My friend painted me a picture. The sentiment was lovely but I really hate it. It's not my taste and not in keeping with my house. I keep it behind the TV and hang it whenever she comes to visit so I don't hurt her feelings as she is really proud of this piece and spent many weeks making it. I'm moving to a new house and I don't want to be carrying things that I don't like or want to my new home. I want to take the frame and bin the actual painting. She's a good friend and she is likely to visit and possibly ask where the art is.
AIBU to put the painting in the bin?
AIBU?
Should I bin my friend's art?
Joyjazz · 25/03/2024 20:39
Am I being unreasonable?
2021 votes. Final results.
POLLWombTangClan · 25/03/2024 20:43
Will need to see a picture to properly advise, I'm afraid
Goldenboysmum · 25/03/2024 20:43
Could you hang it in your bedroom the first time she visits, and show her.
Then bin it or whatever, she's not going to expect to see it if she thinks it's in your room.
RicePuddingWithCinnamon · 25/03/2024 20:50
Here it is
WombTangClan · 25/03/2024 20:43
Will need to see a picture to properly advise, I'm afraid
WimpoleHat · 25/03/2024 20:52
We collect work from a particular artist. I bought a painting of his on eBay last week which he had obviously presented to some close friends as a wedding gift (there was a handwritten inscription on the back). And I thought it was so sad that they’d sold it; I’m sure he’d be upset if he knew. It’s a really personal thing. You don’t have to hang it, but it seems so unfeeling to put it in the bin. Wrap it up and stock it under the bed or whatever.
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CaterhamReconstituted · 25/03/2024 20:52
My goodness that is dreadful and a bit creepy. Actually, get rid of it. Loads of things get lost in house moves so just put it down to that.
RicePuddingWithCinnamon · 25/03/2024 20:50
Here it is
WombTangClan · 25/03/2024 20:43
Will need to see a picture to properly advise, I'm afraid
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