I fancy the work IT guy

[Ermmmmnowwhst]

He has a really hot voice, he fixed my problems, we had a real laugh together on the phone and according to his WhatsApp photo he is seriously sexy!!!

Images of the IT Crowd are in my head now.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_IT_Crowd

I should have spoken to you guys first as I have already missed my opportunity and conversation has ended. I should have told him I need a deep defrag.
I think I'll leave it a few weeks and then accidentally drunkenly text him

Yeah the 5% incredibly fucking hot and gorgeous ones

Be careful of the wear and tear to your hard drive bestie

How trite - an IT stereotype joke.

Surely this is only an issue if you and OP work in the same company ....

The conversation has only ended if you let it. Why not just say 'a few of us are going for a coffee as a goodbye, would you like to join us?'

Then either arrange a coffee with others present, or just turn up by yourself and say 'oops'.

Because (and I realise this makes me sound insane and/or a massive bunny boiler) but I only worked there for 4 days before quitting 🤣
So I have literally nothing to leverage here.
But I do think that considering I just miraged in and out it's interesting he whatsapped me....../hopeful

How much could you have talked to him over just four days

Yes!

The 4 days is nothing. Maybe he’s concerned you left so soon and maybe he liked you from your IT interactions.

No no don’t drunkenly text him. Wait maybe a day or two and send him a friendly open ended text. One where he can ask you out. Maybe detailing your new job moves or something.

Such a stereotype. My new man works in IT.

Has a really sexy, deep voice and looks normal. In saying this, he still has time to prove himself to be a creep so I won't wax lyrical about him too much.

Wow amazing. Bless you to be 15 again 🤣

You are finding excuses not to message him. Your reasons are still not cast iron. I would counter with the option that you could say 'hey, it was a short stint. Happy to explain over a coffee?'

Then, if it goes well, you could always have the 'I only joined to meet you' stance for the wedding speech 😂

Can't you ask him out over Whatsapp?

4 days? Thats maybe why he asked to be fair.

If it's this one then you're definitely not being unreasonable

He used to and maybe still does live where I live! Saw him out and about a couple of times. About 13 years ago though so he’s prob moved.

You need to put up either a seriously hot WhatsApp picture so he notices and sends a compliment or something hilarious on your WhatsApp status so again he notices and responds to it.

Just ask him for a drink!!!

Beat me to it !

Is that like how there are never hot women in teaching ? First rule of teaching. They always wear jumpers with scarves and big bead necklaces, flat shoes and short hair.

My dh is the 5% and I have to hold my tongue a lot during work events with some of the behaviour from other colleagues. So if he is single for for it.

We bred and had ultra techie, blonde, beautiful children.

No, seriously they are all the typical computer geek type. Some of them dress normally to be fair. But genuinely never met a hot one;,sadly. Although I’m sure their wives and girlfriends all think theirs is the hot one.