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Aibu to think it was not possible for Carole Middleton to engineer her daughters marriage?

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Bahhumbug23 · 30/11/2023 10:05

https://www.marieclaire.com/celebrity/royals/carole-middleton-master-plan/

Kate was staunchly middle class. The royals are notoriously snobby. Aibu to think that Carole did not & wouldn't be capable of engineering this? How the hell would she be able to do this?!

It Was Apparently Always Carole Middleton’s Master Plan for Eldest Daughter Kate to Meet and Woo Prince William, New Book Claims

“Carole set things up, and Kate took it the rest of the way.”

https://www.marieclaire.com/celebrity/royals/carole-middleton-master-plan

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Scruffington · 30/11/2023 19:03

I think it was Uncle Gary who engineered it all. In the same way that Anne Boleyn's uncle, the Duke of Norfolk, helped her get hitched to Henry.

Accountsdept · 30/11/2023 19:10

I've had dealings with the Middletons through work, they are utterly vile people. I dont think they engineered it but have benefitted from it! I believe Kate is lovely though

TiaraBoo · 30/11/2023 19:14

I like to think it’s true and think we should vote Carole to be PM, that’s a lady that gets the job done!

CurlewKate · 30/11/2023 19:18

Love the idea of misogyny being a "current buzz word"!🤣

Ohwhatadag · 30/11/2023 19:27

Sorry....not read any of the thread. Totally off piste.

But fucking hell i thought our family was middle class when I growing up - semi-deteched (but in the wrong end of the village). Turns out (as my DS told me), we are working class. No where near socially acceptable for the royals.

In the context of the op, the middle class is fairly broad.

Hamburgler666 · 30/11/2023 19:29

Accountsdept · 30/11/2023 19:10

I've had dealings with the Middletons through work, they are utterly vile people. I dont think they engineered it but have benefitted from it! I believe Kate is lovely though

Not surprised to hear this. She has an icy look about her.m and is very hard faced.

herewegoagain7 · 30/11/2023 19:39

To be honest I have heard that Carole Middleton is incredibly rude to staff and thinks she is royal

Emotionalsupportviper · 30/11/2023 20:06

Scruffington · 30/11/2023 11:54

A John Lewis version of Mrs Bennet.

Primark and Prejudice?

Bahhumbug23 · 30/11/2023 20:23

My son was born the same month as Princess Charlotte, we used to joke when he was born he'd be our little Prince. But jesus we weren't serious!

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Lex345 · 30/11/2023 20:49

Can you imagine how much Catherine will have been vetted before the marriage was allowed to go ahead? I imagine it would have been incredibly thorough and attempted to wheedle out if she was in it for the wrong reasons, because

1-Charles' first marriage was a disaster.
2-public extremely invested in William and Harry because of what happened to their mother
3-precarious position of popularity of royal family (because scandals may abound now-but multiple divorces and embarassments of the generation before)
4-future King
5-A commoner in the eyes of royal circlers.

And probably 100s of other reasons-any attempted manipulation or connivance will have been sniffed out and suggested to PW. Pretty sure this is why is took so long for the engagement to happen (extended vetting)

Regardless of how it happened, they look happy together and I think Catherine carries herself with a lot of dignity and poise. Which is more than can be said for some of the actual blood related Royals.

I think William married up, not down tbh.

BMW6 · 30/11/2023 21:05

Why on earth is Carole Middleton getting so much credit for machinations on here? Why not Mr Middleton????

Why, on a Forum by women and supposedly in support of women, is there such obvious Misogyny??

I'm astounded and so disappointed. No wonder we don't progress so much - too busy knifing each other.

Cordeliathecat · 30/11/2023 22:21

I don’t get all the Kate hate and accusations of manipulation.

19 year old girl finds herself in the same uni as a handsome Prince. Of course she sets her sights on him.

I’m around the same age and was at a uni he was rumoured to be attending. Myself and my friends were very excited and determined to shag him if he had joined 😂.

As it turned out, he went to St Andrews and we had to make do with friends of his from Eton ☹️.

Let’s not forget, she was a kid. I doubt she was thinking of becoming Queen, just bagging herself the most eligible uni boyfriend!

As for the Chile expedition, so many kids from the public boarding schools go off and do their gap years in the same places. Nothing conveniently coincidental about that. It’s a well trodden path.

athingofbeauty · 30/11/2023 22:52

All I can say is if Carole Middleton engineered that marriage I do wish she'd engineer our NHS next...

Bahhumbug23 · 30/11/2023 23:22

Cordeliathecat · 30/11/2023 22:21

I don’t get all the Kate hate and accusations of manipulation.

19 year old girl finds herself in the same uni as a handsome Prince. Of course she sets her sights on him.

I’m around the same age and was at a uni he was rumoured to be attending. Myself and my friends were very excited and determined to shag him if he had joined 😂.

As it turned out, he went to St Andrews and we had to make do with friends of his from Eton ☹️.

Let’s not forget, she was a kid. I doubt she was thinking of becoming Queen, just bagging herself the most eligible uni boyfriend!

As for the Chile expedition, so many kids from the public boarding schools go off and do their gap years in the same places. Nothing conveniently coincidental about that. It’s a well trodden path.

😂😂😂 Lmao!

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Illegally18 · 30/11/2023 23:27

yes, that's true

mantyzer · 30/11/2023 23:30

@BMW6 In fairness it is still the case that it is mums who do most of the parenting, not dads.

Gingerbee · 01/12/2023 00:09

The thing I notice about this thread is the complete lack of understanding of the Scottish University system.
Like many countries, Scotland has a broader based curriculum in late High school and early undergraduate years.

swayingstreetlamp · 01/12/2023 00:34

Lol'ing 'ing so much at the idea that being at a good uni at the same time as a load of wealthy 19 -21 yo boys and actively trying to make one fancy you = orchestrating all the circumstances to entrap an eligible husband/ heir of the throne. As if it were that easy.

Flandango · 01/12/2023 01:04

What is most depressing about all of this is that our future head of state is a dull tedious slaphead married to the world's most boring person. They are beige personified

redleaves75 · 01/12/2023 01:12

I can't believe anyone actually cares about this

theduchessofspork · 01/12/2023 02:08

Of course not.

She wasn’t the only girl who went to St Andrews on the offy, and she and Pippa do seem to have been natural social climbers even beyond the UMC world Carole planned via Marlborough etc (Pippa sharing flats with duke’s sons and all), but none of that would get you into princely knickers. The stars still had to align.

theduchessofspork · 01/12/2023 02:11

Bales23 · 30/11/2023 16:17

The question is WHY the Middleton parents ensured Kate had a brilliant education but didn't encourage her to follow that up with a meaningful career? I find it really weird that Kate who is supposedly smart, was only hood enough to wait around for PW to propose.

I think they think being Queen of England is a career?.. which it kind of is

LaurieStrode · 01/12/2023 03:20

Accountsdept · 30/11/2023 19:10

I've had dealings with the Middletons through work, they are utterly vile people. I dont think they engineered it but have benefitted from it! I believe Kate is lovely though

Vile in what way?

DdraigGoch · 01/12/2023 06:49

Headband · 30/11/2023 10:10

You can put yourself in the right place but how on earth can you force someone to be attracted to you?

Taking part in a charity fashion show with a see-through dress probably helped. Who could resist?

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