Hi everyone. I’ve name changed here so as not to link to other posts.
this is probably not as exciting at the title suggests, I’m sorry, but it does drive me insane and I would like some advice.
My husband and our DC share the main bathroom of the house while I use the en suite. I never really use the main bathroom because they are both a bit messy. (Toothpaste everywhere, empty toilet rolls etc.) I was doing some cleaning the other day and their toilet was dirty so I put a bit of bleach down and told both of them to use the en suite to leave the bleach overnight.
I was there (en suite) washing my hands while DC peed and en-suite was clean when we left.
When my husband was going to bed a little while later I reminded him to use my bathroom instead of the main one. I then heard him go in and pee and go into the main bathroom to brush his teeth then go to bed.
i went up to bed shortly after and there was very obviously wee all around the base of the toilet and the toilet seat was up. At this point I will mention that dc is a girl.
I cleaned it up and got into bed quite annoyed with him and told him why. He DENIED even using the toilet saying he didn’t need a pee before bed…
Hes just come home from work and denied again that it was him and that someone must have spilled something.
I have many more examples of things he denies doing..
I came down one morning to let the dog out and the back door wasn’t locked. He was lay to bed that night so would have let the dog out before going up. He swore blind he locked it.
we used to have a fridge that had a weak close and he would just kind of push it and it would not catch but stay open a crack. I’d often find it and tell him to make sure he’s closing it properly and he’ll deny having been at the fridge. Leaving the back yard tap on overnight. Leaving the side gate unlocked.
there are lots of other little examples. Things I know he definitely did but he Denys it all.
why does he do it? And what can I do about it because he drive me up the wall.