After years of being told that everything I do is wrong, I'm useless etc I have finally realised its not me with the problem.
And all it took was an argument over a box of cornflakes!
DH gets upset if I open the bag of cornflakes all the way as it makes them go stake. Sometimes I forget but always fold the bag down. The last box I opened carefully, to the middle but where its been used for a few days its now about three quarters open. According to DH this isn't acceptable and on par with opening it all the way. When I got the sellotape out to fix it the argument started and I have been called an F'ing C - all over a box of cornflakes.
I am done. So done.
Everything I have done over the last few years has been wrong (I don't parent correctly, I don't work correctly, I work too much, don't give DH enough attention) and finally I have realised its not me
I am devastated and relieved at the same time