For the last time, for those who don’t like sticking to what is actually written.
I don’t think I have a right, I try to avoid news on the RF because I am not a fan and don’t think they should be a thing in today’s world. Unfortunately, despite my best efforts, every media source is dripping with gushing platitudes and all saying how good he is ‘for raising awareness’ and he ‘hopes to raise awareness’.
Awareness of what? Pancreatic cancer that a dear friend died of after doctors ignoring her symptoms? The friend who died of metastatic breast cancer because her surgeon didn’t remove enough sentinel nodes? And then ignored the pain in the shoulder she developed? Or bowel cancer, that so many have and they get fobbed off - my mum had to pretty much haemorrhage into the toilet bowel and have severe anaemia before they finally tested for the fucking huge cancer she had?
those of you questioning the raising awareness - it wasn’t my idea, it was his. Which led me to the view, fair play to you, but without naming the cancer it’s a bit pointless, 1 in 2 of us etc etc.
People will, and are speculating anyway. People speculate when anyone is seriously ill, it’s human nature. I’m as curious as the next person, I posted fairly blandly on a SM site, I didn’t say ‘I demand KC tell us every gory detail, show the scans, the staging’. I just thought saying the type was no more personal than letting us all know he’s recently had a prostate exam (I’m not writing how it’s done as there’s a few here will have me in the tower by the morning).
Ive had IVF, a colposcopy, 3 recurrent hernias, 2 c-sections and a heart attack. I’m happy to discuss them, especially having a heart attack as a female, and how the paramedic was probs 5 minutes from missing it because I wasn’t a grey, sweaty mess. Quite happy, if it saves a life.
I’m going in for hernia repair #4 next week - fully open surgery to try to fix it forever. I will be in 3 days.
But yeah, I forgot you can’t have your own opinion on MN.