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To point out that the word is “faze” and not “phase” in this context?

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Anyotherdude · 03/03/2024 13:57

I’ve been reading so many threads where someone writes about being “phased” or “not phased” about something.
it was bothering me so much that I checked to see if it was me that was getting it wrong.
I didn’t.
To faze is to disturb, bother, or embarrass, but a phase is a stage or step, so you can be phased into a role, but if you’re not bothered by something, it doesn’t faze you!

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ChristianHornersGlisteningFinger · 04/03/2024 11:00

NameChangeAgain0224 · 04/03/2024 10:58

To me, yes.

There is nothing glaringly obvious about a difference in pronunciation between those two words 😬

Saying it with an ‘s’ sound in the middle feels and sounds so unnatural.

It will always be sixth (six-th) to me.

Please don’t hate me!!! 😂

How do you say “six”? (When standalone)

Unless you say it ”sick” you ARE putting in an “s” sound.

Isittimeformynapyet · 04/03/2024 11:02

@NameChangeAgain0224 "It will always be sixth (six-th) to me.

Please don’t hate me!!! 😂"

That depends on how you pluralise "text" 😂

NameChangeAgain0224 · 04/03/2024 11:10

ChristianHornersGlisteningFinger · 04/03/2024 11:00

How do you say “six”? (When standalone)

Unless you say it ”sick” you ARE putting in an “s” sound.

It’s too early in the day for this level of confusion 😂

We’ll have to agree to disagree that some people think there is more than one possible pronunciation of the word “sixth”, whereas other people (me) cannot fathom how sixth can be pronounced in more than one way 😂

I withdraw from the debate because it’s driving me to madness 😂

ChristianHornersGlisteningFinger · 04/03/2024 11:26

NameChangeAgain0224 · 04/03/2024 11:10

It’s too early in the day for this level of confusion 😂

We’ll have to agree to disagree that some people think there is more than one possible pronunciation of the word “sixth”, whereas other people (me) cannot fathom how sixth can be pronounced in more than one way 😂

I withdraw from the debate because it’s driving me to madness 😂

JUST SAY THE WORD SIX OUT LOUD AND TELL US WHETHER IT HAS AN S AT THE END! 😀

Changed18 · 04/03/2024 11:39

Or say out loud the words six and sick. Is there a difference?

Anyway, I'm amused to see in the similar threads list below that the phase/faze question has been asked not once before but at least three times before. I guess this one won't solve it for all time either.

ancienticecream · 04/03/2024 11:46

I am astounded at the debate about sixth versus sick-th 🤣 They are two different sounds. Try and say it slowly, with a gap between the first half and the th:
✅ Sicks - th
❌ Sick - th

crystal90210 · 04/03/2024 11:54

I used to handle motor insurance claims and received a claim form stating the other driver was "driving erotically". They had meant "driving erratically". Still makes me smile.

VivianRogers · 04/03/2024 11:56

Isittimeformynapyet · 03/03/2024 23:04

When I see a poster correcting a pp I thank them for taking one for the team.

I was born a pedant and I honestly can't help it. I simply can't explain the almost physical sensation I get when I see common mistakes - it feels like everything's getting out of control. Not my control, just general communication anarchy. It's unsettling for me.

My friends take the piss and I call it my "disease".

I fully understand it gets right on people's tits, so I try hard not to act on these impulses, but the force is strong.

I don't feel superior, I guess I just want things to be in order. It's like word OCD.

I make mistakes, but I correct them. I remember writing "a fit of peak" in something I wrote to my cousin, and later seeing it was actually "fit of pique". I had to phone her to correct my error even though a year or so had passed 🙄

Me too, on reading any text, including my own. 🙀😂Though I understand this is on a personal level and YMMV etc. But to use an analogy, for me it's as if I'm listening to a nice quiet violin concerto and someone in the brass section stands up and lets out a long instrumental fart.

BringMeTea · 04/03/2024 11:56

May I just say I am delighted to find others who find 'sickth' an abomination. BBC 'broadcasters' are guilty of this these days. Standards are dropping ever further... 😐 The 2 's' sounds do require a bit more effort. I assume it is mostly lazy tongue rather than ignorance? (ends sentence with question mark) Grin

BIWI · 04/03/2024 11:59

A pronunciation one that always irritates me is when (usually newsreaders) pronounce 'police' as 'pleece'.

Isittimeformynapyet · 04/03/2024 11:59

VivianRogers · 04/03/2024 11:56

Me too, on reading any text, including my own. 🙀😂Though I understand this is on a personal level and YMMV etc. But to use an analogy, for me it's as if I'm listening to a nice quiet violin concerto and someone in the brass section stands up and lets out a long instrumental fart.

Great analogy! Thanks 😂

Peaceandquietandacuppa · 04/03/2024 12:01

Wow!

I had somehow been brainwashed into thinking it was ‘phased’ - thank you, thank you, thank you!

Isittimeformynapyet · 04/03/2024 12:03

BIWI · 04/03/2024 11:59

A pronunciation one that always irritates me is when (usually newsreaders) pronounce 'police' as 'pleece'.

This was my late Dad's bugbears, along with secretary being pronounced "secketary".

Isittimeformynapyet · 04/03/2024 12:03

*bugbear

Isittimeformynapyet · 04/03/2024 12:05

Someone on TV just said "we commenced starting on the groundwork".

Isittimeformynapyet · 04/03/2024 12:08

crystal90210 · 04/03/2024 11:54

I used to handle motor insurance claims and received a claim form stating the other driver was "driving erotically". They had meant "driving erratically". Still makes me smile.

It's a shame you felt you needed to explain the humour to us.

Brexile · 04/03/2024 12:16

CaptainMyCaptain · 03/03/2024 16:57

Using 'decimate' to mean completely destroy seems quite common now even on ... Radio 4. It's original meaning was to remove one in 10 hence the 'deci' part but maybe the newer meaning has become acceptable.

Never acceptable! It's up there with people using enormity to mean "large size".

Abitofalark · 04/03/2024 12:17

The verb to infringe. It's not to infringe on. Probably confused with impinge on.

Spelling checker - not spell checker.

Better. Its not more better or more taller or more richer.

Eradicate, not irradicate.

Disdain, not distain.

Ridiculous, not rediculous

Restaurateur, not restauranteur.

Arrive at or in, not arrive to, a place.

Embarrassed by or about, not embarrassed of.

Untethered · 04/03/2024 12:21

Abitofalark · 04/03/2024 12:17

The verb to infringe. It's not to infringe on. Probably confused with impinge on.

Spelling checker - not spell checker.

Better. Its not more better or more taller or more richer.

Eradicate, not irradicate.

Disdain, not distain.

Ridiculous, not rediculous

Restaurateur, not restauranteur.

Arrive at or in, not arrive to, a place.

Embarrassed by or about, not embarrassed of.

It’s perfectly fine to say infringe on:

[transitive, intransitive] to limit someone's legal rightsinfringe something They said that compulsory identification cards would infringe civil liberties.
infringe on/upon something She refused to answer questions that infringed on her private affairs.

https://www.oxfordlearnersdictionaries.com/definition/american_english/infringe

infringe verb - Definition, pictures, pronunciation and usage notes | Oxford Advanced American Dictionary at OxfordLearnersDictionaries.com

Definition of infringe verb in Oxford Advanced American Dictionary. Meaning, pronunciation, picture, example sentences, grammar, usage notes, synonyms and more.

https://www.oxfordlearnersdictionaries.com/definition/american_english/infringe

Changed18 · 04/03/2024 12:30

Isittimeformynapyet · 04/03/2024 12:03

This was my late Dad's bugbears, along with secretary being pronounced "secketary".

There's a surprising amount of seckertary-use on the R4 Today programme. I think that's one I'd want to practice if I was working there...

FuzzyPuffling · 04/03/2024 12:33

I get annoyed by someone (anyone!) comparing two things and asking which is "best". I think you mean "better".

And "Can I?" when you mean "May I?" And don't get me started on "Can I get..."

Abitofalark · 04/03/2024 12:33

Isittimeformynapyet · 04/03/2024 12:03

This was my late Dad's bugbears, along with secretary being pronounced "secketary".

Jonathan Dimbleby on Any Questions? said it for years. Seketerry.

ChessieFL · 04/03/2024 12:49

I get annoyed by all these, although I would never correct anyone on here (unless it was a thread in Pedants’ Corner).

One that annoys me that I haven’t seen mentioned yet is the misuse of prone. I’ve seen it in countless books - ‘he lay prone staring at the ceiling’. He must be bloody uncomfortable then! I am very pleased when I see supine used instead.

VivianRogers · 04/03/2024 12:58

I realise this one’s a bit nit-pickery, but the misuse of practise/practice and defense/defence kinda grates on me when no Americans are involved.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 04/03/2024 13:01

Isittimeformynapyet · 04/03/2024 12:03

This was my late Dad's bugbears, along with secretary being pronounced "secketary".

‘Secketary’ was my DM’s pet pronunciation peeve.