Who is being unreasonable?

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Feminism came up somehow this morning

DH commented "ah but feminists like you still like dinner being bought for them eh?"

I said "I don't think so. I've never expected dinner to be bought for me"

DH scoffed "you always want dinner bought for you by me". He was making jokes basically you're all feminisst until you want something paid for.

The thing is we haven't been for dinner out for about 3 years and due to him not working I've been paying for mortgage, bills and kids by myself for months.

I made the comment to the affect and now he's annoyed at me. Was I being unkind?

So basically he’s encouraged you in your career until you can pick up the financial strain of the family and now he’s not working and “deciding what he wants to do”. Well what he needs to do is go and pick up some shifts at Tesco until he finds another job. He can’t just opt out of pulling his weight.