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AIBU to give my wife a small amount of sedatives each day?

151 replies

MotherEarthisaTerf · 24/12/2023 08:59

Just a little mild sedative daily so she never realises there are better men out there?
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EmptyYoghurtPot · 24/12/2023 09:19

A link to the article would have made the OP a little less concerning.

pointythings · 24/12/2023 09:19

Imagine the screams from the right wing press if someone from the opposition benches were to say something like this. But from a Tory it's just bantz, right?

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 24/12/2023 09:20

MrsPoliportsGoose · 24/12/2023 09:17

A monumentally stupid thing to say, even if it was 'ironic' and especially at a Downing Street reception. We really are led by donkeys.

Agreed on all points. Home bloody Secretary! Parachuted in to replace Suella Braverman a nanosecond ago. Election can't come soon enough, but I don't feel hugely confident that the other side will be much better.

Westfacing · 24/12/2023 09:20

He really is a low-calibre politician - how on earth he rose to such high office I'll never know. Well I do know, but am just exasperated that we have such low quality people running the country.

Ritasueandbobtoo9 · 24/12/2023 09:20

Clever by name. Sex Offender by nature!

SutWytTi · 24/12/2023 09:21

VacuumQn · 24/12/2023 09:12

He should resign

I agree.

This comment was beyond disgusting, not a matter of political difference but a deeply unsuitable topic for a 'joke' when in charge of the Home Office.

Maireas · 24/12/2023 09:21

It's weird. It's like some socialists have infiltrated the Conservative Party, and put the worst people in the most important jobs, just to undermine the whole thing. Otherwise.....dear lord....

LyingLikeACheapCarpet · 24/12/2023 09:21

EmptyYoghurtPot · 24/12/2023 09:19

A link to the article would have made the OP a little less concerning.

Why because it is bantz?

The disgust everyone felt when reading the first post is real, he should not be home secretary.

AppleKatie · 24/12/2023 09:22

He needs to go. His misogyny is showing.

Westfacing · 24/12/2023 09:22

A dope of the highest order - to talk in this manner in a room full of journalists!

MorningFresh · 24/12/2023 09:23

His poor wife, how crass of him. She should LTB.

Pelham678 · 24/12/2023 09:24

If he thinks it's a joke could he please explain why it's funny?

Bet he can't without digging an even deeper hole.

I bet he hangs round with a load of guys who would think this was absolutely hilarious. They probably make MiL jokes too. Yuck.

Goddessonahighway · 24/12/2023 09:25

Things really haven't improved have they? I remember bring a teenager in the 90s feelings that sexism will be a thing of the past soon and believing in progress. And here we have a Home Secretary making jokes like this.

Hellodarknessmyoldpal · 24/12/2023 09:25

See you later OP... 👋

Allwelcone · 24/12/2023 09:25

@Westfacing they're hardly spoiled for choice are they though to be fair.

Wishimaywishimight · 24/12/2023 09:26

What sort of "context" would justify this vile suggestion by the OP? Why has the thread not immediately been deleted?

LordBuckley · 24/12/2023 09:27

What a bastard. Should be prosecuted for incitement to commit rape.

ANightmareBeforeChristmas · 24/12/2023 09:27

Not very clever, Mr Cleverly.

TisTheDarnSeason · 24/12/2023 09:28

Wishimaywishimight · 24/12/2023 09:26

What sort of "context" would justify this vile suggestion by the OP? Why has the thread not immediately been deleted?

The current news story about our beloved Home Secretary, maybe?

Lesina · 24/12/2023 09:28

CrapBucket · 24/12/2023 09:12

If you do it cleverly enough that it is apparently fine.

You win the internet today :)

Pelham678 · 24/12/2023 09:28

Wishimaywishimight · 24/12/2023 09:26

What sort of "context" would justify this vile suggestion by the OP? Why has the thread not immediately been deleted?

Read the whole thread. It's not the OP who believes this, it's our Home Secretary who thinks it's reasonable to make a joke about it. @Wishimaywishimight

confusedbythesystem · 24/12/2023 09:28

Resignation immediately please. I do not want anyone who thinks and speaks like this in a position of power in my country.

MrsPoliportsGoose · 24/12/2023 09:28

Hellodarknessmyoldpal · 24/12/2023 09:25

See you later OP... 👋

Do you mean see you later Mr Cleverly?

Lesina · 24/12/2023 09:29

They really are a group of reprehensible morons.

DewHopper · 24/12/2023 09:30

GrumpyOldCrone · 24/12/2023 09:13

It’s depressing that men in government are still engaging in this ‘banter’. What prospect is there of ending violence against women and girls if the people leading the country think it’s funny?

This. I honestly despair at these bloody stupid men. No words really.