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To think using paper plates is the height of lazy.

289 replies

TheDarkHouse · 24/03/2024 18:02

I keep seeing reels and videos of people, mostly (if not all) Americans serving up dinner on either polystyrene plates or paper plates.

AIBU to think that’s laziness/time saving/convenience too far? Most videos these people have decent kitchens so presumably can house a dishwasher. Not that hard, nor time consuming to stack plates.

Disposable tableware for day to day dining seems the height of laziness.

OP posts:
Quatty · 25/03/2024 10:46

US family KNOW they aren’t recyclable - I asked and they said no because of the plastic coating. The literally don’t give a shit, but then they have just bought their DD a SUV for her 16th which means a family of 4 now own 4 m x SUVs ( 2 of them are 7 seaters) all living in the one house so I suppose I shouldn’t be surprised that they use paper and plastic plates, and drink only single use bottled water.

DdraigGoch · 25/03/2024 10:57

DonnaBanana · 25/03/2024 10:31

Look. Number one, I think landfill is vilified too much. If you took a disused quarry or something you could literally dump rubbish in it for decades without filling it up. We have so much space on this planet and holes in the ground we can fill up without having to burn the rubbish or even drop it into a volcano.

Number two, I put paper plates in the recycling (after giving them a rinse and scraping all the food/dirt off so they look clean) and I’ve never heard anything negative back.

Landfill generates methane, which is a greenhouse gas. There are also not enough disused quarries for us to create endless waste. If you're rinsing and scraping the plates you might as well wash up properly.

I also can't work out how people can tolerate using flimsy disposable plates. Eating is less pleasurable from a piece of thin card than it is from proper crockery. I also don't like drinking water out of a plastic bottle, it tastes weird.

catherinewales · 25/03/2024 11:10

It is lazy and that's the point. No one has ever died eating from a paper plate. I use to judge a family member for this but you know now, I do the same sometimes. Who has time to wash dishes every single day 😂.

Comedycook · 25/03/2024 11:44

Who has time to wash dishes every single day

Eh? Washing up is a perfectly normal daily chore.

starfishmummy · 25/03/2024 12:05

EmilyPlay · 24/03/2024 18:51

I'd happily eat a sandwich or a bit of cake off a paper plate. Anything with gravy not so much.

Exactly. And trying to cut food up with a plastic knife, nope!

Being lazy here means eating my lunch off the unwashed plate from my breakfast toast, not grabbing something disposable.

OutOfTheHouse · 25/03/2024 12:36

DonnaBanana · 25/03/2024 10:31

Look. Number one, I think landfill is vilified too much. If you took a disused quarry or something you could literally dump rubbish in it for decades without filling it up. We have so much space on this planet and holes in the ground we can fill up without having to burn the rubbish or even drop it into a volcano.

Number two, I put paper plates in the recycling (after giving them a rinse and scraping all the food/dirt off so they look clean) and I’ve never heard anything negative back.

If the helps you sleep at night…..

Honestly, I’m glad I won’t have children alive to see the shit show everyone thinks it’s ok.

Crabble · 25/03/2024 12:38

Lemoncokezero · 25/03/2024 07:42

It's not a strange comment in the context of the reply. People are saying oh its OK if people are disabled. Like we have an excuse for use of paper plates. So my question is how are you able to know this? Hth

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You are completely missing the point. Obviously no one knows who is or isn’t disabled in a way which means they need paper plates.
The posters are talking about general propositions about paper plate use, not talking about judging specific individuals for their actions.

ANGIEPANGY77 · 25/03/2024 13:04

DdraigGoch · 24/03/2024 23:56

Just to clarify, this thread has seen one Southerner and one Midwesterner who say that they don't know anyone who uses paper plates for daily use (as opposed to parties etc.). Are you saying that you do use them routinely? Is that common amongst your acquaintances? Which part of the country are you in?

I live in Virginia. One of my greatest pleasures is entertaining family and friends. It is an opportunity use all of my lovely china and serveware. Daily, I use regular crockery. For outdoor barbeques, it is paper plates.

C8H10N4O2 · 25/03/2024 13:12

TheDarkHouse · 24/03/2024 18:02

I keep seeing reels and videos of people, mostly (if not all) Americans serving up dinner on either polystyrene plates or paper plates.

AIBU to think that’s laziness/time saving/convenience too far? Most videos these people have decent kitchens so presumably can house a dishwasher. Not that hard, nor time consuming to stack plates.

Disposable tableware for day to day dining seems the height of laziness.

You are seeing lots of them because you watch them so TikTok will serve up more of what you watch.

That does not equate to "Americans all use paper plates", it just means "TheDarkHorse watches TikToks of Americans using paper plates".

I watched a video of someone changing a radiator valve recently, resulting in a lengthy feed of people changing radiator valves and similar. Perhaps I should assume that all Brits are regularly changing radiator valves.

veryangrymot · 25/03/2024 13:27

Paper plates for children parties only. I have no idea how these Americans can use them during regular evening family dinners. Appalling.

CheeseSandwichRiskAssessment · 25/03/2024 13:38

I'm from the US originally and have never seen this except in places selling pizza by the slice (sometimes two stapled together to keep the slice hot) or at a large barbecue.
My parents would use real plates for parties even before they had a dishwasher!

EmilyPlay · 25/03/2024 14:36

I wonder how many of you walk about clutching your Pret/Starbucks/Nero disposable coffee cups.

DonnaBanana · 25/03/2024 15:19

Comedycook · 25/03/2024 11:44

Who has time to wash dishes every single day

Eh? Washing up is a perfectly normal daily chore.

I beg to be different. If you're going down that line of thinking, then surely it is bad we all use toilet paper as well. That all gets flushed down the toilet and is not recycled. We could have bidets and not use toilet paper at all. Using toilet paper and using paper plates are two sides of the same coin.

ThePoshUns · 25/03/2024 15:38

Don't be so ridiculous @DonnaBanana

BlueBadgeHolder · 25/03/2024 16:32

Some Americans do use paper plates for family dinners.

MaloneMeadow · 25/03/2024 16:53

EmilyPlay · 25/03/2024 14:36

I wonder how many of you walk about clutching your Pret/Starbucks/Nero disposable coffee cups.

Well obviously… nobody is going to carry a china mug around a city. At home is a very different matter - you don’t need safe, disposable convenience there.

DdraigGoch · 25/03/2024 17:02

EmilyPlay · 25/03/2024 14:36

I wonder how many of you walk about clutching your Pret/Starbucks/Nero disposable coffee cups.

Nope, I don't do that either.

MamaWillYouBuyMeAWillYouBuyMeABanana · 25/03/2024 17:06

MaloneMeadow · 25/03/2024 16:53

Well obviously… nobody is going to carry a china mug around a city. At home is a very different matter - you don’t need safe, disposable convenience there.

Ah so it's OK to do terrible things for the environment when it's convenient to you for your own reasons, but not when other people do convenient things for their reasons?

The hypocrisy on this thread is laughable.

Sparklesocks · 25/03/2024 17:08

DonnaBanana · 25/03/2024 15:19

I beg to be different. If you're going down that line of thinking, then surely it is bad we all use toilet paper as well. That all gets flushed down the toilet and is not recycled. We could have bidets and not use toilet paper at all. Using toilet paper and using paper plates are two sides of the same coin.

This isn’t the gotcha you think it is. Loo roll disintegrates and breaks down in the sewer, food residue/grease on paper plates (often made with a plastic film too) often can not be recycled and don’t break down like loo roll does. But yes, doesn’t mean you need to shove a huge wedge of it down the pipes if not needed.

Plus some cultures use a lota rather than loo roll.

MaloneMeadow · 25/03/2024 17:10

MamaWillYouBuyMeAWillYouBuyMeABanana · 25/03/2024 17:06

Ah so it's OK to do terrible things for the environment when it's convenient to you for your own reasons, but not when other people do convenient things for their reasons?

The hypocrisy on this thread is laughable.

When did I say it was convenient to me for my own reasons? Would you like me to head to my local Caffè Nero + Costa and demand that they stop using disposable cups because MN said so? Get a grip

There is absolutely no good reason to be using disposable cups, cutlery or plates at home. If you can somehow justify that then you have an issue with severe laziness.

K0OLA1D · 25/03/2024 17:10

catherinewales · 25/03/2024 11:10

It is lazy and that's the point. No one has ever died eating from a paper plate. I use to judge a family member for this but you know now, I do the same sometimes. Who has time to wash dishes every single day 😂.

Pretty much everyone I know

DdraigGoch · 25/03/2024 17:13

DonnaBanana · 25/03/2024 15:19

I beg to be different. If you're going down that line of thinking, then surely it is bad we all use toilet paper as well. That all gets flushed down the toilet and is not recycled. We could have bidets and not use toilet paper at all. Using toilet paper and using paper plates are two sides of the same coin.

Toilet paper has no plastic coating and therefore biodegrades, all solid matter will get sieved out at the sewage treatment works and either used as fertiliser or used to generate energy.

DdraigGoch · 25/03/2024 17:15

MaloneMeadow · 25/03/2024 16:53

Well obviously… nobody is going to carry a china mug around a city. At home is a very different matter - you don’t need safe, disposable convenience there.

My parents have reusable cups with lids.

OutOfTheHouse · 25/03/2024 17:33

EmilyPlay · 25/03/2024 14:36

I wonder how many of you walk about clutching your Pret/Starbucks/Nero disposable coffee cups.

Firstly, never.
Secondly, an occasional paper cup is not the same as using paper plate at home which have an easy to use and cheap alternative.

MaloneMeadow · 25/03/2024 17:36

DdraigGoch · 25/03/2024 17:15

My parents have reusable cups with lids.

Which is great until you’re left walking around with a dirty cup that you can’t store in your bag without leaking old coffee everywhere