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Personalised number plates

459 replies

Cleanbedsheets · 10/01/2024 11:24

Why do people spend so much money on these?

AIBU to think that the only possible reason for having a PNP is to be a bit braggy?

My DP wants to get me one for my upcoming birthday, I have said it is a waste of money and to not bother. DP doesn't understand.

Your thoughts?

OP posts:
C8H10N4O2 · 10/01/2024 14:43

Sammysquiz · 10/01/2024 14:34

But with an expensive handbag you can put stuff in it and hopefully the quality would be it’d last longer than a cheapo one. With the fancy tech kit you can listen to music on it or whatever it does and hopefully it’ll sound better than the cheap version. Whereas a personalised number-plate has no benefit over using any old combination of letters and numbers.

Most of the expensive handbag buyers I know buy new and buy several so wearing out isn't an issue. I manage entirely without one most of the time. I can put stuff in cheaper bags and keep replacing them for less than the cost of a high end bag.

I have a spendy habit on technology but that is because I like working with and using it - I could do my job and enjoy media etc with cheaper devices perfectly well.

In both cases few people will be able to distinguish between mid range and high range.

Having experienced number cloning, a clearly personalised number plate would be worth money in the bank as well as huge amounts of time saved. I am considering it for that reason alone. I have no desire to repeat the experience and the utter PITA of endless calls, letters, updates etc for every ticket issued to every organisation and the police.

inappropriateraspberry · 10/01/2024 14:46

I don't get it either. I understand people like to give them to mark special birthdays etc but seems odd to me. I'm not keen on personalised stuff in general though!

Tigertigertigertiger · 10/01/2024 14:48

They're deeply naff

Tigertigertigertiger · 10/01/2024 14:48

But that's ok

HideousKinky · 10/01/2024 14:49

I always hear them referred to as Vanity Plates

lndnbrdge91 · 10/01/2024 14:52

Sometimes it's about the car, like a lot of VW's have DUB for example. It can add to a sense of belonging and is a way of making that vehicle stand out, just like any other modification to bodywork etc if someone is really into their cars as a hobby they will go to meet ups or car shows and it's fun for them.

sondot · 10/01/2024 14:54

I haven't said they cause anyone any harm, nor have I said you're flawed. I'm merely pointing out that having a personalised number plate makes you look like a twat. That is all. Peace.

Yet you said...

Twatty
Vanity project
'Look at me, I'm special'

I think if you are suggesting I am vain, twatty, think I'm special and look like a twat, you are absolutely saying I am flawed.

Have a think about all the things you are saying to me, becsue I choose to buy something you don't, and ask yourself who really has the flaws, becsue it isn't me putting anyone down for their choices.

SiobhanSharpe · 10/01/2024 15:10

They're called 'vanity plates' for a reason.
Which is why a lot of people think the whole thing is frankly chav central twatty. Only the people in the business of selling them on call them 'cherished' plates.

piscofrisco · 10/01/2024 15:11

My dh bought me one as a present. It's quite sweet as it does mean something to us and I could t say no to it as he would have been hurt, but I find it quite embarrassing (if I think about it at all). Just seems a ridiculous thing to spend money on really. His whole family have them so I think he thought I felt left out Grin

SouthEastCoast · 10/01/2024 15:12

Once you’ve had one you can’t go back. It’s nice

macshoto · 10/01/2024 15:22

Both of us own plates of the form 123 XYZ or XYZ 123 where XYZ are our initials and the 123 are numbers that mean something to us.

Not yet got them on the cars, but will mean that it's no longer obvious how old our cars are - which is coming up for 8 and 9 years, respectively. We could buy newer, but see no reason to.

I have no time for mis-spaced or similar plates, but see nothing wrong with something like 123 XYZ. It's a small amount of money in the grand scheme of things.

RobertaFirmino · 10/01/2024 15:52

Can't see the point myself. So I don't have one. What other people do is none of my business.

PinkSparklyPussyCat · 10/01/2024 16:15

Vacant12 · 10/01/2024 12:49

I find them tacky, sorry. It's like people just want everyone to know how much disposable income they have. I can't see any other point to them, they literally don't serve a purpose

I don't, mine makes my car look older as it's a standard number plate but with my initials at the end and the other letters and numbers also mean something to me.

When I had an accident a few years ago I had to argue with the man collecting the car that I didn't need an MOT as the car was less than 3 years old. He was arguing I did and was driving illegally and then the penny dropped, the number plate made the car look nearly 20 years old when it was less than 3.

TempleOfBloom · 10/01/2024 16:20

Naff (IMO) but harmless.

I definitely would not want them.

MadameCamembert · 10/01/2024 16:30

I think reverse snobbery is tacky.
A bit like out competing to have the cheapest car.

I own one but don’t use it. I can’t imagine describing someone as a ‘twat’ over something so trivial!

Whatevershallidowithmylife · 10/01/2024 16:33

We have themmon two of our cars. One isn't immediately obvious unless you know who we are and the other is a car indicator eg 123 BMW which has a considerable value so a great investment.

StillShocking · 10/01/2024 16:48

Ormside · 10/01/2024 13:13

Two eldest DC have them. I bought them for their 18th Birthdays. Neither need manipulating and DC1's is now worth five times what I paid for it.
Both DS love cars and work in the industry. They'd say drinking alcohol, smoking and drug taking (which many of their friends do) are also a waste of money. They neither want nor care about your opinion and they can always sell them. What harm are they doing?
DS1 bought his first home at 23 (DS2 is only 19), has a partner of twelve years (no DC) that he will marry this year. He has a great career, no debt (apart from his mortgage), has travelled widely and has never brought a moment's trouble to our door, but you'd judge him on a number plate?

Edited

They are not doing any harm. People are allowed to buy the plates. Others are allowed to find them tacky. It doesn’t matter.

I am sure their friends don’t want and care about your sons judging their drinking too 🤷🏼‍♀️ They can still drink though.

StillShocking · 10/01/2024 16:50

LaPalmaLlama · 10/01/2024 13:26

The company that rents out the sewage pumping trucks near us has obviously bought up all the POO numberplates. Always makes me laugh. Can’t imagine they had to compete for them either.

A van near us has a variation on POO. My kids love it. And they are 18 and 19!

StillShocking · 10/01/2024 16:58

SoupDragon · 10/01/2024 13:42

I've often wondered why people get so het up about personalised number plates. Do you also whinge and scream "tacky!" when you see someone with a Chanel handbag?

Who is het up?

Like most people, I don’t give them a second thought unless asked about them like on this thread, or if I see one. Which isn’t that often.

And I find any blatant logos or flashiness tacky. Whether that’s Burberry logos head to toe or personalised number plates.

inappropriateraspberry · 10/01/2024 17:02

macshoto · 10/01/2024 15:22

Both of us own plates of the form 123 XYZ or XYZ 123 where XYZ are our initials and the 123 are numbers that mean something to us.

Not yet got them on the cars, but will mean that it's no longer obvious how old our cars are - which is coming up for 8 and 9 years, respectively. We could buy newer, but see no reason to.

I have no time for mis-spaced or similar plates, but see nothing wrong with something like 123 XYZ. It's a small amount of money in the grand scheme of things.

Why is it an issue if people can see how old your car is though? You can get a good idea by the style/model anyway!

thelovingkind · 10/01/2024 17:10

I have one 😳My original number plate I didn't like at all as it looked like it spelled out 'puke' so I changed it to a personalised one which wasn't in use. The only reason we had a personalised one was because the old car was bought abroad and so we needed a UK reg plate. I much prefer the personalised one and it's just the pre-2001 format of reg plates so doesn't really stand out much (maybe?!) It does have the first 3 letters of my surname on though!

IvorTheEngineDriver · 10/01/2024 17:13

If I could get a set for a fiver, I'd have it. My refusal to have them is soley down to the cost.

Elphame · 10/01/2024 17:22

Vacant12 · 10/01/2024 12:49

I find them tacky, sorry. It's like people just want everyone to know how much disposable income they have. I can't see any other point to them, they literally don't serve a purpose

My car is 12 years old. The private plate does conceal that but the model has since been updated so anyone who is into cars will know it's not new.

The ones with more money than sense in my opinion are those who take out a PCP or similar, pay hundreds each month and then do exactly the same every 3 years, chopping it in for a new car and another 3 years contract. They have a big ongoing liability and no car to call their own at the end of it. However, that's their choice.

JengaCupboard · 10/01/2024 17:22

I have a private plate on my company car but it's relevant to the business branding. I don't care either way and certainly wouldn't spend my own money on it but whatever.
It's no more of a waste of money than anything else aesthetic and/or entirely unnecessary I guess.

DewHopper · 10/01/2024 17:26

Locutus2000 · 10/01/2024 11:55

Not deep or controversial at all, more shallow and puerile.

This.