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Tory donor openly states Dianne Abbot should be shot..

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VestibuleVirgin · 12/03/2024 07:15

Frank Hestor reportedly said: “It’s like trying not to be racist but you see Diane Abbott on the TV, and you’re just like… you just want to hate all black women because she’s there.
“And I don’t hate all black women at all, but I think she should be shot.
“(The executive) and Diane Abbott need to be shot.”
https://www.standard.co.uk/news/politics/frank-hester-tory-donor-diane-abbott-comments-black-women-labour-b1144631.html

Abominable, disgusting. Aibu to be incecsed by this?
Money allows all sorts of behaviours apparently, particularly if you give a lot of it to a political party.

Tory donor Frank Hester apologises over 'reprehensible' comments about Diane Abbott

Frank Hester has admitted making ‘rude’ comments about the politician but said they had ‘nothing to do with her gender nor colour of skin’

https://www.standard.co.uk/news/politics/frank-hester-tory-donor-diane-abbott-comments-black-women-labour-b1144631.html

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Maggiethecat · 12/03/2024 13:23

squirrelnutkin10 · 12/03/2024 09:13

Ahh just seen it was a Party Donor not MP, vile abuse of anyone.

Lack of intelligence eh?

Notpossibly · 12/03/2024 13:23

CurlewKate · 12/03/2024 12:22

@Notpossibly Not quite sure what you're saying. Do you mean his comments are not racist?

I am quite happy to say racism is an extraordinary evil and a real blight on our society. I long for its destruction.

I am quite happy to repeat that it is racist and wrong to say because I dislike one black women I am going to hate all black women.

What makes me hesitate to condemn this man is because, amongst other things, reading the quote above and not quite knowing the significance of the 'dots', I suspect that he almost gets it. He realises that he doesn't hate all black women and I assume the 'dots' are him realising that what he is saying is wrong. That it is racist to hate all black women because one black woman annoys you.
So if this makes sense, I think he is making progress and in a curious way, given that we are flawed beings, that is to be welcomed just as racism is to be hated.

Some will say that racists must always be condemned but then others will say we are all inherently racist, and that belief is backed by impressive research which is easily found by an appropriate internet search. It was that that started me musing on our feelings.

It also started me thinking about whether there are degrees of racism. Many would say you are either racist or not. But if we are all inherently racist, can I be more racist than you?

Finally you will be relieved, I think people often decry others for being racist because that allows them to concentrate on the other person's racism rather than confronting, combating and correcting their own. Not dissimilar from deflection.

Redundantrobin · 12/03/2024 13:23

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I just don’t understand the vitriol levelled at DA. She is, by any standards, impressive. First female black MP, longest serving black MP, went to Cambridge at a time when it was almost inconceivable for women of colour.

Has she made serious mistakes? Of course. Were the remarks that led to losing the whip awful and indefensible? Of course.

But let’s not pretend most of the errors she’s made wouldn’t slide off her if she was white and male.

Stonehill · 12/03/2024 13:25

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Lampzade · 12/03/2024 13:28

DuncinToffee · 12/03/2024 13:10

This isn't whatabout Labour

This is about a Conservative donor's racist and sexist comments and the Conservative Party's reaction

This

justteanbiscuits · 12/03/2024 13:28

Alltheprettyseahorses · 12/03/2024 09:04

It's sickening. I have a bit of a soft spot for Diane Abbott, I am angry at the amount of abuse she gets. The Tories must immediately fully condemn what he said without any equivocation and drop any contact with him. His NHS contract may need looking into as well, I don't know if there are any rules regarding the private behaviour of suppliers though.

I am also angry at the hypocrisy of the Labour Party in their confected whinging about it. While they have in their ranks John McDonnell who called for Esther McVey to be lynched and Wes Streeting who said he wanted to push a woman journalist under a train - actual MPs not just donors - along with party members who abuse Labour and other MPs - they have no room to talk.

John McDonnell did not call for Esther McVey to be lynched.

Maggiethecat · 12/03/2024 13:28

MsFaversham · 12/03/2024 11:02

Really? A woman who has been relected as an MP since 1987 by her constituents lacks intelligence? Think about how daft that sounds. She’s clearly a very capable woman. I think the press have a got a lot to answer for, she gets more negative press and abuse than many other MPs and you do have to wonder if that is to do with her colour.

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Her constituents must be a load of dimwits too 🤔

IClaudine · 12/03/2024 13:28

The type of comments she has made and got away with in the past would have resulted in criminal investigations had they been reversed

Which comments were these, please could you link to them @Redundantrobin ?

Reugny · 12/03/2024 13:30

Notpossibly · 12/03/2024 13:23

I am quite happy to say racism is an extraordinary evil and a real blight on our society. I long for its destruction.

I am quite happy to repeat that it is racist and wrong to say because I dislike one black women I am going to hate all black women.

What makes me hesitate to condemn this man is because, amongst other things, reading the quote above and not quite knowing the significance of the 'dots', I suspect that he almost gets it. He realises that he doesn't hate all black women and I assume the 'dots' are him realising that what he is saying is wrong. That it is racist to hate all black women because one black woman annoys you.
So if this makes sense, I think he is making progress and in a curious way, given that we are flawed beings, that is to be welcomed just as racism is to be hated.

Some will say that racists must always be condemned but then others will say we are all inherently racist, and that belief is backed by impressive research which is easily found by an appropriate internet search. It was that that started me musing on our feelings.

It also started me thinking about whether there are degrees of racism. Many would say you are either racist or not. But if we are all inherently racist, can I be more racist than you?

Finally you will be relieved, I think people often decry others for being racist because that allows them to concentrate on the other person's racism rather than confronting, combating and correcting their own. Not dissimilar from deflection.

Why are you giving him excuses?

He is racist in his workplace reported by ex-employees.

MsFaversham · 12/03/2024 13:30

UpsideLeft · 12/03/2024 10:03

It's such a stupid and vile comment to have made

I've met Diane Abbot and yes she is an unpleasant character that much is true

But urgh to say what he said makes my stomach turn

I’ve also met her and found her to be very pleasant.

Clavinova · 12/03/2024 13:32

Piggywaspushed · 12/03/2024 13:19

Clav was what Hester said racist?

Yes - probably.
Although have the remarks been verified - is there a recording?

I remember that Diane Abbott was accused of racism in 2012 - she said her remark/tweet had been taken out of context;

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-16423278

Redundantrobin · 12/03/2024 13:32

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Oh please. What remarks of hers have crossed the line from inappropriate / offensive to illegal? And if that’s true, why aren't BoJo or 30p Lee Being investigated?

I don’t think you get to be a long-serving MP because people give you extra points for being female and black - otherwise we’d have a very different cabinet.

newnamethanks · 12/03/2024 13:33

@Notpossibly this man is a major donor to our principle political party. He has poisonous views. 10 million pounds buys a lot of influence. If you're happy with that, it's very unfortunate.

Piggywaspushed · 12/03/2024 13:33

Notpossibly · 12/03/2024 13:23

I am quite happy to say racism is an extraordinary evil and a real blight on our society. I long for its destruction.

I am quite happy to repeat that it is racist and wrong to say because I dislike one black women I am going to hate all black women.

What makes me hesitate to condemn this man is because, amongst other things, reading the quote above and not quite knowing the significance of the 'dots', I suspect that he almost gets it. He realises that he doesn't hate all black women and I assume the 'dots' are him realising that what he is saying is wrong. That it is racist to hate all black women because one black woman annoys you.
So if this makes sense, I think he is making progress and in a curious way, given that we are flawed beings, that is to be welcomed just as racism is to be hated.

Some will say that racists must always be condemned but then others will say we are all inherently racist, and that belief is backed by impressive research which is easily found by an appropriate internet search. It was that that started me musing on our feelings.

It also started me thinking about whether there are degrees of racism. Many would say you are either racist or not. But if we are all inherently racist, can I be more racist than you?

Finally you will be relieved, I think people often decry others for being racist because that allows them to concentrate on the other person's racism rather than confronting, combating and correcting their own. Not dissimilar from deflection.

What about him saying he'd like to se her shot?

What about the idea that he wanted a female executive shot ? The idea that if 'they could find ways to make her look unprofessional', ;they could get rid of her? Thsi doesn't sound like any meeting I have ever been in.

What about the notion that the female exec was eating food that others need? The useless eater analogy?

Stonehill · 12/03/2024 13:34

IClaudine · 12/03/2024 13:28

The type of comments she has made and got away with in the past would have resulted in criminal investigations had they been reversed

Which comments were these, please could you link to them @Redundantrobin ?

comments like she doesn't want to be treated by a blond haired blue eyed nurse, that sort of thing

Dweetfidilove · 12/03/2024 13:34

Notpossibly · 12/03/2024 13:23

I am quite happy to say racism is an extraordinary evil and a real blight on our society. I long for its destruction.

I am quite happy to repeat that it is racist and wrong to say because I dislike one black women I am going to hate all black women.

What makes me hesitate to condemn this man is because, amongst other things, reading the quote above and not quite knowing the significance of the 'dots', I suspect that he almost gets it. He realises that he doesn't hate all black women and I assume the 'dots' are him realising that what he is saying is wrong. That it is racist to hate all black women because one black woman annoys you.
So if this makes sense, I think he is making progress and in a curious way, given that we are flawed beings, that is to be welcomed just as racism is to be hated.

Some will say that racists must always be condemned but then others will say we are all inherently racist, and that belief is backed by impressive research which is easily found by an appropriate internet search. It was that that started me musing on our feelings.

It also started me thinking about whether there are degrees of racism. Many would say you are either racist or not. But if we are all inherently racist, can I be more racist than you?

Finally you will be relieved, I think people often decry others for being racist because that allows them to concentrate on the other person's racism rather than confronting, combating and correcting their own. Not dissimilar from deflection.

You should publish this piece. There are many ‘only slightly’ racists/misogynists who could make much of it 🤦🏾‍♀️.

Piggywaspushed · 12/03/2024 13:35

Clavinova · 12/03/2024 13:32

Yes - probably.
Although have the remarks been verified - is there a recording?

I remember that Diane Abbott was accused of racism in 2012 - she said her remark/tweet had been taken out of context;

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-16423278

The fact that he has repeatedly tried to apologise to her (pestered her, if you will) and no one has actually said he didn't say it does rather answer that Clav.

IClaudine · 12/03/2024 13:35

Stonehill · 12/03/2024 13:34

comments like she doesn't want to be treated by a blond haired blue eyed nurse, that sort of thing

Can you link to exactly what she said?

whatsitcalledwhen · 12/03/2024 13:36

@Clavinova

Yes - probably.

Probably? Good grief.

BIossomtoes · 12/03/2024 13:36

Although have the remarks been verified - is there a recording?

Clutching at straws here as usual. If he hadn’t said it, why hasn’t he denied it?

bombastix · 12/03/2024 13:37

The useless eater comments are not really being discussed but of course they are really chilling. The media is not highlighting the origin of such thinking. It is absolutely grim.

OneTC · 12/03/2024 13:37

Piggywaspushed · 12/03/2024 13:33

What about him saying he'd like to se her shot?

What about the idea that he wanted a female executive shot ? The idea that if 'they could find ways to make her look unprofessional', ;they could get rid of her? Thsi doesn't sound like any meeting I have ever been in.

What about the notion that the female exec was eating food that others need? The useless eater analogy?

That's the most chilling bit if it.

That's a deliberate reference to the fucking Nazis for Christ sake

MsFaversham · 12/03/2024 13:38

Piggywaspushed · 12/03/2024 13:19

Clav was what Hester said racist?

Quite. What Diane might have said or done is completely irrelevant.

IClaudine · 12/03/2024 13:38

bombastix · 12/03/2024 13:37

The useless eater comments are not really being discussed but of course they are really chilling. The media is not highlighting the origin of such thinking. It is absolutely grim.

Yes, using those words tells you a lot about a person's thought processes.

Notonthestairs · 12/03/2024 13:38

bombastix · 12/03/2024 13:37

The useless eater comments are not really being discussed but of course they are really chilling. The media is not highlighting the origin of such thinking. It is absolutely grim.

I have to admit Ive just had to google "useless eaters" - I'm lost for words which doesn't often happen.

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