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Age/Salary /Mortgage?

272 replies

Whyohwhymewhy · 13/10/2023 22:31

I would like to buy a bigger house in a few years time but it would mean getting a bigger mortgage. Got me thinking what is the norm?

I’ll go first
39 years old
£3000 joint salary
£250k mortgage

OP posts:
NalafromtheLionKing · 14/10/2023 16:39

ASCCM · 13/10/2023 22:41

I’m 40, combined take home around 160k ( annual) Mortgage is 600k. Time left is 27 years. ( brought joint house last year)

V similar age and salaries.

NalafromtheLionKing · 14/10/2023 16:43

ASCCM · 14/10/2023 12:27

I honestly can’t believe how low these averages are and how people can afford to live anywhere!

Controversial question but, if pensioners get approx a third of the mean wage, then why do they get slated on here so much as receiving way more than they morally should get?

BurnoutGP · 14/10/2023 16:59

52 single parent
About 6k month net
105k/12 yrs left on mortgage
Was never meant to be forever house but after expensive messy divorce it is

slithytoveisascientist · 14/10/2023 17:16

The mean average salary for full-time workers in the UK is £39,966 (Up from £38,131 in 202

That's £2.5k after tax so in a couple it doesn't seem that odd to hit £5k a month

Onedaylikethi5 · 14/10/2023 17:18

36
£7-10k (I'm self employed)
£280k but sitting on £100k+ equity so will cash out and downsize at some point

UtterlyButterly2048 · 14/10/2023 17:37

Am 45. Joint take home £20k pm (half of that is what I earn) Mortgage £4120 for around £700k but will be paid off in 10 months.

willWillSmithsmith · 14/10/2023 17:59

People who are earning around £10k a month (not joint) what jobs are you doing? I’m really surprised at some of the high incomes of some single parents on here. As a single parent myself I can only look on in awe.

UtterlyButterly2048 · 14/10/2023 18:17

@willWillSmithsmith I am self employed (not a single parent though!) Took a massive amount of risk (sold my house and pretty much everything I owned to set up my business. Lived in an awful damp shitty rental. No nights/lunches or coffees out ever, no fun money, no money at all!) Was utterly, utterly bones of my arse skint for around 5 years, but it paid off in the end.

rootsandwings89 · 14/10/2023 19:08

34
Joint monthly income £3700
£212k mortgage left

DaisyLouB · 14/10/2023 21:02

43/44

tracker mortgage- 8 years left- £117k left

net combined income £5k per month

live in the south east

Theoriginalmrscillianmurphy · 14/10/2023 21:08

44, annual salary 55k, 404k left on mortgage

PeggyPiglet · 14/10/2023 21:09

34
150k per year ish
No mortgage -paid off

Bet01 · 14/10/2023 21:11

46 (me) and 50 (DH)
£12k net per month
£600k mortgage

(living in London hence massive mortgage)

CandyLeBonBon · 14/10/2023 21:15

Aged 54. Single parent of 3 teens.
£31500 annual salary. Shared ownership property with remaining mortgage of £85k hoping to pay off by the time I retire.

WinterFaye2 · 14/10/2023 22:23

This has been a really interesting thread!

36 & 35
We aren’t married so both pay 45% of our income into a joint account =
(me) £800 & (dp) £1950
282k remaining = £1500pm

overthinkersanonnymus · 14/10/2023 22:49

36
Joint income £4Kpm
£180k mortgage

Japanesejazz · 14/10/2023 23:23

Hi Tory government/daily mail
£500,000 house
no mortgage
retired
no pension
no free healthcare
well done
what have you done with my contributions?

BMrs · 15/10/2023 00:23

37, joint income of 235k per year. Our mortgage is just under £500k. We both invest in our pensions well

bullywee · 15/10/2023 06:24

37
75k annual income
£500 left on mortgage 😁 finishes Dec

bluepurpleangel · 15/10/2023 07:30

This thread is quite depressing 😂 I thought I was doing fine but now feel very behind.

Off to find a £200k job and buy a £1m house…

TheLondonDad · 15/10/2023 07:34

39 years old
135 000 annual joint income.
Still trying to save a deposit. (New to country - under 5 years, and nursery fees are wild)

0WLY · 15/10/2023 07:48

bluepurpleangel · 15/10/2023 07:30

This thread is quite depressing 😂 I thought I was doing fine but now feel very behind.

Off to find a £200k job and buy a £1m house…

It's nuts isn't it! Such an unfair society. I genuinely think we are okay on 50k between us. Utterly disgusting that a household brings in 250K while others are hungry and cold. Meant to be a civilised society. Nobody needs that much money FFS

Trampley · 15/10/2023 07:50

38
Joint Income £5500pcm
No mortgage (two properties)

0WLY · 15/10/2023 07:51

Trampley · 15/10/2023 07:50

38
Joint Income £5500pcm
No mortgage (two properties)

Well done. Why do you need two properties?

bungletru · 15/10/2023 07:55

bluepurpleangel · 15/10/2023 07:30

This thread is quite depressing 😂 I thought I was doing fine but now feel very behind.

Off to find a £200k job and buy a £1m house…

Lol with you on this!
also find it very bizarre people are sharing this info. I don’t understand why.

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