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I fancy the work IT guy

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Ermmmmnowwhst · 05/03/2024 15:57

He has a really hot voice, he fixed my problems, we had a real laugh together on the phone and according to his WhatsApp photo he is seriously sexy!!!

OP posts:
GoodnightAdeline · 05/03/2024 18:45

FrothyDonkeyMilk · 05/03/2024 16:08

I work in IT. If there is a hot guy, every one fancies him - they contact so many people across the business and get to 'save' them from IT problems, so usually they have quite a few dalliances. More if they are single.

Oh come off it, it’s a bloke working in IT not James Bond, stop trying to rain on OP’s parade

OP, just WhatsApp and say oh shit you’ve poured coffee on your laptop, but he could take you out for a replacement? (Coffee not laptop)

Bobbotgegrinch · 05/03/2024 19:01

"Hi, do you fancy getting a coffee sometime?"

It's really that simple. Either he says yes, or he says no. If he says no then you'll likely never see him again so wheres the embarrassment?

He's already made the first move. It's your turn now @Ermmmmnowwhst

brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 05/03/2024 19:16

So maybe - like female teachers - the “hot ones” only appear hot against a background of freakshows. And if you saw them out of context they’d be freaks too, but they appear hot due to a sort of general theory of hotness-relativity effect. Quantum hotness: simultaneously hot and not.

Timeisallwehave · 06/03/2024 15:26

Lampslights · 05/03/2024 18:44

No, seriously they are all the typical computer geek type. Some of them dress normally to be fair. But genuinely never met a hot one;,sadly. Although I’m sure their wives and girlfriends all think theirs is the hot one.

Whether someone is attractive or not is subjective after all.

Zanatdy · 06/03/2024 15:28

Ermmmmnowwhst · 05/03/2024 16:25

Because (and I realise this makes me sound insane and/or a massive bunny boiler) but I only worked there for 4 days before quitting 🤣
So I have literally nothing to leverage here.
But I do think that considering I just miraged in and out it's interesting he whatsapped me....../hopeful

Message him and say omg I just had to tell you this dream I had about you - and make up some bull. That’s what the guy I was seeing last year does when he wants to remind me he’s still around (but he never does anymore than just a text or two), it’s always a dream and it’s always something really random and clearly made up!

Cuppachuchu · 06/03/2024 15:48

Bobbotgegrinch · 05/03/2024 19:01

"Hi, do you fancy getting a coffee sometime?"

It's really that simple. Either he says yes, or he says no. If he says no then you'll likely never see him again so wheres the embarrassment?

He's already made the first move. It's your turn now @Ermmmmnowwhst

Yes, definitely this. What's the worst that can happen, nothing ventured nothing gained etc. Go for it. 🤞

justteanbiscuits · 06/03/2024 16:13

he works in IT. Send him a meme! That is IT guy love language. Seriously 😥

If you have an interview for next job, send a message "got an interview btw" and follow it up with an appropriate meme.

Wellhellooooodear · 06/03/2024 16:15

But what if he has a 3 and a half inch floppy?

HappiestSleeping · 06/03/2024 16:53

Wellhellooooodear · 06/03/2024 16:15

But what if he has a 3 and a half inch floppy?

That would possibly be better than a 2.5 inch hard 🤣🤣

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