If men & women are equal
Then it stands to reason that toxic femininity is a real phenomenon
However it does not seem to be widely acknowledged or permitted to be discussed in society
As a 40 something woman have experienced this phenomenon & read of it here
Examples that spring to mind include:
- Culture of "cliques" which often lead to bullying & ostracising behaviour
- Using tears as a manipulation tactic
- Becoming involved in affairs & being the "other" woman
- Judging others for different life choices (Eg: not having a career, being "broke")
- Hateful behaviour towards those who don't identify with or agree with Feminist agendas
- Focus on appearance (Eg: minimising the risk of botox/plastic surgery to others, reluctance to form friendships with those they perceive as "daggy" - see cliques)
- Obsession towards drinking wine as a personality trait
Now many women do not partake in such negative & socially damaging behaviours
& most of these examples are of toxicity towards other women which is interesting
But that doesn't mean that toxic femininity is not real, does it?
Are we just our own worst enemy?
AIBU to find the culture of toxic femininity worthy of discussion?