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LynzyG · 12/03/2024 17:24

Ok, so one of the people I work with is quite new to the company. He’s got a wife and 3 children, the youngest being 1. Today he had his phone on charge in the work kitchen (only 3 of us in the office so definitely his phone) I moved his phone as I was wiping the work top and the phone lit up as I picked it up. I noticed that there were 3 notifications from Grindr. I obviously put the phone straight back down but now I’m like ‘oh my goodness, his poor wife’
I obviously would never out him at work but at the same time feel like it’s changed how I feel towards him. To be clear, not because he’s on grindr but because he is on Grindr with a family at home

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Lamelie · 13/03/2024 07:18

Do nothing.
As PP have said if it’s in his Lock Screen his wife is probably aware anyway.
My money is that he’s set it that way for lols/ because he has suspicions there’s someone snoopy around. My name is saved as 🔥Kevin🔥 as I often text myself notes and it makes them easy to find.

Northernsouloldies · 13/03/2024 07:24

I'd keep it zipped, not your problem.its just someone you work with.

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