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Do all males think like this ffs

106 replies

Princessbananahamock · 07/01/2024 12:58

Met up with old school friend male for a catch up it’s been years. Only for a couple of hours. I left saying when it’s warmer I may pop out again. A perfectly non commitment comment. Roll on a week multiple messages “been thinking of you all week x, fancy meeting up next Saturday or sooner if you can’t wait”
I am actually angry at his presumption that he assumes I’m interested in him in a romantic way! Seriously what goes through their minds. Oh she’s single (separated) she must be in need of a man. My attentions must be what she’s dying to hear. There were more statements but you get the gist. I was not flattered either.
Perhaps he sent those messages after a few drinks but still unacceptable. The whole experience reminded me of the character Mr Collins from Pride and Prejudice.
I don’t think I shall ever be meeting up again!

OP posts:
altmember · 08/01/2024 01:20

How dare he think you might want to meet him again, when he hasn't even sent a dick pic.

2024GarlicCloves · 08/01/2024 01:32

WhycantIkeepthisbloodyplantalive · 07/01/2024 22:04

Why would you be offended that somebody has expressed an interested in you? I think that sounds really entitled. You are not the thought police, you either accept the offer or you don't. It's as simple as that.

Is "been thinking of you all week" expressing an interest these days? Fuck me, I'm glad I'm off the dating scene! It sounds borderline obsessive to me, and somehow demanding.

What happened to "Really good to see you, I had a great time. Would be nice to go out together again soon. Are you up for a date?"

Why the fuck is he assuming OP cares what he's been thinking about at this point?

2024GarlicCloves · 08/01/2024 01:33

altmember · 08/01/2024 01:20

How dare he think you might want to meet him again, when he hasn't even sent a dick pic.

😂😂😂 🍆

JMSA · 08/01/2024 07:42

@2024GarlicCloves

Totally!

jiggyjiggyjig · 08/01/2024 07:45

SantaBarbaraMonica · 07/01/2024 13:04

Tell him he must have misunderstood the type of interest you have in his company, despite your best efforts to not give that impression at all. Then block him.

you are right though. It’s classic entitled behaviour. Confidence like that only comes from entitlement.

Apparent confidence like this can come from many things, not just entitlement. It can come from social awkwardness, ASD, mental health issues

CaribbeanCupcake · 08/01/2024 09:18

WhycantIkeepthisbloodyplantalive · 07/01/2024 22:04

Why would you be offended that somebody has expressed an interested in you? I think that sounds really entitled. You are not the thought police, you either accept the offer or you don't. It's as simple as that.

This!

I think the OP loves the attention 🤣

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