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How do you feel about women that's don't wear Make-up ?

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flutterby1 · 16/02/2024 11:34

Just wondering what your true JUDGY thoughts are? I don't wear makeup often I'm in mid forties. How am I perceived? Lazy? Frumpy? Not caring? Boring? Can't be bothered to make an effort for others ? Or confident ? Perceived as being ' pretty enough' ?

OP posts:
BlueMarigold · 17/02/2024 12:39

I don’t wear make up. I don’t think everyone looks better with makeup. Only people who know how to apply makeup correctly look better with make up. When I do it I look like a clown.

PumpkinsAndCoconuts · 17/02/2024 12:44

Sooverthemill · 17/02/2024 11:57

referring to one of the bizarre posts. I have never ever in my entire life got ready to ‘go out’ in the same room as any of my friends. Even when I was renting and sharing with friends. Is this genuinely a thing that happens outside of films and Tv?

when I was a teenager / young adult? We did occasionally get ready together, IIRC. It was fun.

HesterFields · 17/02/2024 12:44

popcorncake · 17/02/2024 12:39

LOL this.

There is a huge middle ground between subtle makeup that enhances your appearance and massive slug brows, drag queen lashes and fish lips. It's not either no makeup at all or Ru Paul is it? 😂

Lit from within, luminous make up is a joy.

its an art and a skill.

popcorncake · 17/02/2024 12:47

HesterFields · 17/02/2024 12:44

Lit from within, luminous make up is a joy.

its an art and a skill.

Edited

It really is! I have rosacea so a nice tinted spf just evens out my skin tone, makes me look less ruddy and more glowy, plus it protects from the ageing effects of the sun too.

Tiggermom · 17/02/2024 12:52

Think -over your lifetime how much time you have spent ‘enhancing’ your looks - oh,yeah it’s only a few minutes but still.
Then there’s the times you can’t really enhance your features, outdoor activities -swimming in the sea-are you self-conscious?
Hurrying to get done up again?
I envy people who are happy with how they look.

fleurneige · 17/02/2024 12:54

popcorncake · 17/02/2024 12:39

LOL this.

There is a huge middle ground between subtle makeup that enhances your appearance and massive slug brows, drag queen lashes and fish lips. It's not either no makeup at all or Ru Paul is it? 😂

Of course, but all too often, it is way over the top and not attractive at all!

HesterFields · 17/02/2024 12:55

Tiggermom · 17/02/2024 12:52

Think -over your lifetime how much time you have spent ‘enhancing’ your looks - oh,yeah it’s only a few minutes but still.
Then there’s the times you can’t really enhance your features, outdoor activities -swimming in the sea-are you self-conscious?
Hurrying to get done up again?
I envy people who are happy with how they look.

There we go again, always grasping at the extremes.

most ‘normal’ folk who wear make up are happy to go out, exercise etc without. It’s life, isn’t it.

HesterFields · 17/02/2024 12:58

fleurneige · 17/02/2024 12:54

Of course, but all too often, it is way over the top and not attractive at all!

Don’t let it bother you.

Tiggermom · 17/02/2024 13:03

HesterFields · 17/02/2024 12:55

There we go again, always grasping at the extremes.

most ‘normal’ folk who wear make up are happy to go out, exercise etc without. It’s life, isn’t it.

Really -even posters feeling for the unmade up saddos in their unflattering clothes?

HesterFields · 17/02/2024 13:06

Tiggermom · 17/02/2024 13:03

Really -even posters feeling for the unmade up saddos in their unflattering clothes?

Not sure what you’re referring to but I didn’t say it. You seem cross.

Fameinaframe · 17/02/2024 13:10

I haven't put any make up on since I was a teenager.

Don't like it, makes me very self conscious. It smells and it makes me hot and bothered.

Definitely couldn't be bothered getting up early to do it everyday before work! 😮

popcorncake · 17/02/2024 13:13

fleurneige · 17/02/2024 12:54

Of course, but all too often, it is way over the top and not attractive at all!

I certainly wouldnt say "often". I don't see that kind of OTT look a lot at all. Most women I see out and about during the day wear either no makeup or subtle makeup.

Possibly out in pubs/clubs you'd see it more but even then- who cares? If you don't like it then don't do it. I cant get concerned about how others choose to present themselves - thats up to them. There may well be people who don't like the way you present yourself but I'm sure you arent going to change how you get ready in the mornings because of them are you?

SamW98 · 17/02/2024 13:14

Sooverthemill · 17/02/2024 11:57

referring to one of the bizarre posts. I have never ever in my entire life got ready to ‘go out’ in the same room as any of my friends. Even when I was renting and sharing with friends. Is this genuinely a thing that happens outside of films and Tv?

I’m on my 50’s and still get ready with friends when we’re away for the weekend/on holiday/at each others houses.

Music on, wine flowing and chatting while we get ready is absolutely the norm for us and always has been

Futb0l · 17/02/2024 13:15

I wear very little. I think i look fine

bringincrazyback · 17/02/2024 13:37

Theeyeballsinthesky · 17/02/2024 10:23

The women that go make up free are those that talk about themselves in disparaging ways and feel they are unattractive- they say things to the make-up wearing women like "you always look so glamorous- I'm lucky if I manage to brush my hair", or "if I wore what you are wearing it would look awful on me." It doesn't seem that they have more confidence in their natural beauty, just that they don't feel comfortable with makeup because they feel it's 'not them' in a way and they are more uncomfortable with taking steps to make themselves more "attractive"- maybe because they feel unattractive- Im not sure...

what utter nonsense!! I rarely wear make up mostly cos I can’t be fucking arsed. I don’t waft around in a beige cardy with bad hair, eyes downcast, murmuring about how unattractive I am and that if I only knew the wonders of make up I’d be transformed!!!

fucks sake you have literally no idea about the women on MN and how they look

It's not nonsense. I know women who say these things too.

bringincrazyback · 17/02/2024 13:38

Sooverthemill · 17/02/2024 11:57

referring to one of the bizarre posts. I have never ever in my entire life got ready to ‘go out’ in the same room as any of my friends. Even when I was renting and sharing with friends. Is this genuinely a thing that happens outside of films and Tv?

It's very much a thing. I did it all through my teens.

MidnightMeltdown · 17/02/2024 13:39

Ghuunvg · 17/02/2024 07:08

I only wear very light makeup but think I look much better for it, as everybody does.
I feel sorry for men that it isn't socially acceptable for them, although it used to be

I think the same about men. I'd hate to wake up with dark circles and a giant zit on my face and not be able to do anything to cover it!

SisterAgatha · 17/02/2024 13:53

Are we still here 8 pages later declaring that make up is worn ONLY to attract men, ONLY to look attractive and ONLY acceptable in conditional terms ie subtle or natural. As if attractiveness is life’s ultimate goal.

free yourselves ✔️

MidnightMeltdown · 17/02/2024 13:57

I have a friend who never wears any makeup and I must admit, I sometimes think, I would LOVE to try out a bit of subtle makeup on her, enhance her features, I think she'd look amazing. I daren't suggest it though!

mondaytosunday · 17/02/2024 14:04

My friends and I are 50s-60s. Most wear a little bit - even out skin tone, a bit of mascara. One does the full eye shadow and lipstick too - and partly because her husband likes her to.
I have no judgement for those who wear none - though I do think when I see women of any age in full on 'I'm ready for my close-up' type stuff that it's unattractive- I want to scrape half of it off.

Createausername1970 · 17/02/2024 14:05

I am 61 and have rarely worn makeup. I am not bothered about going to dressy places, can't be arsed with the faff, and never have been. So I have never bought make-up, ever. I have worn it a couple of times when one particular friend wanted to put some on me. It was OK, I didn't object, but I didn't feel it enhanced my evening.

thomasgoode · 17/02/2024 14:05

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TheSlantedOwl · 17/02/2024 14:06

I feel impressed by women who don’t wear make up. And I love a bit of make up.

neilyoungismyhero · 17/02/2024 14:08

I've worn make up pretty much every day except for 2.5 years in lockdown when I was really poorly.
Why should I judge other people who don't though? We're both exercising our right to choose.
I feel better and more confident with it and I look nicer.

Perfect28 · 17/02/2024 14:08

What a funny question OP. Would you even ask this for men?

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