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Which neighbour with Christmas lights is being unreasonable?

133 replies

D20 · 05/12/2023 12:48

Light hearted - I won’t be slipping neighbours a note with their Christmas card!

neighbour 1: mostly blue and cool white lights with one strand of warm white on a big tree

us: cool white lights

neighbour 2: red lights

neighbour 3: new lights this year in blue, red and warm white.

I personally think the precedent on the street had already been set for cool white and neighbour 3 should have fallen in line and 1 are slightly unreasonable with their mix of warm and cool.

OP posts:
fridaynight1 · 05/12/2023 15:20

Sorry OP , you lose. Cool white lights (especially ones that flash 😱) look like the emergency services.

Cool white lights are always the last ones left on the shelves … just saying

Chocolatecakewithsprinkles · 05/12/2023 15:30

@WickedSerious Oh no 😆 i don't know why but they just put me on edge even though i know I've just gone past the buggers

Ffsmakeitstop · 05/12/2023 15:33

We don't have outside lights because we would never see them. None of our neighbours do either, maybe we're all just miserable.
But I do like lots of lights on my tree and tealights in sparkly vase things.
I bought my dd some lights for her tree but she didn't like them so i said to DH I would just use them on ours. "On the new tree you bought last year that is prelit" says Mr know-all. I could why not?

HappiestSleeping · 05/12/2023 15:41

@D20 if you all don't have this, then you really need to try harder 😉

P.S. this isn't mine, I'm just in awe of it.

Best of Encanto Christmas Light Show Featuring 300 Drones!

My toddler is obsessed with this cartoon so I had no choice :)

https://youtu.be/EanKjTn5Gew?si=6eDnK_3DodBdQzAH

Rollerboots · 05/12/2023 15:45

cool white/ blue are horrible.
warm all the way.
don’t like flashing, I might tolerate a gentle twinkle, but what really drives me crazy is the frantic flashing, and worse still 2 sets of lights, flashing different speeds.. how can they look at it and not fix it?!

Thatsitfirtiday · 05/12/2023 16:04

I'm chuckling at all the people on here throwing their arms up at a trivial thread, you can't have been on the forum for very long is all I can conclude! 🤣

Anyhow, back to the serious question posed.

A mixture of colours is fine all down the street but never ever blue and cold white.. ❄️ 🥶

Thatsitfirtiday · 05/12/2023 16:04

Yeah flashing is crap too, gentle twinkling might pass muster..

jannier · 05/12/2023 16:18

Underthemagnificentbeechtree · 05/12/2023 12:54

Warm lights are nicest and i really dislike blue ones as they make me think the emergency services are coming.

Definitely you turn into a road expecting a burning house....or drugs raid. Blue should be banned.

Chocolatecakewithsprinkles · 05/12/2023 16:19

Twinkling or static never that weird fading in and out setting or where it flashes so fast it gives you palpitations looking at them.

jannier · 05/12/2023 16:20

ComtesseDeSpair · 05/12/2023 12:52

The neighbours in the street next door (one of the most desirable in the postcode with the most palatial period houses) have a festive committee whereby they agree - and enforce, no word of a lie - a colour and theme for all the exterior Christmas decorations. It’s delightfully bonkers. Give it a go next year!

I'd take delight in going opposite clashing and Tacky it would actually make me put up lights just to sod them

mrsm43s · 05/12/2023 16:48

Inside, I'm warm white all the way. But outside, I strangely like a mix of cool white and warm white. It's like silver and gold. But it needs to be mixed up together (as in strung together) or a big old mixture of warm and cool, not just one set of cool white and one set of warm strung separately, which jolts. Blue lights just look like emergency services, and modern multicolour lights are a bit too bright and cold for my liking.

ComtesseDeSpair · 05/12/2023 16:49

jannier · 05/12/2023 16:20

I'd take delight in going opposite clashing and Tacky it would actually make me put up lights just to sod them

But do you not care at all about being included in the Neighbourhood Watch provision next year?? 😱😅

grass67 · 05/12/2023 17:17

Warm white are the best, but really outdoor lighting is not good for the environment.

To the PP with a street that has enforced lighting, that has to be in America with a HOA, I would have huge issues with being told what to do.

FatherJackHackettsUnderpantsHamper · 05/12/2023 17:24

S23 · 05/12/2023 12:51

What your street really needs is an inflatable Christmas dinosaur 🦖

Instead of, or as well as, the Holiday Armadillo?

SoupDragon · 05/12/2023 17:34

I hate warm white. It looks grubby.

I love a street with a variety of styles TBH. It looks far more jolly.

WhatNoUsername · 05/12/2023 17:44

I like cool white outside and warm white inside.

Mixing cool and warm white on one property either inside or outside is just weird.

However I don't think the whole street has to match!

grass67 · 05/12/2023 17:44

A good warm white is like a candle flame. How can you think that's grubby?

WhatNoUsername · 05/12/2023 17:48

Saz12 · 05/12/2023 12:59

They "enforce" it...? Sounds scary, brilliant idea for Midsommer Murders though....

Sounds more like"Hot Fuzz".....For the Greater Good!

HaddawayAndShite · 05/12/2023 17:52

Cool white lights are shit. Blue lights are an abomination especially if flashing (why pick the same colour as emergency services). Neighbour with the red lights is the winner.

Rainbowshit · 05/12/2023 17:54

Cool toned lights make me feel ill. All lights should be warm toned.

Saz12 · 05/12/2023 18:46

Red lights look like demonic eyes.

Hot Fuzz is a much better than Midsomer Murders, youre right @WhatNoUsername

Toottooot · 05/12/2023 18:49

Wooptie fucking ping.

youngestisapsycho · 05/12/2023 18:55

WhyMeWhyNowWhyNot · 05/12/2023 12:53

@LegoDeathTrap i missed the update that she’d lied about her location!! Crazy 😳

Sod the xmas lights…. I need a link to this please 😆

aubergineman · 05/12/2023 18:58

The red light neighbour. It's not a brothel!

Cool white should be banned, warm white only.

MotorwayDiva · 05/12/2023 18:59

OK so now I'm worried, down the street everyone is multi coloured, up street cool white and blue, across the road are warm...what should we do??
Just kidding we have a mix and will put them up and no one will care!