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Reading romance whilst babysitting

47 replies

GinGinAllTheGin · 28/10/2023 21:30

I’m babysitting for my sister whilst she’s out for dinner. My niece and nephew were in bed and asleep before she left.

I was planning on reading my kindle for the evening… except that my sister has told me that I’m “not allowed to read smutty books in her house while looking after her children”!

I’ve tried explain that it’s a romance novel with some spicy scenes but she’s not having any of it. I get the impression this is a moral objection but I don’t really see what the problem is - it’s not like I’m suggesting this as a bedtime story for the children - they’re already asleep. If they wake up I will go to them, but I don’t see why I shouldn’t read on my kindle when they’re sleeping - or what business of my sisters it is what I read…

Am I being unreasonable? (Or immoral?!)

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AhBiscuits · 28/10/2023 21:31

Yanbu for writing this absolute shite. How would she know what you had been reading pray tell?

Cherrysoup · 28/10/2023 21:31

How will she know and why did you tell her?

Ohhelpicantthinkofaname · 28/10/2023 21:32

That’s just ridiculous, she should be pleased you’ve offered to baby sit. As you say it’s not like you’ll be reading it to them as a bed time story!

AfterWeights · 28/10/2023 21:32

What is the book, come on tell us

LaviniasBigBloomers · 28/10/2023 21:32

Eh? That's fecking bonkers. However for the sake of peace I'd nod along and tell her you were reading Dickens or some sort of improving nonsense. The best thing about a Kindle is no-one can see your reading choices - don't they say the reason 50 Shades of Grey was such a global hit was because it coincided with the launch of e-readers?

Userwithallthenumbers · 28/10/2023 21:33

Do you have a reputation for smut?

Either way, YANBU. Read what you like. Just not out loud to them!

AllProperTeaIsTheft · 28/10/2023 21:33

Your sister is very weird.

Bobtheamazinggingerdog · 28/10/2023 21:34

Why does she know what you're planning on reading?

Doggymummar · 28/10/2023 21:35

Nanny cam is on filming if you get a little excited and need to indulge in a little self expression

GinGinAllTheGin · 28/10/2023 21:35

She wouldn’t know - it was a really bizarre request from her. I do mostly read romance though so I guess she just assumed.

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Yarboosucks · 28/10/2023 21:35

WTAF! I would have left and let your sister spend the evening considering a new career in the morality police. Sanctimonious or what!?!

GinGinAllTheGin · 28/10/2023 21:36

Ice planet barbarians. Totally recommend if you like that sort of thing!

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GinGinAllTheGin · 28/10/2023 21:37

I wouldn’t say I have a reputation for smut - at least I hope not! I do mostly read romances though…

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Loubelle70 · 28/10/2023 21:39

My sister is prudish, im not. Its a control thing rather than anything else. Has she always been controlling?

LakeTiticaca · 28/10/2023 21:48

I would be telling my sister she will be finding another babysitter in the future!! What a CF

bclspia · 28/10/2023 21:49

Weird

Ibravedaflood · 28/10/2023 21:50

Were you thinking of reading it aloud as a bloody bedtime story op?.
Your dsis is nuts. Unless she pays well refuse next time she asks.

MajorBarbara · 28/10/2023 21:53

Your Dsis is batshit. Why are you babysitting for her if she is so controlling? Is this is even real?

earthhz · 28/10/2023 21:56

Is the cover provocative? Maybe that's the issue?

GinGinAllTheGin · 28/10/2023 21:56

More a prude than controlling I think.

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GinGinAllTheGin · 28/10/2023 21:57

No cover visible - it’s on my kindle

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Galatine · 28/10/2023 21:57

LakeTiticaca · 28/10/2023 21:48

I would be telling my sister she will be finding another babysitter in the future!! What a CF

This 100%

earthhz · 28/10/2023 21:57

Sorry, reread and saw kindle.

steff13 · 28/10/2023 21:58

earthhz · 28/10/2023 21:56

Is the cover provocative? Maybe that's the issue?

She said she's reading on a Kindle.

I'd tell her to find another babysitter.

GinGinAllTheGin · 28/10/2023 21:58

Yes sadly this is real. I think she’s more prudish than controlling.

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