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Girl at work on Only Fans

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FunnysInLaJardin · 04/12/2023 21:09

Found out today that a girl at work was on only fans. They had to tell her it wasn’t suitable and so I think she stopped.

I find that all most odd. Just the feeling of lifting a stone and finding all sorts underneath. Not comfortable at all with it and now wondering who else is at it

OP posts:
JazbayGrapes · 05/12/2023 10:54

what sort of work it is?

Cornettoninja · 05/12/2023 10:55

FunnysInLaJardin · 05/12/2023 10:50

so its only appropriate to be on OF if you are doing a menial job and no-one looks up to you?

Whats that got to do with your OP. It would still be nothing to do with you and it triggering you enough to start eyeing everyone with suspicion is pretty bizarre and precious since it has no effect on you.

if you knew the sexual proclivities of everyone you knew you’d probably experience a brief ‘ick’ and hopefully then pull yourself together because as long as it’s not hurting anyone it’s none of your business.

RedPony1 · 05/12/2023 11:38

I've got one friend who does it as her sole job, takes £5-£6k a month

Another friend works for the NHS and does it in her spare time and takes around £1500 a month.

The audience is there, hence the money they make! I've got zero issues with it

NamechangeForthisquestion1 · 05/12/2023 11:55

How is she a girl at 45?

TurnTheDamnedLightsOff · 05/12/2023 11:56

How many of your male colleagues sling round dick pics?

Andnowshesatoddler · 05/12/2023 12:52

Good for her!
Wish I had the self confidence, bet she earns a damn site more than I do in my day job doing it!

StrictlyComeSnoozing · 05/12/2023 12:55

This is wild! I don't do OF but my colleagues (barring one) know nothing about me beyond the general surface chit chat. Why do you expect to know everything about the people you work with?

And so what if she does OF. Why do you care? Why do you think its any of your business either?

greencheetah · 05/12/2023 12:57

Are you the poster whose DH is having an affair with a colleague who does OF?

Either way, it’s none of your business.

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FunnysInLaJardin · 05/12/2023 13:00

greencheetah · 05/12/2023 12:57

Are you the poster whose DH is having an affair with a colleague who does OF?

Either way, it’s none of your business.

who, me? No 😁

OP posts:
Bobbotgegrinch · 05/12/2023 13:16

Lelophants · 05/12/2023 07:40

all these comments saying “mind your own business” and yet in another thread these same posters would say it was distressing and men were just using her. Yeah I’d find it really weird too and personally I do think it’s sad these days.

You realise that both of these things can be true at the same time?

Yes, it can be distressing that people feel the need to augment their income using sex work. It shows the sad state this country is in.

But at the same time it's nothing to do with OP. Yes, it's affecting the company and they're dealing with it. But why does OP feel weird about it? She's not involved, she's not being forced to look at the pictures. Why does she even know about it unless she's been gossiping about this colleague, I doubt HR have been spreading the info about.

Mooshamoo · 05/12/2023 13:43

Its strange to me that if you do porn- you're demonised, but if you do only fans, which is also sex work, it's seen as socially acceptable.

I think because only fans is a social media platform. But they do full porn videos on it.

BashfulClam · 05/12/2023 13:44

How do you know her OF is untoward unless you looked? It’s basically uncensored YouTube and people do all kinds of things on it. Crafts, cooking, gaming etc. it’s not just for porn.

TheMaryBones · 05/12/2023 14:19

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Universalsnail · 05/12/2023 16:05

Why in the world do you care if some other women is doing Only Fans. Honestly it's rediculous. It's her life and her body. It has nothing to do with you. I don't understand at all why it makes you uncomfortable

Bobbotgegrinch · 07/12/2023 13:04

Mooshamoo · 05/12/2023 13:43

Its strange to me that if you do porn- you're demonised, but if you do only fans, which is also sex work, it's seen as socially acceptable.

I think because only fans is a social media platform. But they do full porn videos on it.

Rather than demonising people who do Only fans, maybe we should stop demonising people who film porn instead?

anarchicparadise · 07/12/2023 13:16

Ifailed · 04/12/2023 21:13

Found out today that a girl at work was on only fans

Surely it's illegal for a child to be doing such things?

Whilst I agree with the sentiment that it’s none of the OP’s business please stop being pedantic. You KNOW that girl is turn of phrase.

Whatthefnow · 07/12/2023 13:24

You probably only do it with the lights off and your socks on

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