an empty motorway - 70mph is far lower than other European countries at 112kph. If you had been going 95-100 then that is serious speeding but not what you were doing. You've never had points in 40 years so pretty good record imo.

CagneyAndLazy · 04/04/2024 14:11

Willyoujustbequiet · 04/04/2024 14:02

And the Darwin Award goes to....

As long as you don't take some poor innocent soul with you.

Go on then, I'll bite.

Darwin Award for which?

JosieJones1987 · 04/04/2024 14:11

BotterMon · 04/04/2024 14:08

God this thread is full of pearl clutchers. You were not going very fast, yes over the limit but not excessively so, motorway was empty. Just say your name is KP as per other currently active thread and you'll get off with a slap on the wrist.

Honestly, most people speed on an empty motorway - 70mph is far lower than other European countries at 112kph. If you had been going 95-100 then that is serious speeding but not what you were doing. You've never had points in 40 years so pretty good record imo.

85mph is excessively fast.

Bridgertonned · 04/04/2024 14:16

Are people really relying on camera flashes to judge whether or not they might be done for speeding?
There's quite a few motorways around the NW now that have cameras that don't flash when they catch you. And they are certainly in use, as the pages of my local town Facebook groups will attest to!

There's one stretch with 3 cameras near me and when people have been caught it's been counted as 3 separate incidents as others have said - so if a clean licence, one speed awareness course and two sets of points/fines. And you have to pay for the course itself so its 3 lots of money iyswim

creekpassage · 04/04/2024 14:18

@PepsiMaxx0 gosh you're getting an awful bashing here! Try not to fret or let it consume you. You won't be banned!

Sorry to hear about your bad news. Don't be too hard on yourself.

Xx

WoodBurningStov · 04/04/2024 14:24

Worst case scenario you'll get 3 points per flash, best case is you'll get offered a speed awareness course for one flash and 3 points each for the others

You can have up your 12 before you lose your licence. Let's hope you haven't missed a flash to get during the trip.

goldenretrievermum5 · 04/04/2024 14:27

creekpassage · 04/04/2024 14:18

@PepsiMaxx0 gosh you're getting an awful bashing here! Try not to fret or let it consume you. You won't be banned!

Sorry to hear about your bad news. Don't be too hard on yourself.

Xx

Why should anyone have sympathy for someone who knowingly speeds? It’s not as if OP acknowledged her mistake and slowed down.. The bashing is self inflicted + deserved

1offnamechange · 04/04/2024 14:28

CagneyAndLazy · 04/04/2024 12:08

Exceeding the speed limit is automatically illegal, that is the case because it has been assessed as safe to drive up to that limit.

That's absolute genius. 😂

"Assessed" when and by whom?

The motorway speed limit has been 70mph since it was introduced, when cars were absolute death traps.

No one did any assessment whatsoever. It was an arbitrary figure plucked out of nowhere and continues to be so.

It may be perfectly safe to do 90mph on a given stretch of motorway today in perfect conditions and zero traffic. The same limit applies tomorrow when it's pissing with rain and packed with vehicles and not safe to even do 60mph.

We need to make our own judgement about what's safe, not rely on an arbitrary number while driving like a zombie.

We need to make our own judgement about what's safe, not rely on an arbitrary number while driving like a zombie.

Does this only apply to speed limits or driving generally?

"We need to make our own judgement about how much is safe to drink before driving, not rely on an arbitrary amount when alcohol affects different people differently..."

"We need to make our own judgement about what age is safe to drive, after all some 12 year olds are taller and more responsible than 17 year olds"

Indeed if we are using germany as a comparative for what we should be allowed to do on roads, how about countries where its legal to drive from 14?

Actually fuck it lets just expand it to all laws. "We need to make our own judgement about what age children are mature enough to consent to sex rather than an arbitrary age of 16."

Can't see any way that could go wrong at all.

You might think some of them are inappropriate or outdated but laws are in place for a reason and "I don't agree with them" or "they do it differently in another country" isn't a valid defence.

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