My step kids mum has recently gotten a dog. She works nights and the children have started "wanting to bring their dog" when they come to ours. I suspect what is actually going on is she is starting to feel guilty leaving a dog by itself all night and so is encouraging the kids to desperately "want" to bring their dog with them here.
Aibu to say no more bringing the dog with them?
They stay 3 nights a week and DH goes to work early so I'm the one who ends up in the house all day with it or until their mum sometimes decides to pick it up on her way home in the mornings.
AIBU?
To say no more bringing the dog to our house
Toopytoop · 26/03/2024 22:20
Am I being unreasonable?
754 votes. Final results.
POLLCopperoliverbear · 26/03/2024 22:49
Yes you are being unreasonable, why an earth would you want to leave a poor animal alone all night, when you could have it at yours and look after it and make it feel safe.
Copperoliverbear · 26/03/2024 22:49
Yes you are being unreasonable, why an earth would you want to leave a poor animal alone all night, when you could have it at yours and look after it and make it feel safe.
Copperoliverbear · 26/03/2024 22:49
Yes you are being unreasonable, why an earth would you want to leave a poor animal alone all night, when you could have it at yours and look after it and make it feel safe.
Copperoliverbear · 26/03/2024 22:49
Yes you are being unreasonable, why an earth would you want to leave a poor animal alone all night, when you could have it at yours and look after it and make it feel safe.
muckymayhem · 26/03/2024 22:57
Errr, no not unreasonable! It's not your dog. But I guess it will be harder now than if you had said no originally.
I have step DC and never did their mother ask us to look after her dog or send it with SDC. If you liked the dog and it was nice to share it that would be one thing, but you don't want it so just say so. Or take up some activity which means you aren't available anymore.
Lovepeaceunderstanding · 26/03/2024 22:59
Your house, your rules but the children may have genuinely bonded with the dog; is it that bad having it?
Copperoliverbear · 26/03/2024 22:49
Yes you are being unreasonable, why an earth would you want to leave a poor animal alone all night, when you could have it at yours and look after it and make it feel safe.
Copperoliverbear · 26/03/2024 22:49
Yes you are being unreasonable, why an earth would you want to leave a poor animal alone all night, when you could have it at yours and look after it and make it feel safe.
converseandjeans · 26/03/2024 23:09
DH should get up & walk it before he goes out & then she needs to collect on her way home. It's ridiculous she just leaves it with you all day
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Copperoliverbear · 26/03/2024 23:28
@Toopytoop I just feel if you can do a kind thing for someone or something you should.
The kids love their dog and he is now part of their family as are you.
I just feel if you do kind things eventually you get rewarded and if i could help someone I would.
I certainly would not want to leave a dog home alone all night, incase of fire, but that's just me.
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