I think the social norm has been it's fine to take a child below puberty in the toilet of the opposite sex if you are the parent. Many establishments set an age like 8 years old.
Signs can be put up to indicate the presence of a male cleaner so a woman has a choice.
This is just whataboutery though.
What has happened is that the social contract has broken, men (whether trans identifying or not) have been emboldened to be in women's single sex spaces. Some of those men harm women when they do so, some of those are men who identify as trans women. Some women are excluded by the possibility of presence of a male at any time meaning that some women have been put on a urinary leash.
When things change in society we should ask who benefits? In the case of toilets no woman benefits from the inclusion of males in those spaces. The only set of people who benefit are male.
We need to go back to the pre- transactivist status quo where women were safeguarded because all males were expected to stay out of women's single sex spaces. This is better for women. Yes some males might be pissed off but that's not really an issue for women to solve unless you see women as merely support humans to male happiness.
If you do the same exercise for any other women's single sex space which has become mixed sex as a result of the trans activists, women's sport, single sex hospital wards, singles sex rape crisis for women, women's refuges, women's prisons etc, you will have the same result. Women gain not benefit from the inclusions of males in those spaces. The only people who benefit are males.
Women are socialised to 'be kind' which is why many privileged women who aren't directly put at risk by those things think this is not an issue. But it is for some women.
it is indisputable that women are being harmed. Many of them vulnerable as the result of being in prison, a refuge etc. So if you think this just doesn't matter ask yourself how many harmed women/ children is enough for you to care?
Going back to the pre-transactivist status quo is cost neutral, so why any political party continues to harp on about trans rights over women's safety is beyond me. This is an easy win for any political party, if they care enough about women's safety.
This thread is about Labour, they are very likely to win the next general election. As women voters we should be putting them to task on these issues now. Otherwise they will say they didn't know we cared.