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To point out that the word is “faze” and not “phase” in this context?

384 replies

Anyotherdude · 03/03/2024 13:57

I’ve been reading so many threads where someone writes about being “phased” or “not phased” about something.
it was bothering me so much that I checked to see if it was me that was getting it wrong.
I didn’t.
To faze is to disturb, bother, or embarrass, but a phase is a stage or step, so you can be phased into a role, but if you’re not bothered by something, it doesn’t faze you!

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pensione · 03/03/2024 17:34

Garlicking · 03/03/2024 17:32

I was quoting you!

As to your second point: I doubt it. A couple of dozen, perhaps.

Unless you’re a global spelling bee champion, or even a UK one, I just don’t believe you, sorry.

Good spellers are ten a penny. You are not special.

missushbbb · 03/03/2024 17:35

DrPsy · 03/03/2024 14:50

There is also no such word as ‘unfazed’. An English teacher once corrected me on this so I’ll always remember that!

Unfazed is a word

Sleepydoor · 03/03/2024 17:36

FuzzyPuffling · 03/03/2024 17:20

And if you ever point out an error, the response is always "but language evolves".

Which gets rite up my knows.

Actually, having written that, I am reminded of Nigel Molesworth, as any fule nos.

The language evolves argument is why we have to keep fighting the good fight. That's why I keep pointing out when people use "nonplussed" incorrectly even though I know I am being irritating.

GrumpyPanda · 03/03/2024 17:37

pensione · 03/03/2024 14:07

I don’t understand why people are so triggered by typos and spag errors.

I saw someone call a pedestal a ‘pedistool’ on a thread the other day. It made me smile and I scrolled on. The idea of correcting the poster or starting a thread didn’t occur to me.

Because it makes it that much harder to understand the text at hand. HTH.

pensione · 03/03/2024 17:39

GrumpyPanda · 03/03/2024 17:37

Because it makes it that much harder to understand the text at hand. HTH.

Then that’s a YOU problem. You are not owed perfect grammar.

Goddessonahighway · 03/03/2024 17:44

Mine is people saying empathetic when it's empathic. Most people do use empathetic so I'd never correct anyone. But I'm secretly over the moon when empathic is used. I'd never say this irl because people in glass houses and pot calling kettle black and all that! 😁

Janiie · 03/03/2024 17:45

Garlicking · 03/03/2024 17:27

They think others are impressed by them

Nah, mate. I can't speak for every pedant on the thread but, as PPs have already posted, it's just a relief to get it out there, have a bit of a moan and a bit of a laugh. These errors pick at my mind but it's pointless to correct every one as they occur. A thread like this is a opportunity to join in a group ARGHHH!

Maybe somebody should be impressed by my familiarity with the English language 😂 I doubt anyone is, though, and I couldn't care less.

~ Oh, and it is couldn't care less, not could. Unless you mean you do care.

'a opportunity'? It's an opportunity isn't it?

Garlicking · 03/03/2024 17:46

Janiie · 03/03/2024 17:45

'a opportunity'? It's an opportunity isn't it?

Yep. I didn't say I was a great typist 😏

Janiie · 03/03/2024 17:52

I'm often surprised by the increasing use of 'yous' nowadays. As in 'what are yous doing'.

I'm a terrible spag offender so it doesn't bother me really just, 'yous'?? Is it as in the plural of you? Confused

pensione · 03/03/2024 17:52

Janiie · 03/03/2024 17:45

'a opportunity'? It's an opportunity isn't it?

Funny how they’re traumatised by spelling mistakes made by others and yet justify their own.

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 03/03/2024 17:55

@Anyotherdude could of and could have also would of and would have! the worst for me reading is when people write "chester draws"!!!!! wtf is chester draws meant to mean?

Garlicking · 03/03/2024 18:00

@pensione, I wish I could meet you in real life. You seem such an adorable person 😍

Shutting · 03/03/2024 18:11

pensione · 03/03/2024 17:30

Why would anyone be impressed by your familiarity with the English language? That in itself is smug.

Trust me, there’s hundreds of people on MN who can spell better than you.

She was joking! She doesn’t expect people to be impressed by her!

pensione · 03/03/2024 18:13

Garlicking · 03/03/2024 18:00

@pensione, I wish I could meet you in real life. You seem such an adorable person 😍

And you are in the top two dozen spellers in the world, you are such an amazing person 🤩

pensione · 03/03/2024 18:14

Shutting · 03/03/2024 18:11

She was joking! She doesn’t expect people to be impressed by her!

She’s not joking, read her subsequent posts.

SonyaBoot · 03/03/2024 18:17

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Withdrawn at OP's request.

CaptainMyCaptain · 03/03/2024 18:18

CarterBeatsTheDevil · 03/03/2024 17:05

Marian Keyes talks about "casting nasturtiums" in one of her books. Can't remember which one but I still haven't quite sorted out in my mind whether she genuinely thinks it's "nasturtiums" rather than "aspersions" (surely not?) or whether it's just one of those quirky turns of phrase that she comes up with so often that she just doesn't notice herself doing it!

I assumed that was deliberate and meant to be funny.

NHStoPrivate · 03/03/2024 18:21

I often see mortified being used incorrectly on here.

User7825525 · 03/03/2024 18:22

My greatest pet peeve online. Sometimes even written in reputable articles! Thanks for pointing it out

Shutting · 03/03/2024 18:24

pensione · 03/03/2024 18:14

She’s not joking, read her subsequent posts.

I saw it as her laughing at herself, saying everyone should be impressed by her. As she was quoting from the ‘accusations’ levelled at pedants from another post.

CaptainMyCaptain · 03/03/2024 18:25

Shutting · 03/03/2024 18:24

I saw it as her laughing at herself, saying everyone should be impressed by her. As she was quoting from the ‘accusations’ levelled at pedants from another post.

She even included a laughing emoji.

logicisall · 03/03/2024 18:28

Deedee248 · 03/03/2024 14:39

I suppose I would say that either one of them can be a verb, affect can never be a noun! You can’t have “an affect” - only an effect.

Affect can also be a noun. Depends on the meaning eg the doppelgänger effect.

"Affect is a Noun that means a set of observable manifestations of an experienced emotion, such as facial expressions, gestures, postures, vocal intonations, etc. "
Mirriam-webster dictionary.

Itsallfunngamesuntil · 03/03/2024 18:29

I only discovered recently that the saying "she got her just deserts" contains no double ss!!!

i had been spelling it incorrectly as 'desserts' for decades!

ChristianHornersGlisteningFinger · 03/03/2024 18:30

logicisall · 03/03/2024 18:28

Affect can also be a noun. Depends on the meaning eg the doppelgänger effect.

"Affect is a Noun that means a set of observable manifestations of an experienced emotion, such as facial expressions, gestures, postures, vocal intonations, etc. "
Mirriam-webster dictionary.

Yeah, someone else explained several pages ago that it is used in a niche clinical context.

Shutting · 03/03/2024 18:31

Sadly, nobody in my life is impressed by my literacy skills, although they do seek my advice. I am ashamed to say that I have raised a pedant 😔 My 21y son is as appalled by a confused exacerbate/exasperate as the best of us on here, and I find it quite an unappealing trait in him 😱

PS I don’t know if I should use a full stop after an emoji or whether the emoji is sufficient at the end of a sentence. Any advice?!