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Any other Christians annoyed at what society has turned Easter into?

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Opol · 31/03/2024 14:20

I’m resigned that the same has been done to Christmas. But for me that is “only” the birth of Christ.

As a Roman Catholic, Easter is of far more importance to me. For me, God’s love for humanity meant he sacrificed his only son. Jesus’ resurrection is literally the embodiment of the victory of light over darkness, good over evil etc.

I don’t wish to gate keep but seeing it reduced to Easter baskets and chocolate rabbits is unpleasant to witness. I’m more annoyed at society making everything hollow and superficial via consumerism and over consumption.

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goldfriarsbabby · 31/03/2024 17:03

KeinLiebeslied54321 · 31/03/2024 14:26

Some people may find it annoying that xtians lay claim to festivals that already existed by adding their god/jesus element on to it. The thing is, you cannot control what others believe or how they celebrate and it's pointless trying to, so while I don't agree with your belief system, my advice would be to mark what matters to you and extend the grace to others to let them mark it how they choose. Have a pleasant day.

This is exactly what I was going to say.

LlynTegid · 31/03/2024 17:04

Minor compared to what Christmas has become.

Mrbumpssmile · 31/03/2024 17:04

FlowerBarrow · 31/03/2024 16:55

I don’t know why posters are so keen to reference pagan origins of Easter. OP is talking about what’s happening to the modern day Easter now, not what happened 2000 years ago!

But it's about spring, new life and renewal, which is throughout time and part of our British seasonal cycle.

ImInTheBathRightNow · 31/03/2024 17:05

brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 31/03/2024 17:01

An invented rabbit vs an invented “god”. Battle of the imaginary beings. Just enjoy the chocolate.

I learnt the other day that Scandinavian countries have a cuckoo bird as their Easter bunny. Makes so much more sense to have a bad than a rabbit!

SpeedyDrama · 31/03/2024 17:05

Hankunamatata · 31/03/2024 16:42

Easter basket is madness. Same with Xmas eve box's

I find Xmas Eve boxes to be a lifesaver. I have autistic children who find Christmas as an event extremely overwhelming so don’t ’go mad’ on the day (and also do not buy into huge consumerism as it certainly is a problem). A little box the night before box with special new PJs, a book and a couple of trinkets breaks up the ‘present opening’, I don’t do a stocking to balance it out.

As I said earlier as a child growing up in the church environment Easter was a ‘big deal’. It’s just become part of the mainstream as religion is dying out but consumerism is rising.

GoonieGang · 31/03/2024 17:06

ImInTheBathRightNow · 31/03/2024 17:03

And some of us keep referencing it because other religions are being attacked by Christians trying to convert the . It’s happening today. To people who So for some to understand that Christianity did the same thing as the Op is complaining about can actually get some people to see that they don’t get to say what celebrations should be about and how others should celebrate it.

People are being attacked by Christians trying to convert them? Where? I only see JW trying the conversion thing,

Bananasandtoast · 31/03/2024 17:07

Jesus seemed like an Ok dude.
Would he be annoyed about Easter being about family fun and togetherness?
Find the sight of my 18 month old squealing with delight as he started to chew the ear off his little lindt bunny upsetting?
The chocolate bunnies aren't detracting from the light. They are the light. We are in a space and time of plenty where we can make chocolate bunnies and buy and give them with love and receive with joy.
Job done Jesus 🙌

SoupChicken · 31/03/2024 17:07

I’m not celebrating a Christian holiday when I buy Easter eggs and have a roast lamb dinner though, I’m celebrating Easter, the start of Spring which is a festival that goes back much further than Christianity.

DeanElderberry · 31/03/2024 17:07

Historians generally think Bede made up 'Eostre' because he wanted something special to explain why the Anglo Saxons called Easter 'Easter', when everyone else in Europe used a Pas . . . name derived from Passover. He couldn't accept that it was just because they faced east during the ceremonies. The Romano British and Irish Christians who were celebrating Easter in these islands for centuries before Bede came along had read the Bible and knew why they were doing what they did, but that didn't suit Bede's political ambitions.

DaisyGowan · 31/03/2024 17:07

I was at church on Friday, and again today. I've exchanged greetings with other Christians IRL and online.

I've given my Godchildren chocolate eggs, my (adult) children Lindt bunnies, and I've eaten a chocolate egg myself.

What everyone else does isn't bothering me. It doesn't impact on the sheer joy of the day as we say "Christ Is Risen!" "He is risen indeed!" to each other.

Celticliving · 31/03/2024 17:08

DaisyGowan · 31/03/2024 17:07

I was at church on Friday, and again today. I've exchanged greetings with other Christians IRL and online.

I've given my Godchildren chocolate eggs, my (adult) children Lindt bunnies, and I've eaten a chocolate egg myself.

What everyone else does isn't bothering me. It doesn't impact on the sheer joy of the day as we say "Christ Is Risen!" "He is risen indeed!" to each other.

Alleluia!

brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 31/03/2024 17:09

People are “risen” for real every day thanks to medical technology, unlike in that fake story about the guy who shat the bed in a cave then ran away.

alittleprivacy · 31/03/2024 17:09

samarrange · 31/03/2024 16:51

As non-believers we don't do anything for Easter. Christmas is harder to avoid since almost everyone does it, but if that stopped tomorrow I don't think I'd be too upset either.

That said, I do find the "Ackshually it's just the Xtians hijacking a pagan festival" argument a bit weak. If you want to celebrate the arrival of spring then do it on 1 March for meteorological spring or 21 March (20 in a leap year) for astronomical spring. Choosing to have your Jesus-free bunny/chocolate related fun on a day that varies with the phases of the moon and depends on a historical assortment of bits of theology doesn't feel very secular or pagan.

Celebrating on the first Sunday after the first new moon after the spring equinox isn't especially Christian is it?

Vegetus · 31/03/2024 17:10

Zombie jesus is risen.

VolvoFan · 31/03/2024 17:11

Primrosepalmtree · 31/03/2024 16:59

Didn’t call you a Russian bot. Asked you if you are one. I’ve just been reading that Russia are purposefully trying to create division in the UK by flooding SM with controversial views. Your views are pretty out there and seem to be designed to create controversy. Valid question.

Well it doesn't matter how I answer, does it? Lots of outlets say all kind of things and you think my opinions are divisive. That's fair enough. I'm not going to change them to make you more comfortable.

No, I'm not a Russian bot. I'm a human being with opinions that often go against the grain. Deal with it.

DanielGault · 31/03/2024 17:11

DaisyGowan · 31/03/2024 17:07

I was at church on Friday, and again today. I've exchanged greetings with other Christians IRL and online.

I've given my Godchildren chocolate eggs, my (adult) children Lindt bunnies, and I've eaten a chocolate egg myself.

What everyone else does isn't bothering me. It doesn't impact on the sheer joy of the day as we say "Christ Is Risen!" "He is risen indeed!" to each other.

That's it though, that's your faith and it brings you joy. I hope you're having a lovely day. But we should all be able to enjoy the day regardless of beliefs. Chocolate eggs included.

Springingintolife · 31/03/2024 17:14

Opol · 31/03/2024 14:35

“Modern day Wiccans or pagans might go outside to meditate and perform a simple ritual to welcome the spring. Another common way to celebrate the coming spring is to plant seeds”.

This is beautiful to me. What does our society push? Things more things.

most of society is pushing meditation these days- shops are embracing mindfulness as their marketing strategies and social media is littered with meditation practices. lots of celebrities, schools and the nhs endorse mindfulness.

ImInTheBathRightNow · 31/03/2024 17:14

GoonieGang · 31/03/2024 17:06

People are being attacked by Christians trying to convert them? Where? I only see JW trying the conversion thing,

Brazilian tribes are at risk of disease from missionaries. It could wipe out populations. Christians don’t care because Jesus.

Itsnamechange · 31/03/2024 17:15

It’s hilarious that as a Christian you are complaining about the co-opting of Christian holidays into something non-Christian when that’s exactly what Christians did with Pagan festivals.

IDontHateRainbows · 31/03/2024 17:15

It's a festival to mark the beginning of spring. I think that's worth celebrating! Most cultures do.

DiscoBeat · 31/03/2024 17:16

You can choose whether to go to church or stay at home and eat a chocolate bunny though. I think most people's beliefs are well catered for

ImInTheBathRightNow · 31/03/2024 17:16

DeanElderberry · 31/03/2024 17:07

Historians generally think Bede made up 'Eostre' because he wanted something special to explain why the Anglo Saxons called Easter 'Easter', when everyone else in Europe used a Pas . . . name derived from Passover. He couldn't accept that it was just because they faced east during the ceremonies. The Romano British and Irish Christians who were celebrating Easter in these islands for centuries before Bede came along had read the Bible and knew why they were doing what they did, but that didn't suit Bede's political ambitions.

No, they don’t ‘generally’ think that. SOME skeptics have out this forward as a theory, that is all. Stop manipulating things to suit your agenda.

ExSJA · 31/03/2024 17:16

GoonieGang · 31/03/2024 17:06

People are being attacked by Christians trying to convert them? Where? I only see JW trying the conversion thing,

Read up on the hideous Operation Christmas Child shoe boxes for one.

Whatafustercluck · 31/03/2024 17:16

I'm not religious, but I agree with you about consumerism and find Christmas hard for the same reason. It just seems like a bit of a sad indictment on today's society, materialism and the ever increasing gap between rich and poor (people constantly attempting to keep up with others, even when they don't have the means, because their kids get picked on if they don't have the latest designer labels etc).

But as I said, I am not religious. Easter for me heralds the start of Spring after a long, dull Winter. It's the start of happier times again, walks outside, taking in the beauty of nature and spending time with friends and family. I think that's a perfectly valid thing to celebrate at Easter, whilst respecting that others hold different beliefs.

Springingintolife · 31/03/2024 17:16

alittleprivacy · 31/03/2024 17:09

Celebrating on the first Sunday after the first new moon after the spring equinox isn't especially Christian is it?

this is a great point. a lot of Christians bash anything to do with beliefs cantered around nature or astrology as witchcraft or devil worshipping.