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Girl at work on Only Fans

117 replies

FunnysInLaJardin · 04/12/2023 21:09

Found out today that a girl at work was on only fans. They had to tell her it wasn’t suitable and so I think she stopped.

I find that all most odd. Just the feeling of lifting a stone and finding all sorts underneath. Not comfortable at all with it and now wondering who else is at it

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OhwhyOY · 04/12/2023 21:49

Who cares? In most jobs it shouldn't matter at all to people's professional activities. It definitely shouldn't concern you as a colleague. Also you don't know why she was doing it, it's unpleasant to judge.

AngryBird6122 · 04/12/2023 21:50

So she is open with it, so what?

And yet Frank in accounts likes to dress up as a baby at weekends and have someone breast feed him while wearing a nappy - but you will never know that! And you think he's just lovely and such a 'normal' bloke.

Leave her be

OnAir · 04/12/2023 21:51

Maybe she actually enjoys it and the attention that comes from it. Might actually make her feel good and give her a confidence boost to be desired, even if it is dirty old men. Could be her kink. Why not ask? How she came to be on only fans. Definitely shouldn't feel uncomfortable though it's her business her body not yours.

Beezknees · 04/12/2023 21:54

You don't have to be a sex worker to mind your own business. I'm not a sex worker, I wouldn't give a toss if someone at my workplace was.

MrsTerryPratchett · 04/12/2023 21:58

A man at work told me a female coworker is on OF. It made me think a lot less... of him.

LakeTiticaca · 04/12/2023 22:01

If the Internet had been around when.i was a young single parent with a shitty ex who paid nothing for his children I would have seriously considered doing Only Fans.
It might have prevented me from losing my home

Original poster
FunnysInLaJardin · 04/12/2023 22:24

Ok then

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FunnysInLaJardin · 04/12/2023 22:25

May bump again for the daytime crowd if I can be bothered

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TheSpruce · 04/12/2023 22:25

Anyone else noticed these someone at work is on OF threads appearing fairly regularly?

Always lacking any real detail, just a few goady lines which hope to get a pile on. Pretty much always fail.

MrsTerryPratchett · 04/12/2023 22:26

FunnysInLaJardin · 04/12/2023 22:25

May bump again for the daytime crowd if I can be bothered

Why?

WandaWonder · 04/12/2023 22:28

What another one?

LittleGreenDragons · 04/12/2023 22:32

FunnysInLaJardin · 04/12/2023 22:25

May bump again for the daytime crowd if I can be bothered

It's not daytime. And this thread is not worthy of anything except an embarrassed deletion.

Honestly, unless she is using your name, or your desk, or doing it right in front of you, or illegal, it's not your business.

Flopsythebunny · 04/12/2023 22:36

FunnysInLaJardin · 04/12/2023 21:46

Ok, so obvs I wont mention it and will keep my beak out.

She is 45 and very well paid.

Just a bit odd is all, suppose we aren’t all sex workers

No, some of you are nosey, interfering, judgemental busybodies who are whiter than white.

Bootskates · 04/12/2023 22:37

This is why I mostly keep myself to myself in work. Why can't people just mind their own business? Leave the poor woman alone 🙄

Not sure why her age is relevant either.

Lesina · 04/12/2023 22:38

Leave her alone. Just leave her alone. It is nothing to do with you. Walk on

Muffins34 · 04/12/2023 22:39

A 45 year old ‘girl’ ?

Pinkflamingopants · 04/12/2023 22:39

Who saw her on there? Are they being told to stop spending their money on sex work?

OhHowTheDogsStackUp · 04/12/2023 22:40

I don't think you'll be getting a good reaction to this at any time of the day.

Keep your beak out. As everyone has told you.

Museum10661 · 04/12/2023 22:42

@FunnysInLaJardin each to there own, unless it is against company policy then its upto the individual as to what they do

Blueeyedmale · 04/12/2023 22:47

OP who cares what she's doing as long as she's doing it for her own free will then it's her body and her choice and just one more thing a 45 year old is a woman,lady female but not a girl.leave her alone get out your backside and stop being so judgemental

Digestivechocolate · 04/12/2023 22:47

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monsteramunch · 04/12/2023 22:52

Why do you think it's the time of day that is the reason people think your reaction is odd and needlessly judgmental? Have you not considered that if almost everyone so far thinks that, it might just be that most people don't agree with you?

TheMaryBones · 04/12/2023 23:08

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WhamBamThankU · 04/12/2023 23:11

I get where you're coming from. My partners ex does it and initiates filthy chats on Twitter etc when the kids are in the house. She's done videos on the settee they sit on and table they have breakfast at and I find it ducking disgusting.

hot2trotter · 04/12/2023 23:12

Nothing to do with you

Grow up