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To be so worried about an imminent war

154 replies

Saladcreamdreams · 28/01/2024 23:27

Is anyone else absolutely terrified or just me?
Tensions seem to be ramping up

OP posts:
Livida · 30/01/2024 17:36

So much instability increases the likelihood of black swans so everything feels like it's on a tightrope. This will only get worse over the next 10 years as tensions rise, resources dwindle, russia re-arms, a criminal potentially occupies the White House. There are many scary pathways so let's all pray that we find another one at that the weird turn towards authoritarianism we're seeing every year goes the other way so that we have strong, stable leadership that we can believe in. Big ask, I guess!

Livida · 30/01/2024 17:37

Everywhere, not every year. Though I guess that's true too!

Feralgremlin · 30/01/2024 17:37

Honestly, I think if you’re in the UK you needn’t worry. There is so much international politics at play, for example, if Biden were to drag the US into a war with Iran/Iran-backed militias, then he would lose the next election, if Trump then got in, he would be wanting to pull US troops out of the Middle East so it makes no sense for Biden to go in heavy handed. There is obviously way more to it than that, that is just one example, but it’s really very complicated and would take an awful lot to drag the UK/US/NATO countries into an all out war.

Justifiedcheese · 30/01/2024 17:38

Daftasabroom · 29/01/2024 15:53

There were more than 450,000 British deaths in WW2 and over 880,000 in WW1. The war was very much "here" to those who suffered.

@wonderstuff 1688, actually.

Livida · 30/01/2024 17:38

We're in another Cold War that we have to pray doesn't get hot.

Justifiedcheese · 30/01/2024 17:39

Lilifer · 29/01/2024 16:02

Fear fear fear
Every day another panic laden headline
Seems like since feb 2020 we have just been kept in a suspended animation crisis state, constantly kept on edge by a daily diet of doom, and just as we start to relax boom! and along comes the next crisis / COVID, Ukraine, with the climate crisis of course the constant mood music in the background, Israel / Gaza and now this ....

Ever wonder what purpose it serves to chronically terrorise people in this way ? 🤔

Sells papers/ click bait advertising. It's not some secret conspiracy

LaDerniereVacheFolle · 30/01/2024 17:46

Dearee · 30/01/2024 17:32

Honestly OP you really don't need to worry. It's in none of the superpowers' interests for there to be a wider war - and they've all said as much. The recent skirmishes in Jordan etc have been going on for ages. But none of the key players wants things to escalate. Obviously what's going on in Gaza is terrible but it'll stay relatively contained.

US - it's election year and nobody wants a war. Biden and Trump are both totally against escalating things with Iran. It's one thing they agree on.

China - economy really not great so also does not want a war. Has been very clear multiple times that it wants things in the Middle East to calm down. What they call 'reunification' with Taiwan is a very long-term aim - and has been official policy forever so Xi simply repeating the policy recently does not imply he's going to be invading any time soon. We're talking many years, if at all. Time enough for lots of things to change.

Russia - already in a very costly war that is damaging its economy badly and is deeply unpopular. Hundreds of thousands dead or wounded. No way Putin wants war on another front.

Iran - has stated publicly and via back channels that it doesn't want a wider war in the Middle East. Low level sabre rattling against US/Israel will continue but won't get out of hand.

Saudis - absolutely 100% don't want war. They're on the road towards 'normalising' relations with Israel as they understand everyone getting along is better for everyone's economies.

So basically, don't worry. It's all going to be fine.

Thank you for this factual and sane post.

I think many people are seeing WAR properly for the first time up close on Social Media.

If you've never taken much of an interest in history or politics (or you're just quite young) I can understand what's happening can seem like the beginning of the end of days! But it's really not. Since humans have been humans (and before) there has always been war.

Depressing but factual.

IClaudine · 30/01/2024 17:47

Keeps us all distracted from inconvenient facts such as the UK is so fucked up kids are malnourished and can't get dental care.

ETA: funny how on some of these threads, the OP just plops and runs...🧐

Trappedandunhappy · 30/01/2024 17:48

Justifiedcheese · 30/01/2024 17:38

@wonderstuff 1688, actually.

Edited

Ahem. Sorry to be a pedant, and not at all the point of the thread, but it was actually Feb 22 1797 when the French invaded West Wales.

https://www.historic-uk.com/HistoryUK/HistoryofWales/The-Last-Invasion-of-Britain/

It wasn’t a hugely competent invasion and they were largely foiled by a woman called Jemima. It’s a great little bit of history that has been somewhat ignored.

The last invasion of Britain by the French at Fishguard

The last invasion of mainland Britain came when the French invaded Fishguard, Wales in 1797.

https://www.historic-uk.com/HistoryUK/HistoryofWales/The-Last-Invasion-of-Britain/

mibbelucieachwell · 30/01/2024 17:49

Also, there's now more talk about ceasefire/truce negotiations. Hopefully that will encourage the Houthis to stop targetting ships in the Red Sea.

Deathbyathousandcats · 30/01/2024 17:50

It’s felt like the first 15 minutes of Threads for a couple of years now.

Pinkbelt · 30/01/2024 17:58

Dearee · 30/01/2024 17:32

Honestly OP you really don't need to worry. It's in none of the superpowers' interests for there to be a wider war - and they've all said as much. The recent skirmishes in Jordan etc have been going on for ages. But none of the key players wants things to escalate. Obviously what's going on in Gaza is terrible but it'll stay relatively contained.

US - it's election year and nobody wants a war. Biden and Trump are both totally against escalating things with Iran. It's one thing they agree on.

China - economy really not great so also does not want a war. Has been very clear multiple times that it wants things in the Middle East to calm down. What they call 'reunification' with Taiwan is a very long-term aim - and has been official policy forever so Xi simply repeating the policy recently does not imply he's going to be invading any time soon. We're talking many years, if at all. Time enough for lots of things to change.

Russia - already in a very costly war that is damaging its economy badly and is deeply unpopular. Hundreds of thousands dead or wounded. No way Putin wants war on another front.

Iran - has stated publicly and via back channels that it doesn't want a wider war in the Middle East. Low level sabre rattling against US/Israel will continue but won't get out of hand.

Saudis - absolutely 100% don't want war. They're on the road towards 'normalising' relations with Israel as they understand everyone getting along is better for everyone's economies.

So basically, don't worry. It's all going to be fine.

Can you please repeat this same summary on each and every one of these doomsday threads that are appearing with alarming regularity atm.

Rainsew · 30/01/2024 18:58

carerneedshelp · 28/01/2024 23:37

To be honest I think all this war bollocks is due entirely to the fact the UK and US are both heading into election season. The tories know they are fucked the only way of winning left is to attempt to scare the public. So WW3 rhetoric it is!

Theyve put quite the graft in if that's the case to destabilise and escalate tensions to the highest level in decades.

To be honest there's not much point worrying is there? There could be a war soon, might not be- worrying doesn't help. We are fortunate that in this country we're generally sheltered from a lot of shit people globally go through which is probably why this seems scary to people.

MermaidEyes · 30/01/2024 19:06

Dearee · 30/01/2024 17:32

Honestly OP you really don't need to worry. It's in none of the superpowers' interests for there to be a wider war - and they've all said as much. The recent skirmishes in Jordan etc have been going on for ages. But none of the key players wants things to escalate. Obviously what's going on in Gaza is terrible but it'll stay relatively contained.

US - it's election year and nobody wants a war. Biden and Trump are both totally against escalating things with Iran. It's one thing they agree on.

China - economy really not great so also does not want a war. Has been very clear multiple times that it wants things in the Middle East to calm down. What they call 'reunification' with Taiwan is a very long-term aim - and has been official policy forever so Xi simply repeating the policy recently does not imply he's going to be invading any time soon. We're talking many years, if at all. Time enough for lots of things to change.

Russia - already in a very costly war that is damaging its economy badly and is deeply unpopular. Hundreds of thousands dead or wounded. No way Putin wants war on another front.

Iran - has stated publicly and via back channels that it doesn't want a wider war in the Middle East. Low level sabre rattling against US/Israel will continue but won't get out of hand.

Saudis - absolutely 100% don't want war. They're on the road towards 'normalising' relations with Israel as they understand everyone getting along is better for everyone's economies.

So basically, don't worry. It's all going to be fine.

What a great post. Think more people need to read this. There's actually a great article by Council on Foreign Relations about just how difficult it would actually be for china to invade Taiwan. Well worth a read if you can find it.

AmethystSparkles · 30/01/2024 21:16

I didn’t know anything about it because I avoid the new…so thanks😩

You must know by now that the media want to scare you because it means more engagement and more money for them.

Livelovebehappy · 30/01/2024 21:54

Dearee · 30/01/2024 17:32

Honestly OP you really don't need to worry. It's in none of the superpowers' interests for there to be a wider war - and they've all said as much. The recent skirmishes in Jordan etc have been going on for ages. But none of the key players wants things to escalate. Obviously what's going on in Gaza is terrible but it'll stay relatively contained.

US - it's election year and nobody wants a war. Biden and Trump are both totally against escalating things with Iran. It's one thing they agree on.

China - economy really not great so also does not want a war. Has been very clear multiple times that it wants things in the Middle East to calm down. What they call 'reunification' with Taiwan is a very long-term aim - and has been official policy forever so Xi simply repeating the policy recently does not imply he's going to be invading any time soon. We're talking many years, if at all. Time enough for lots of things to change.

Russia - already in a very costly war that is damaging its economy badly and is deeply unpopular. Hundreds of thousands dead or wounded. No way Putin wants war on another front.

Iran - has stated publicly and via back channels that it doesn't want a wider war in the Middle East. Low level sabre rattling against US/Israel will continue but won't get out of hand.

Saudis - absolutely 100% don't want war. They're on the road towards 'normalising' relations with Israel as they understand everyone getting along is better for everyone's economies.

So basically, don't worry. It's all going to be fine.

Thank you for this. It’s really helpful and reassuring…

IncompleteSenten · 30/01/2024 22:03

The chance of war is never zero but the world is generally a far safer place than it was a few hundred years ago.

You can't say war will never happen. There's wars going on right now.

I don't think you can say nuclear war will never happen either. It is possible someone who is crazy enough may do it unless their geberals take them out first.

But there's literally fuck all we can do about any of it. If I'm going to get vaporised I'm not going to spend my life leading up to it worrying about it and you shouldn't either. We all die in the end. That's not a reason to waste our lives worrying about dying.

NeedWineNow · 30/01/2024 22:10

Dearee · 30/01/2024 17:32

Honestly OP you really don't need to worry. It's in none of the superpowers' interests for there to be a wider war - and they've all said as much. The recent skirmishes in Jordan etc have been going on for ages. But none of the key players wants things to escalate. Obviously what's going on in Gaza is terrible but it'll stay relatively contained.

US - it's election year and nobody wants a war. Biden and Trump are both totally against escalating things with Iran. It's one thing they agree on.

China - economy really not great so also does not want a war. Has been very clear multiple times that it wants things in the Middle East to calm down. What they call 'reunification' with Taiwan is a very long-term aim - and has been official policy forever so Xi simply repeating the policy recently does not imply he's going to be invading any time soon. We're talking many years, if at all. Time enough for lots of things to change.

Russia - already in a very costly war that is damaging its economy badly and is deeply unpopular. Hundreds of thousands dead or wounded. No way Putin wants war on another front.

Iran - has stated publicly and via back channels that it doesn't want a wider war in the Middle East. Low level sabre rattling against US/Israel will continue but won't get out of hand.

Saudis - absolutely 100% don't want war. They're on the road towards 'normalising' relations with Israel as they understand everyone getting along is better for everyone's economies.

So basically, don't worry. It's all going to be fine.

@Dearee Thank you for this calming and sensible post. Very reassuring.

SallyWD · 30/01/2024 22:17

I am scared but I just try not to think about it. There's nothing I can do about it. I take each day as it comes

Louise303 · 31/01/2024 03:16

Very now online survey questions

Newchapterbeckons · 31/01/2024 06:09

It’s very much in the interests of sone to try and frighten us, to make us live in fear.

To me this looks like a Russian inspired plot to undermine world order and destabilise the west. It started with Ukraine which they thought would be completed in days, but that was a failure. The plan was to move on swiftly to Moldova and other smaller countries but they are entrenched in Ukraine.

Russia’s ally Iran meanwhile funds and houses Hamas and decides to throw a grenade in to the tinderbox that is Israel - the timing was perfectly coordinated to take the focus away from Ukraine and hopefully divert resources from the west. That hasn’t worked.

China had the sense to stand back and observe how it played out - fortunately for them it was a wise move as it has been an utter shit show. They are battling their own issues with the economy and Evergrande..

The skirmishes in the ME might well settle down. There are no big players as such, just a bunch of rebel fighters funded by Iran and to sone extent Yemen.

A two state solution may emerge from the rubble..

Russia is fast being depleted.
I don’t feel ‘relaxed’ but equally we have learnt a great deal about Russia’s military capacity or lack of. We have learnt China will not compromise itself for its allies and the West is much stronger and more United than any of us dared to hope. Of all the scenarios that could have played out, this has been the best case scenario so far.

Fluorescentgem · 31/01/2024 06:12

I agree, OP. It is worrying. Nothing you can do about it so...

mumda · 31/01/2024 08:51

Unless you're going to do a 'colin furze' and build a bunker in your garden then just stop watching the news.

You can not alter the outcome of this current set of horrors so get on with your life and enjoy it.

IClaudine · 31/01/2024 10:15

Fluorescentgem · 31/01/2024 06:12

I agree, OP. It is worrying. Nothing you can do about it so...

OP hasn't been back to the thread. Read Newchapterbeckons post.

PropertyManager · 31/01/2024 10:17

No imminent threat I can see, lots of elections coming up, and lots of posturing. Heres a rundown

China, not in the war business, more into mergers and acquisitions, economy OK, busy producing stuff for the west and buying up most of Africa, posturing over Taiwan.

Russia, bogged down in Ukraine, General Election round the corner, of course Putin will almost certainly win, but he dos run a risk if he pushed further and made himself very unpopular - most Russians habe brought into Ukraine, but probably wouldn't if he moved into other countries.

US Election time, Biden is un-electable, clearly gripped by dementia, trying to look strong - Trump will almost certainly win, and despite his many failings, he's a talker not a war monger and mainly focussed on xenophobic policies at home.

UK Election time, two hopeless parties talking it up with lots of media interest.

Israel, Arab countries don't want war, but will of course support Hamas from a practical point of view, Israel PM Benjamin Netanyahu is currently on trial charged with numerous counts of corruption, the pandemic and current conflict are convieniently delaying him having to face the music.

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