As someone who has attempted in the past and plans to complete in the future, I can confirm that in some areas the MH provision is neglectful. I’ve come across some fantastic nurses and care coordinator’s, but they’re tied to rigid and unaccommodating procedures. Others are just dicks.
No-one should be forced to die a painful death alone, afraid to tell others, unable to say goodbye to their loved ones. More and more violent and visible suicides will occur while the government restricts access to the less painful methods.
I’m a member of a prochoice website; it’s one of the most supportive and non threatening environments I’ve had the privilege of being a member of. People can talk openly about their thoughts and feelings without fear or stigma. You can discuss methods, but it doesn’t actively encourage suicide and a large number of members, like myself, are still alive because we found the website. It’s kept me going for the past 4 years.
The comments I read about it being a temporary solution or selfish or things will get better, while well meaning just underline the lack of understanding of someone who has planned their death. I do agree that for certain mental health conditions, for example psychosis, the mental health act is a useful tool. But non impulsive suicidal people, who have come to the really hard conclusion that death is better than living, should be allowed a choice.
I do feel sorry for those affected by suicide, but it’s outweighed by my sympathy for those that have now stopped whatever pain made them end their life. Survival instinct is exceptionally hard to overcome - if you’ve never been in this situation, you won’t understand the strength and courage it takes to go through with it.