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To think that Labour have just shot themselves in the foot?

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Redrosetat · 15/03/2024 15:56

https://twitter.com/KemiBadenoch/status/1768647056111861760?s=19&t=wqgtbWPG_X1xZDMhuF871A

‘Just now Labour MPs prevented debate on a new law to protect children and single sex spaces.

Instead they used parliamentary time to discuss ferret name choices.

@Keir_Starmer is terrified of debate on safeguarding & his MPs actively work to ignore the concerns of constituents’

https://twitter.com/KemiBadenoch/status/1768647056111861760?s=19&t=wqgtbWPG_X1xZDMhuF871A

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JessS1990 · 16/03/2024 20:52

lifeturnsonadime · 16/03/2024 20:50

I don't know. Probably because there is not the political appetite for it.

But what I do know is that Labour's position on this is as clear as mud and they are likely to win the next election so will be in a position to rectify the ills caused in the last 14 years.

We now have clear evidence harms to women and children in single sex spaces. We have medical evidence, in the form of the Cass review and other studies from abroad and the WPath files that putting children, on even social transition pathways is harmful. We know that puberty blockers are harmful. We know that a vast number of children who have difficulties with gender fall within other vulnerable categories, like being autistic or abuse victims or children in care or being homosexual. We know that all of these categories of children would benefit from watchful waiting (most gender questioning pre-pubescent children change their minds post puberty) and/ or therapy if they are feeling very distressed.

In spite of all of the above the Labour Party seem to be saying that -

  • They will make it easier for men to be legal women.
  • They will ban all forms of conversion therapy. Most people assume this means horrible almost torturous behaviour towards trans people (which would be awful) but it doesn't, it means therapy to explore the other reasons they may be struggling with their gender (like being gay or being autistic).
  • They will put trans health care at the top of NHS waiting lists, even though this is not evidence based and there is increasing evidence of detransitioners and harms done to those who have these treatments.

So this has no regard to women or the vulnerable children caught up in this, my own autistic daughter was very nearly one of them.

With regards to women's spaces they seem to be saying that some spaces will be for biological women only, but haven't defined which ones. There is also no process under current legislation which allows this to exclude the men who are legal women by virtue of a Gender Recognition Certificate which Keir Starmer proposes to make it easier to obtain. So it all seems very wishy washy and unworkable. 'Biological woman' is not even a thing under the current legislation and case law strongly suggests that single sex spaces should include men who are legal women.

There are a good many women who are traditional Labour Party voters, I am one of them, who are completely exasperated by this.

At best the Labour Party are fence sitting because they don't want to piss off the trans rights activists. At worse they are fence sitting because they don't want to piss of women by being overtly pro- the rights of males to be anywhere they want to be based on their gender identity over women's rights to be safeguarded from all males, prior to an election.

This is why the fillibuster (the point of this OP) was so frustrating. We need to know why Labour wants to stop this PMB which would stop these harms.. How can we have any faith that they will put these harms right when a) they won't talk about it and b) they actively try to prevent a discussion?

I would LOVE to be able to vote Labour, I don't think wanting to know what they stand for and the ramifications on women wrt single sex spaces and children is an unreasonable position.

Could it be the current Equalities Minister isn't doing anything about it because the Tory position on it is as clear as mud?

JessS1990 · 16/03/2024 20:53

Redrosetat · 16/03/2024 20:52

When did she introduce a bill into parliament that would sort it all out?

Its not like there is much other legislation being debated.

Could you perhaps find where it was announced in the King's Speech?

lifeturnsonadime · 16/03/2024 20:54

BIossomtoes · 16/03/2024 20:51

Only that doesn't work because the legislation won't allow it. There is no such thing as a biological woman under the Equality Act 2010.

The Sex exemptions applies to both biological women and men who are legal women by virtue of a GRC (with very limited exceptions).

I can link legal opinions on this if anyone is interested.

lifeturnsonadime · 16/03/2024 20:55

JessS1990 · 16/03/2024 20:52

Could it be the current Equalities Minister isn't doing anything about it because the Tory position on it is as clear as mud?

Yes it could but the Labour Party is the subject of this thread.

The Labour party is likely to get into power.

Now is the time to ask them to clarify what they are going to do about these issues.

JessS1990 · 16/03/2024 20:57

lifeturnsonadime · 16/03/2024 20:55

Yes it could but the Labour Party is the subject of this thread.

The Labour party is likely to get into power.

Now is the time to ask them to clarify what they are going to do about these issues.

You are correct the Labour party will be in power by the end of the year.
That leaves plenty of time for the current government to deal with this issue if they thought it were important. That the Equalities Minister couldn't even be bothered last week to turn up to a debate on the subject tells us all we need to know.

EasternStandard · 16/03/2024 20:57

lifeturnsonadime · 16/03/2024 20:55

Yes it could but the Labour Party is the subject of this thread.

The Labour party is likely to get into power.

Now is the time to ask them to clarify what they are going to do about these issues.

I’m not sure why people are so committed to blocking clarity

If they are so convinced Labour are in line with what women want let’s hear it

lifeturnsonadime · 16/03/2024 21:00

JessS1990 · 16/03/2024 20:57

You are correct the Labour party will be in power by the end of the year.
That leaves plenty of time for the current government to deal with this issue if they thought it were important. That the Equalities Minister couldn't even be bothered last week to turn up to a debate on the subject tells us all we need to know.

And if they don't?

What do you think Labour should do about it? Make it worse by making it easier for a man to be a legal woman? Make it worse by putting 'trans health care' at the top. of NHS waiting lists? Make it worse by making talking therapy illegal?

Because that's what Labour are currently saying they will do when they get into power.

JessS1990 · 16/03/2024 21:02

lifeturnsonadime · 16/03/2024 21:00

And if they don't?

What do you think Labour should do about it? Make it worse by making it easier for a man to be a legal woman? Make it worse by putting 'trans health care' at the top. of NHS waiting lists? Make it worse by making talking therapy illegal?

Because that's what Labour are currently saying they will do when they get into power.

Have the government addressed any of the very much more pressing issues in this country such as the huge increase in inequality?

BIossomtoes · 16/03/2024 21:04

When did the Labour Party propose putting trans health care at the top of NHS waits lists? Can we have a link?

lifeturnsonadime · 16/03/2024 21:09

JessS1990 · 16/03/2024 21:02

Have the government addressed any of the very much more pressing issues in this country such as the huge increase in inequality?

What has that got to do with the purpose of this thread?

You do know that I want the same things as you right? A fairer society? Increases in equality?

It's only going to be so long that the Labour Party and supporters can hide behind 'but not Tory' about this issues.

Some posters on this thread might not have previously been aware of the Labour stance (as currently stated) on this issue, maybe someone who wasn't now is and won't be shocked when it becomes apparent.

Maybe some of them will talk about it. Maybe some will ask Labour candidates questions. Maybe the Labour party will realise that women have valid concerns and will respond to them. Or maybe they won't.

Nothing changes if we say that certain topics are off limit. This is what the Trans activists rely on. They didn't ask or consult with women when they sent lobbyists out to put males in what were previously single sex spaces. The activists have got rapists in women's prisons based on people not being aware and women not collectively saying 'this is not acceptable'.

I am not trying to convince anyone to vote Tory. I won't be. I'm trying to convince women not to take this lying down. The ongoing safeguarding of women and vulnerable children is not an acceptable price to pay to oust the Tories. Labour can do the right thing. They really can.

lifeturnsonadime · 16/03/2024 21:18

BIossomtoes · 16/03/2024 21:04

When did the Labour Party propose putting trans health care at the top of NHS waits lists? Can we have a link?

https://diva-magazine.com/2024/01/29/exclusive-keir-starmer-lgbtqia-rights/

”Starmer said. “We’ll cut NHS waiting lists for LGBT+ people waiting for urgent physical and mental health care.

Clearly there is a slight difference in what I have paraphrased and the actual quotation for which I apologise, but they do not appear to have told any other group that they will cut NHS waiting lists as a result of their illness or identity, which strongly suggests that people with these issues will be put at the top of lists/ prioritised, unless they clarify that they didn't mean that by making this statement.

Exclusive: Keir Starmer pledges to ban conversion “therapy” under Labour government 

The leader of the Labour Party also lamented the Conservative Party for stoking “culture wars” 

https://diva-magazine.com/2024/01/29/exclusive-keir-starmer-lgbtqia-rights

lifeturnsonadime · 16/03/2024 21:30

That article makes for very interesting reading -

another snippet -

“We’ll strengthen the law, so every category of hate crime is treated as an aggravated offence,” Starmer said.

What does this mean? Does it extend to women correctly sexing males? Some clarity from the Labour Party would be welcome especially given the amount of women who have been questioned by the police for their social media activity v the blind eye turned to the rape / death threats made by activists against women.

Obviously hate crime in its purest sense is abhorrent, 'all forms' suggests that calling a man a man could be an aggravated hate crime. Even though it's a truthful statement.

Would be fantastic if Labour could clarify it's position on this please?

lifeturnsonadime · 16/03/2024 21:34

Can I just say thanks to posters for now allowing a conversation. There was a time earlier on this thread that this seemed impossible.

I'm logging off for the night but happy to continue 'talking' tomorrow.

Talking is important.

JessS1990 · 16/03/2024 21:46

lifeturnsonadime · 16/03/2024 21:34

Can I just say thanks to posters for now allowing a conversation. There was a time earlier on this thread that this seemed impossible.

I'm logging off for the night but happy to continue 'talking' tomorrow.

Talking is important.

At any point in that conversation has there been any indication as to why the Equalities Minister didn't attend the debate on Friday, or indeed hasn't shown any sign of introducing any legislation on this important topic?

BIossomtoes · 16/03/2024 22:33

lifeturnsonadime · 16/03/2024 21:18

https://diva-magazine.com/2024/01/29/exclusive-keir-starmer-lgbtqia-rights/

”Starmer said. “We’ll cut NHS waiting lists for LGBT+ people waiting for urgent physical and mental health care.

Clearly there is a slight difference in what I have paraphrased and the actual quotation for which I apologise, but they do not appear to have told any other group that they will cut NHS waiting lists as a result of their illness or identity, which strongly suggests that people with these issues will be put at the top of lists/ prioritised, unless they clarify that they didn't mean that by making this statement.

In all honesty, I think that’s adding two and two and making five. Starmer didn’t say any group would be prioritised. Cutting waiting lists is a key Labour policy and they’ve outlined how they’ll do it, obviously that programme of work includes LGBT+ people - a group which is by no means exclusively trans people. The top and bottom of it is they intend cutting waiting lists for everyone.

WomensRightsRenegade · 16/03/2024 22:55

BIossomtoes · 16/03/2024 10:48

You’ll vote for Labour whatever.

Just like Duffield then. She’s really inconvenient, isn’t she? A woman deified by the gender critical who continues as a Labour MP.

This is abject and desperate nonsense. You wouldn’t be asking this about any Labour MP receiving racist/ anti-Semitic/ Islamophobic abuse. Implying that them staying in the party means they’re delighted with or unbothered by the abuse they receive.

Why don’t YOU answer the question raised before your whataboutery kicked in - why has Keir Starmer refused to publicly (or privately) condemn rape and death threats against Rosie? I would condemn threats like that against even
my worst enemy. Let alone a woman who simply wants women’s existing legal rights upheld.

Keir is a coward, a misogynist, or both. That’s the unpalatable truth.

lifeturnsonadime · 17/03/2024 09:22

BIossomtoes · 16/03/2024 22:33

In all honesty, I think that’s adding two and two and making five. Starmer didn’t say any group would be prioritised. Cutting waiting lists is a key Labour policy and they’ve outlined how they’ll do it, obviously that programme of work includes LGBT+ people - a group which is by no means exclusively trans people. The top and bottom of it is they intend cutting waiting lists for everyone.

Well time will tell, quite how he is going to solve NHS waiting lists for all groups with the current economic situation is a bit of a puzzle.

He also doesn't appear to be making these direct promises to other groups. I can't imagine that it will be particularly politically expedient to prioritise trans health care over, say cancer treatment, but I haven't seen that he has made the equivalent promises to other groups.

Autism waiting lists for children are years long, he will have noticed the fact that the Cass Review states that there is a correlation between neurodiversity and gender difficulties in children. So surely it is more sensible to pledge to cut waiting times for those diagnoses.

Either way pledging to cut waiting times for trans 'healthcare' and pledging to ban 'all forms of conversion therapy' is hardly following the current science given that a lot of this 'healthcare' isn't evidence based and there is, in fact, growing evidence of harms.

BIossomtoes · 17/03/2024 09:44

This is really disingenuous and intellectually dishonest. He was being interviewed by a publication specifically aimed at the LGBT+ demographic. Obviously that’s what he focused on.

lifeturnsonadime · 17/03/2024 09:59

BIossomtoes · 17/03/2024 09:44

This is really disingenuous and intellectually dishonest. He was being interviewed by a publication specifically aimed at the LGBT+ demographic. Obviously that’s what he focused on.

Well I'm using his words. So if that's not what he meant perhaps he would like to explain.

Blossom I am trying to have a civil conversation, calling me 'intellectually dishonest' for posting what the leader of the Labour party has actually said and a reasonable interpretation of it in light of the Cass review is not very civil.

This is so typical of ardent Labour supporters who won't criticise anything that Labour says or do. It always ends up with name calling.

Many mainstream press outlets also reported this but are behind paywalls. Are they also 'intellectually dishonest' for reporting words Starmer used and assuming he was telling the truth in the conference that he was speaking to which was a Labour LGBTQ Event hosted in the House of Parliament on the 29 January?

The fact that this was reported in Diva magazine doesn't make it untrue.

BIossomtoes · 17/03/2024 10:07

The fact that this was reported in Diva magazine doesn't make it untrue.

I didn’t say it did. Context is all. He was speaking to an LGBT+ audience. It’s perfectly obvious that he tailored his message to them. At no point did he say or imply they would be prioritised. Your interpretation isn’t reasonable and it is intellectually dishonest - you’re bright enough to know what you’re doing by implying something that was never said or intended. And I’m bright enough to see straight through it.

EasternStandard · 17/03/2024 10:28

Well all people have on Starmer is what he says on this issue

By all means get it out there so the women who want to hear it do

Redrosetat · 17/03/2024 10:33

This is so typical of ardent Labour supporters who won't criticise anything that Labour says or do. It always ends up with name calling.

Yes. That’s a whole new thread.

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EasternStandard · 17/03/2024 10:44

Redrosetat · 17/03/2024 10:33

This is so typical of ardent Labour supporters who won't criticise anything that Labour says or do. It always ends up with name calling.

Yes. That’s a whole new thread.

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