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Getting measured for a bra - really embarrassed

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Mumbunz · 02/11/2023 12:35

Since having my son I have somewhat let myself go. Anyway I have started to feel like myself again now he is 10 months old. So I thought it was time to sort myself out. Anyway I need some new bras, sexy ones not the wireless let your boobs droop type that I am wearing at the moment. My problem is my current bras are really disgusting, the colour has gone in them, ie they look grubby rather than pink! I am so embarrassed by them I can't bear to walk into a shop to get new ones fitted. I have tried to self measure so I can order online but I am getting nowhere near the measurements of my current bra. This is so embarrassing!

I've heard a lot about Bravissimo, but it's nowhere near where I live. Has anyone tried other shops like M&S, etc.? Is it worth going?

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kentishgodess30 · 21/11/2023 15:33

I've had more luck ordering different sizes online and returning the ones that don't work. Those professional bra fittings have never really done it for me. It's always been a 'try it on and see' kind of thing. Plus, my bra size fluctuates every couple of years, so it's all trial and error anyway. At least I can do it from the comfort of my own home!

Purplebunnie · 21/11/2023 15:36

minou123 · 02/11/2023 12:53

I worked as a bra fitter in Debenham many moons ago.

I promise you, I did not judge. Please don't feel embarrassed.
I saw many boobs and many old bras. I bra fiitted from the teenagers to the 80s.
I saw everything.

I never judged. My only focus was to get the best bra for you. I can't speak for every bra fitter out there, but my experience is theyve seen eveything, so very little is shocking or embarrassing.

So gutted Debenhams has gone, I always went there for my fittings. Best service ever

flawless29 · 21/11/2023 16:41

Glad you found a good bra fitter nearby! I totally agree with what everyone's saying about Bravissimo – they're awesome. I always had great experiences there, so it's definitely worth checking them out if you get the chance. Never found Debenhams, that great!

SeatonCarew · 21/11/2023 16:53

ChristmasAlmostComplete23 · 02/11/2023 13:30

Ive been m&s measured for 30 years. Never had a bad fit.

"These are not just breasts... These are M&S breasts!". 😄😄😄🥰

KeepYaHeadUp · 21/11/2023 16:58

Bravissimo did a remote fitting for me when I'd had a baby and my nursing bra broke. I wanted an exchange but they offered to do a fit check as I'd bought it when pregnant and they said my size would probably have changed. Sent me 2 sizes for free as I was in between and I kept the one that fit and returned the other one and the faulty one at their expense. Really really good.

TheMarzipanDildo · 21/11/2023 17:05

I do boob or bust and then go down 1 cup size and up 1 back size. So in between boob or bust and ‘M&S add 4 inches’ sizing I suppose. I think it’s best just to go into a shop and try a load on.

Roselilly36 · 21/11/2023 17:06

Bravissimo is great, they don’t measure, all fitted by sight, bring a selection of bras for you to try. Would recommend, even if you don’t have a store locally, worth travelling.

KnickerlessParsons · 21/11/2023 17:23

honeyytoast · 02/11/2023 12:44

Don’t go to m&s as they don’t measure properly (unless they’ve changed it now).
but don’t be embarrassed. They won’t give a shit and if they do, they’re in the wrong job

I bought a couple of bras in M&S last week and asked to be "fitted".
I thought the woman who looked after me did a good job. The bras fit well and are comfy anyway.

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