Is my DH overreacting over dream?

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I sent a message to a friend who is gay (opposite sex) detailing a dream which I had which involved him. It was not a romantic dream. My DH has seen my message and is now acting like I've committed adultery. He says it was flirting? He's a man and he's gay and he's in a relationship with a man. My DH is demanding answers and that I make it up to him.

I've told my DH that he's being pathetic and ridiculous. A I being unreasonable or is my DH?

It wasn’t a sex dream, though.

You'd probably cry if your husband had a dream that he and his colleague Janet from Marketing both appeared on the same episode of Antiques Roadshow.

The world is full of insecure oddbods.

Can I submit:

IT WASN'T A SEX DREAM!...

as the new 'cancel the cheque' please?

What does it say about these posters that their minds immediately go to sex dream 🤔

@GTsundaydriver I've read it all now, you'd be a bit miffed if your dh dreamed about another woman. How ridiculous, like he would really be able to control it 😅😅

I hadn't really thought about it being a strange thing to message. I saw his story on social media and sent a PM mentioning that I'd had a weird dream that I got him fired and commented on his story and asked how he was.

I probably wouldn't message someone randomly that I had a dream about them. It was because I had the dream and then in the morning I saw his story on social media so made the comment.

😂😂😂

There's nothing wrong with this at all to me.

What I find baffling is the number of people who think it's weird to tell a friend that you had a dream about them at all, under any circumstances. One person even called it creepy. What the hell is wrong with you people?

I get that friendships have different dynamics depending on the personalities involved and how close you are. I wouldn't randomly message some friends about something like that but there are others who I absolutely would. Mostly close friends who I'm in touch with n a regular, random chit-chat basis.

The idea that mentioning dreams at all is weird/wrong/creepy in all circumstances makes me think folk need to lighten the fuck up.

Your h wanting you to make it up to him is the creepy thing here.

While I agree the dh is being an idiot. I dreamt my h had cheated on me. Felt unsettled and off with him all day. Months later discovered, yep. He had.

Completely on board with this. Is he just making a faux drama so you feel obliged to do that thing you only do on his birthday? 🤣

Just need to echo my utter disbelief at how poor so many people's reading comprehension is AND how fast those same people are to jump in with a critical opinion 😂

OP DH has overreacted.

Ffs he’s overreacting, I had a dream I shagged Tom cruise last week 😂 told my husband about it too and no I’m not being a cool wife - sounds like your husband has issues. It was a dream fgs.