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To not vote Labour because of their abhorrent views on the female sex?

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Lion400 · 05/02/2024 18:43

Starmer cannot represent women, he can’t even define us. Questioning a trans person is a hate crime, but misogyny is not. Sorry Labour, you’ve lost my vote. Have they lost anyone else’s??

‘On trans ideology, the vast majority of voters, and certainly a majority of traditional Labour voters from working class backgrounds, tend to cast a sceptical eye on the tenets of an ideological movement that asserts that biological men must be accepted as women – and be offered similar rights and access to women’s spaces and sports as women – simply by asserting their new status’

Transgender ideology has created the biggest medical scandal of our generation

Vulnerable young people who transitioned before they were ready are paying a high price for this disastrous project

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/2023/08/04/transgender-ideology-biggest-scandal-of-our-generation/

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Clavinova · 06/02/2024 19:27

AdamRyan
Nice bit of xenophobia there

My post wasn't xenophobic. You called me 'very ignorant' the other day - you need to calm down a bit and stop throwing insults around.

Dogfisher · 06/02/2024 19:27

LWSnow · 06/02/2024 19:04

In the Labour Party,What you have to remember is that men however they identify are more important than women and children. Then everything falls into place.

This.

lifeturnsonadime · 06/02/2024 19:28

AdamRyan · 06/02/2024 19:19

Try again.
I specifically said "using repealing the GRA to determine your vote is like pissing in the wind"
Don't misquote people if you don't want to get called hard of thinking. It doesn't give the best impression of your intellect.

But to pick up on this. Yet again you are splitting hairs.

The GRC IS one of the reasons I am not prepared to vote for Labour.

I am advocating for the repeal of the GRC on this thread.

If I was intending to quote you I would have used quotation marks. Perhaps I should have said 'some women are implying rather than some women are saying'.

So can we clarify that women advocating for the repeal of the GRC are neither 'hard of thinking' nor 'pissing in the wind'?

The problem is, when you hurl so many insults, it's hard to get a grip of either what you object to or what you stand for.

EasternStandard · 06/02/2024 19:28

Clavinova · 06/02/2024 19:27

AdamRyan
Nice bit of xenophobia there

My post wasn't xenophobic. You called me 'very ignorant' the other day - you need to calm down a bit and stop throwing insults around.

you need to calm down a bit and stop throwing insults around.

Agree

AdamRyan · 06/02/2024 19:29

Clavinova · 06/02/2024 19:27

AdamRyan
Nice bit of xenophobia there

My post wasn't xenophobic. You called me 'very ignorant' the other day - you need to calm down a bit and stop throwing insults around.

Heres a definition:
Xenophobia: dislike of or prejudice against people from other countries.

Implying someone isn't entitled to express an opinion on UK matters, despite their living here, is very much xenophobic.

lifeturnsonadime · 06/02/2024 19:30

AdamRyan · 06/02/2024 19:25

I'm starting to feel there may be an agenda to get the thread pulled so I'm not responding to dime or nothing any more

Edited

Of course you do.

Women can't really be interested in women's rights independent of men surely!

I'll be glad if you stop interacting with me Adam, you are condescending and rude.

nothingcomestonothing · 06/02/2024 19:30

AdamRyan · 06/02/2024 19:22

Not all of them. Just a select few. I think 99% of GC women aren't right wing bigots.

No need for you to feel offended surely?

So when you replied to my post

Oh sorry, you and dime have kind of blended into one and I got confused. That's what happens when there are multiple posters with identical opinions. It becomes hard to track who posted what

You didn't mean to suggest I was a right wing bigot/bot? When you said I and another poster had 'blended into one', and that multiple posters had 'identical opinions', that wasn't what you were saying?

I've said it before, I'll likely say it again: insulting women and insinuating that we are either gullible fools or right wing liars, rarely leads to us coming round to your way of thinking.

Dogfisher · 06/02/2024 19:30

nothingcomestonothing · 06/02/2024 19:16

Aaaaand were back to insinuations that women who don't agree with you are really just right wing bigots using women's rights as a figleaf to cover their burning desire for another Tory government.

Groundhog day is right.

It's always the same from Adam.

RebelliousCow · 06/02/2024 19:35

LWSnow · 06/02/2024 18:45

Crispin Blunt is no longer a member of the Conservative Party he was kicked out.
the prospective conservative candidate is full on GC

He's actually resigned as a result, in large part, as a result of his involvement in the scandal involving a man and an under-age boy. He spent years regaling the house about his love of chem sex and bondage gear. I'm glad he's gone. He was one of those involved with the pushing of this madness in the Tory party and in the commons.

Clavinova · 06/02/2024 19:35

He later clarified he thinks woman = adult female

In my LBC link Starmer says 'all adult females are women' - does that include adult females with a GRC?

nothingcomestonothing · 06/02/2024 19:37

AdamRyan · 06/02/2024 19:25

I'm starting to feel there may be an agenda to get the thread pulled so I'm not responding to dime or nothing any more

Edited

Why would I want the thread to be pulled? Did I miss a load of posts by GC women confessing to being Tory plants, or something?

RebelliousCow · 06/02/2024 19:41

AdamRyan · 06/02/2024 17:54

So Badenoch is "mulling" rather than having any form of plan.
The article says nothing about Labour's position and contrary to what you wrote they said this:

LABOUR said today it welcomes government plans to review the Equality Act, potentially defining sex explicitly as “biological sex.” “Clarification is a good thing,” the party said, adding it would wait on specific proposals.

https://morningstaronline.co.uk/article/b/labour-welcomes-government-review-equality-act-over-defining-sex-biological

Stop making stuff up. Its very tedious.

Reading comprehension lessons required. You see, two people can play at being gratuitously rude.

Labour are awaiting the proposals from the government; they have not initiated any such proposals themselves. Most of their backbenchers would be horrified if they did.

nothingcomestonothing · 06/02/2024 19:42

Clavinova · 06/02/2024 19:35

He later clarified he thinks woman = adult female

In my LBC link Starmer says 'all adult females are women' - does that include adult females with a GRC?

Is Starmer saying TMANM?

<Faints>

AdamRyan · 06/02/2024 19:44

RebelliousCow · 06/02/2024 19:41

Reading comprehension lessons required. You see, two people can play at being gratuitously rude.

Labour are awaiting the proposals from the government; they have not initiated any such proposals themselves. Most of their backbenchers would be horrified if they did.

Eh? Confused
You wrote "Labour have rejected trying to make this distinction in law."
The article you linked doesn't say that and the quote I linked says that Labour welcome the review proposed by the Tories.

Therefore I don't know why you said they rejected the proposal

Clavinova · 06/02/2024 19:46

AdamRyan
Heres a definition:
Xenophobia: dislike of or prejudice against people from other countries

I wasn't being xenophobic. When pointythings sometimes refers to British voters as 'Little Englanders' is that an example of xenophobia?

AdamRyan · 06/02/2024 19:46

I still think it's pretty high risk to assume Kemi Badenoch "mulling" something will result in action. I guess you are going to need to spoil your votes then.

RebelliousCow · 06/02/2024 19:46

AdamRyan · 06/02/2024 19:44

Eh? Confused
You wrote "Labour have rejected trying to make this distinction in law."
The article you linked doesn't say that and the quote I linked says that Labour welcome the review proposed by the Tories.

Therefore I don't know why you said they rejected the proposal

Clearly because I spend more of my time listening to debates in the house and watching committee meetings than you. You seem to spend a lot of time on-line being gratuitously rude and calling bigotry.

AdamRyan · 06/02/2024 19:47

Clavinova · 06/02/2024 19:46

AdamRyan
Heres a definition:
Xenophobia: dislike of or prejudice against people from other countries

I wasn't being xenophobic. When pointythings sometimes refers to British voters as 'Little Englanders' is that an example of xenophobia?

It would depend on the context. If she was telling them their opinion didn't count and they all lived in Holland then yes.

AdamRyan · 06/02/2024 19:49

RebelliousCow · 06/02/2024 19:46

Clearly because I spend more of my time listening to debates in the house and watching committee meetings than you. You seem to spend a lot of time on-line being gratuitously rude and calling bigotry.

Please provide a link to Hansard that shows Badenoch proposing clarification and Labour rejecting it then. I'd be really interested. I've seen nothing of the sort - just government quotes saying the EA is fit for purpose

BananaSquiggle · 06/02/2024 19:55

nothingcomestonothing · 06/02/2024 18:44

I DO NOT WANT to vote Conservative. I have never voted Conservative. I do not like the Conservatives.

However, when the leader of the Labour party says some women have penises, and the leader of the lib dems says he doesn't want my vote and the leader of the Greens refers to me as a 'non man', I cannot vote for any of them either.

It is not my fault that the left has lost its collective mind over gender ideology, and the right have made some hay with the resultant sunshine.

Do not blame politically homeless women for the left selling us out.

I really can’t understand not desperately wanting to vote the Tories out, unless you’re a Tory (which you’re clearly not). Please please please vote for the party that you believe will make society less shit as a whole, even if you don’t agree with every single thing they say. I can’t believe you could equate this one thing with everything's the Tories have done.

BIossomtoes · 06/02/2024 19:58

AdamRyan · 06/02/2024 19:25

I'm starting to feel there may be an agenda to get the thread pulled so I'm not responding to dime or nothing any more

Edited

That’s exactly what I implied.

RufustheFactualReindeer · 06/02/2024 20:22

lime and nothing 💐

you are being very calm, i would have wandered off in a snit by now….

LWSnow · 06/02/2024 20:40

I'm a feminist and there's no way I'd want this thread pulled . It's pure gold

Lion400 · 06/02/2024 20:53

Noicant · 05/02/2024 20:31

I think womens rights are a good a reason as any to be a single issue voter. Once rights are rolled back they will be impossible to re-instate.

If the community actually gave a fuck about women then people would have said “whats that rapist doing trying to get into a womans prison, out you get bob”., “whats the bloke doing on that rugby pitch on a womans team, he’ll do someone an injury, off you fuck Dave”. It would never have got to this point if women were actually considered to be people.

Women have to advocate for themselves, it’s been the history of women across cultures, countries and time.

I don’t think the yelling “oi you dirty tory” works on anyone btw. You can’t shame someone into voting how you want. People have to believe you are better than the other people. If you have to use guilt and shame instead of actual policies and arguments there is something wrong. Labour supporters do this every election and managed to lose most elections. I’ve voted Labour plenty of times but dear god do I despair at some of it’s supporters.

💯 agree.

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lifeturnsonadime · 06/02/2024 21:05

pointythings · 06/02/2024 19:04

@lifeturnsonadime I never said you had to shut up. But I do think that women who choose to vote Tory because of this single issue will need to take some serious responsibility if their vote gets the Tories in again. Because they will have contributed to making the lives of women much, much worse.

As for my beliefs - I don't think men can be women. But I also don't believe the vast majority of men who transition do so because they want to make their sexual predations easier.

Thanks for responding pointy.

With regards to your first paragraph, I really hear you. But this is the time to put Labour to task on this single issue. If we don't and when what we are saying Labour will do plays out there will be cries of 'why didn't the feminists / women say anything'? Women are always to blamed. Damned if we do speak out/ damned if we don't.

The lives of women is not made better by enshrining the rights of men to be women in law.

I just wish the Labour Party would see it that way.

With regards to the second paragraph I agree that not all men who transition are sexual predators, of course they are not. But they are all being sold a lie. Add to that that we can't tell which ones are and the inclusion of males in women's single sex places harms less privileged women the most, i.e. women of religious minority and sexual abuse survivors regardless of the intent of the male, I think that those women's needs should come first.

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