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To be pissed at my name being laughed at constantly

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NotAmazonAlexa · 27/03/2024 19:43

So I'll let you guess my name.....

Today I had a hospital procedure and every member of staff laughed at my name. I was asked if it really was my name and what the weather forecast is for tomorrow.

On the form I had to fill out first it asked what you would like to be called so I put my nickname to hopefully avoid this but that didn't work. I didn't say anything as I didn't want to make it awkward and wanted the procedure over with as soon as possible.

Not the first time this has happened, at a different hospital last month one nurse couldn't stop laughing and asking me questions..

I'm in my late 40's, used to love my name but it's becoming a nightmare.

Fuck you Amazon

OP posts:
pigsDOfly · 30/03/2024 19:28

What the hell is the matter with people, do they think they're still 5 years old and in the playground?

Very unprofessional behaviour from the hospital staff. As pp said, a hard stare is all you need as a response to such stupidity.

Alexia is such a lovely name. Don't let them make you feel you have to change it, or, as pp suggested, call yourself something like Alex.

Retiredfromearlyyears · 30/03/2024 19:30

Could've been Siri! 😆 🤣

OnlineDream · 30/03/2024 19:33

I would probably launch a complaint against the staff. Really unprofessional and rude of them.

Pookerrod · 30/03/2024 19:35

MerryChristmasToYou · 27/03/2024 19:53

I know an Alexa. It's never crossed my mind to joke or comment on her name.

This.

If anything her name makes me think of the Mulberry Alexa handbag, therefore Alexa Chung, so chic, classic and stylish.

ManchesterLu · 30/03/2024 19:41

The problem is, people will think they're the first person to ever have made a joke.

I had a woman on my team called Alexa in my previous job, and every fucking time we had a team meeting it kicked my Alexa off - I always forgot to turn it off until it happened the first time.. and when the woman was first addressed, everyone's would go off haha.

Conkersinautumn · 30/03/2024 19:41

You've got to practice the hard stare and slow single.eyebrow raise. Totally ridiculous of them.

exerciseshmexercise · 30/03/2024 19:43

I would actually report them for that.

ChiefWrangler · 30/03/2024 19:46

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MaybeDonkey · 30/03/2024 19:49

I'd swap you for mine in a heartbeat - Karen. Alexa is a lovely name.

NotAmazonAlexa · 30/03/2024 19:49

Conkersinautumn · 30/03/2024 19:41

You've got to practice the hard stare and slow single.eyebrow raise. Totally ridiculous of them.

Will be giving this a go

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CestLaVie123 · 30/03/2024 19:49

A poor boy at my daughter's school is named Anal

IamMoodyBlue · 30/03/2024 19:50

It's ill mannered, childish and utterly unprofessional.
You''re not alone in having your name hijacked. Think of everyone called Chris & the programme Everybody Hates Chris.
Or anyone with the surname Simpson!

Whereareallthemillionaires · 30/03/2024 19:54

Obviously given your first post it has to be something to do with the weather
because the doctors asked you what the weathers like today
so
weather
forecast
storm (y)
sun (ny)
shower(s)
drizzle
snow (ey)
Rain, rainy or ( ing)
overcast
thunder
lightning ( very very frightening, Galileo…sorry you need to be a bit old for that joke )
hurricane
windy
cloud (y) or ( s)
gale
tornado
hail
fog
humidity
precipitation
temperature
freezing
boiling
sweltering
frost
icey
gail
monsoon

i can’t think of any more.
was even a bit near @NotAmazonAlexa

wonderingwhatlifemeans · 30/03/2024 19:57

I recently taught an Alexa. Lovely girl lovely name.

MyNDfamily · 30/03/2024 19:58

I used to know someone who called her daughter Alexa, I have thought about them actually and wondered if this sort of thing happens. I also walk in a park where there's a Dog called Isis.

There's no way that appropriate for NHS staff to react like that. I can't believe that. That's awful.

Whereareallthemillionaires · 30/03/2024 19:59

Whereareallthemillionaires · 30/03/2024 19:54

Obviously given your first post it has to be something to do with the weather
because the doctors asked you what the weathers like today
so
weather
forecast
storm (y)
sun (ny)
shower(s)
drizzle
snow (ey)
Rain, rainy or ( ing)
overcast
thunder
lightning ( very very frightening, Galileo…sorry you need to be a bit old for that joke )
hurricane
windy
cloud (y) or ( s)
gale
tornado
hail
fog
humidity
precipitation
temperature
freezing
boiling
sweltering
frost
icey
gail
monsoon

i can’t think of any more.
was even a bit near @NotAmazonAlexa

Ok
Ive just realised I’ve completely wasted my time🤣🤣🤣as it looks like it’s some modern technology stuff I don’t use.
Tbh if your name is Alexa ( I’ve seen adverts so I know what it is ) it wouldn’t occur to me to laugh. I wouldn’t even put the two together.

I think it’s a lovely name !

housethatbuiltme · 30/03/2024 20:01

I thought it was going to be Misty Days or something with the weather comment.

Alexa isn't weird, if it really super bothers you you could use deedpoll to add may an 's' to the end and be Alexas.

housethatbuiltme · 30/03/2024 20:04

CestLaVie123 · 30/03/2024 19:49

A poor boy at my daughter's school is named Anal

There a boy at DS school called Karren, his family are middle eastern immigrants so I assume its cultural but first time I saw it I did think 'poor kid, not just a girls name here but one with such a big cultural reputation'.

phoenixrosehere · 30/03/2024 20:06

DreamerIzzy · 30/03/2024 18:20

Ocean is a beautiful name

It is.

The only name I would raise an eyebrow on is Kennethina, the rest to me aren’t bad. Not everyone has the same connotations when it comes to names or cares to the point that they would ridicule or think lesser of someone because of it.

Mayana1 · 30/03/2024 20:20

TeenyTinyCrocodile · 27/03/2024 20:51

They should have been (better) trained about that.

Indeed, but one can only wonder how people can get through recruitment and then years of training for professional jobs such as these and still need (more) training, as though common courtesy and a professional attitude towards patients is some kind of mystical extra that a good proportion of these staff need help to figure out.

Your toes would curl if I wrote out all the disrespectful patronising rubbish (and sometimes downright discrimination) trotted out to my quite old (and seems older due to a disability) parent, that is supposedly amusing in a beneficial way to him (it isn't).

Trained??? You can not be trained to be kind or respectful. You either are or you are not. And those who can not be, should not be working with people in the first place.

Runnerinthenight · 30/03/2024 20:26

Tell them you predict fog - because they're dull and wet!!

( I think Prince Charles called his ex BIL 'Foggy' for this reason!!)

Change yours to Alexis?

SeaBreezeDewberryMusk · 30/03/2024 20:28

DreamerIzzy · 30/03/2024 18:20

Ocean is a beautiful name

Ocean is ridiculous as a name for a human being. I can’t imagine an adult being taken seriously with a ‘name’ like that.

The most ridiculous ‘name’ I have ever heard is Tequila. 🙄

Seriously, WTF is wrong with the name Karen? It’s a normal name and far better than stupid ‘names’ like Gift, Patience, Apple, Ocean, Paris.

Alexa sounds like a normal name to me.

LateAF · 30/03/2024 20:31

SeaBreezeDewberryMusk · 30/03/2024 20:28

Ocean is ridiculous as a name for a human being. I can’t imagine an adult being taken seriously with a ‘name’ like that.

The most ridiculous ‘name’ I have ever heard is Tequila. 🙄

Seriously, WTF is wrong with the name Karen? It’s a normal name and far better than stupid ‘names’ like Gift, Patience, Apple, Ocean, Paris.

Alexa sounds like a normal name to me.

Gift, Patience - culturally appropriate names in many west African countries. Just because it sounds silly to you doesn’t mean it is- not very nice to call names stupid. There isn’t just one English speaking culture.

Runnerinthenight · 30/03/2024 20:32

*dull, wet and thick actually - and King Charles!!!

RosesAndHellebores · 30/03/2024 20:35

SeaBreezeDewberryMusk · 30/03/2024 20:28

Ocean is ridiculous as a name for a human being. I can’t imagine an adult being taken seriously with a ‘name’ like that.

The most ridiculous ‘name’ I have ever heard is Tequila. 🙄

Seriously, WTF is wrong with the name Karen? It’s a normal name and far better than stupid ‘names’ like Gift, Patience, Apple, Ocean, Paris.

Alexa sounds like a normal name to me.

You do realise how rude and biased your post is I hope.