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Is it offensive to say inshallah?

396 replies

Loulou599 · 08/10/2023 12:35

I think it's a really beautiful sound and is more wistful than saying touch wood or god willing, but would it be offensive (if you're not muslim)?

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Mvslimah · 08/10/2023 20:03

Pollyputhekettleon · 08/10/2023 19:58

I absolutely don't care what you find offensive. Shrieking offence doesn't work on me. But I enjoy how you rephrased my question, you've been doing some googling! Keep going, by all means. I won't be engaging with you further. As I said, I don't debate with religious people about their religion. I'm sure I have paint to watch dry.

at Least tell everyone on the thread what you claim the punishment for polytheism is

Photographsandmemories · 08/10/2023 20:05

She's already told you she isn't debating religion with you. Could we stick to the topic of Inshallah? It's more interesting.

Saltyswee · 08/10/2023 20:06

My fam have wither in ME for many years and use it all the time. Don’t really see the big deal ?

people say OMG without bring religions!

Normalsizedsalad · 08/10/2023 20:08

Mvslimah · 08/10/2023 20:03

at Least tell everyone on the thread what you claim the punishment for polytheism is

We know can we say

BubziOwl · 08/10/2023 20:09

VineRipened · 08/10/2023 12:44

I would register it as mildly odd because whereas ‘god willing’ can refer to your god, my god, any god, Allah is a specific god.

As an atheist I wouldn’t say it anyway.

Went to uni with an Arab Christian who said inshallah all the time. Allah is just the Arabic word for God.

Pollyputhekettleon · 08/10/2023 20:09

Photographsandmemories · 08/10/2023 20:05

She's already told you she isn't debating religion with you. Could we stick to the topic of Inshallah? It's more interesting.

Not everyone finds the same things interesting. Ironically, the fact that the majority of you no doubt believe that Jews, Christians and Muslims all worship the same god, with just some minor little quirks, is one of the reasons why non-Arabic speaking non-muslims would use the word and find it 'wistful'. It's funny really.

accentdusoleil · 08/10/2023 20:14

Merhaba!

Say it if you want to . I imagine Muslims in France would appreciate it

But if you are interested in truly flexing, you should look for the correct pronunciation, it's insha' allah not just one word.

I hope you start to learn dialectical Arabic (Darija): it's hard but very fun

Good luck insha'allah y'a rabi

Mvslimah · 08/10/2023 20:18

Photographsandmemories · 08/10/2023 20:05

She's already told you she isn't debating religion with you. Could we stick to the topic of Inshallah? It's more interesting.

It’s not a debate, it’s false information and really harmful. There is no punishment for polytheists In the sharia. It’s not a debate because there are no 2 sides. There just isn’t.

Mvslimah · 08/10/2023 20:19

Normalsizedsalad · 08/10/2023 20:08

We know can we say

Please do say, what worldly punishment is there for someone born a polytheist ?

Normalsizedsalad · 08/10/2023 20:24

Mvslimah · 08/10/2023 20:19

Please do say, what worldly punishment is there for someone born a polytheist ?

According to mine here it's a sin and it results in stripping of rights under sharia law until you denounce the other gofa. So no inheritance for example etc.
We, however, want to caveat that with acknowledgement that different denominations of islam look at things differently and have different tolerance so it can be different punishment if any.

Mvslimah · 08/10/2023 20:29

Normalsizedsalad · 08/10/2023 20:24

According to mine here it's a sin and it results in stripping of rights under sharia law until you denounce the other gofa. So no inheritance for example etc.
We, however, want to caveat that with acknowledgement that different denominations of islam look at things differently and have different tolerance so it can be different punishment if any.

So if a Hindu couple had a Hindu child that child would have to forgo that inheritance from its Hindu parents?

im not talking about leaving Islam for another religion, as there is precedent (however debated and problematic) for punishment there im talking for Someone born a ‘polytheist’

JustAMinutePleass · 08/10/2023 20:32

Normalsizedsalad · 08/10/2023 20:24

According to mine here it's a sin and it results in stripping of rights under sharia law until you denounce the other gofa. So no inheritance for example etc.
We, however, want to caveat that with acknowledgement that different denominations of islam look at things differently and have different tolerance so it can be different punishment if any.

The Qu’ran is clear on this - All people of the book and polytheists go to Hell. But people of the book will be forgiven for their sins eventually - polyathiests never will.Polytheism / idoltry is the only sin that isn’t forgiven. It’s why the versions of Hinduism practiced during Persian / Turkic invasions changed in some parts of north India. We went from a polyathiest to a trimurti (one god) version of Hinduism.

Loulou599 · 08/10/2023 20:32

@Mvslimah
I actually think the fact that it is used in a religion "that gets flak" to use your perspective makes it even more valuable: it's another step towards demystifying and othering. When we share language, we share perspective

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MammaTill2Pojkar · 08/10/2023 20:34

feralunderclass · 08/10/2023 13:19

Yiddish has very much been borrowed and become commonplace in English lexicon. Schlep, schtum, nosh are three that immediately come into my head, but I'm sure there are many more words.

Shtum is in fact originally from German (stumm meaning silent) then became part of Yiddish and has been borrowed in to English too, I am in agreement that languages borrow and incorporate words from other languages all the time, whether religious words or not.

As long as it's not being used to mock or cause offence I see ne real reason why OP could not use Inshallah or the like.

Normalsizedsalad · 08/10/2023 20:34

Mvslimah · 08/10/2023 20:29

So if a Hindu couple had a Hindu child that child would have to forgo that inheritance from its Hindu parents?

im not talking about leaving Islam for another religion, as there is precedent (however debated and problematic) for punishment there im talking for Someone born a ‘polytheist’

In Islam it's a sin. I thought we are talking islam. There are many polytheist religions around the world. I am talking about muslims. Which I thought this is about

Loulou599 · 08/10/2023 20:34

My conclusion from this thread is I'm going to continue using it. I really like it. This has also prompted me to seriously consider learning Arabic. I just like how it sounds. I also really like the sound of a lot of Arabic music

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Mvslimah · 08/10/2023 20:34

JustAMinutePleass · 08/10/2023 20:32

The Qu’ran is clear on this - All people of the book and polytheists go to Hell. But people of the book will be forgiven for their sins eventually - polyathiests never will.Polytheism / idoltry is the only sin that isn’t forgiven. It’s why the versions of Hinduism practiced during Persian / Turkic invasions changed in some parts of north India. We went from a polyathiest to a trimurti (one god) version of Hinduism.

I mean there are 2 Ayat that says people of the book go to heaven but I’m aware this is hotly contested by some more regressive scholars. But that’s an other worldly punishment not in this world

JustAMinutePleass · 08/10/2023 20:35

Mvslimah · 08/10/2023 20:29

So if a Hindu couple had a Hindu child that child would have to forgo that inheritance from its Hindu parents?

im not talking about leaving Islam for another religion, as there is precedent (however debated and problematic) for punishment there im talking for Someone born a ‘polytheist’

No if it’s the country I think it is - it solely applies to Muslims whose partner’s haven’t converted and whose children haven’t formally converted either (the children of a Muslim mother are assumed to be Muslim).

Hindus can leave their inheritances to their children in all Arab countries including property etc.

ForfarBridie · 08/10/2023 20:36

But if you are interested in truly flexing, you should look for the correct pronunciation, it's insha' allah not just one word

I was just about to comment on the pronunciation of it. It’s so important to get it correct.

Mumof2boys17 · 08/10/2023 20:37

It would be weird to say it to someone who is not Muslim. Sometimes I have had people say it to me and it’s VERY awkward as someone who does not speak the language or follow the religion and has no intention of doing so.

Mvslimah · 08/10/2023 20:38

Normalsizedsalad · 08/10/2023 20:34

In Islam it's a sin. I thought we are talking islam. There are many polytheist religions around the world. I am talking about muslims. Which I thought this is about

I’m confused as to what you’re saying?

yes to put any other god before Allah is a sin, but someone isn’t accountable if they’ve not received the message (of Islam ).

polytheists aren’t to be punished by Muslims was basically my point.

whatever Happens in the hereafter isn’t for us that’s for Allah but in this life there is no punishment for being born into another religion.

Loulou599 · 08/10/2023 20:41

@ForfarBridie
It's hard to transcribe but I have mostly heard it from Moroccans and Algerians and they say it like insh-eul-UH

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MankyMinge · 08/10/2023 20:43

Loulou599 · 08/10/2023 20:34

My conclusion from this thread is I'm going to continue using it. I really like it. This has also prompted me to seriously consider learning Arabic. I just like how it sounds. I also really like the sound of a lot of Arabic music

It sounds like you are respectful of Arabic culture and Islam, rather than being appropriative.

Mvslimah · 08/10/2023 20:43

Loulou599 · 08/10/2023 20:32

@Mvslimah
I actually think the fact that it is used in a religion "that gets flak" to use your perspective makes it even more valuable: it's another step towards demystifying and othering. When we share language, we share perspective

Look you do you.

if you like the language please learn it, a world will open up to you. It’s quite difficult but it’s an experience to learn it, but my opinion is that just to start saying ‘in sha Allah’ pronouncing and spelling it wrong just because it sounds exotic is weird, especially with no connection to the culture or religion.

but as you like the sound of the language then learn, but to be clear you using the word in sha Allah doesn’t promote interfaith dialogue or ‘demystifying the Other’ that’s not sharing a perspective, it’s just using a word. You could read up on Islam if you wanted to do that. But without researching into Islam, I find that perspective disingenuous and kind of patronising. But I really would encourage you to read into Islam, especially feminist perspectives, you might find it really interesting!

good luck

Normalsizedsalad · 08/10/2023 20:43

Mvslimah · 08/10/2023 20:38

I’m confused as to what you’re saying?

yes to put any other god before Allah is a sin, but someone isn’t accountable if they’ve not received the message (of Islam ).

polytheists aren’t to be punished by Muslims was basically my point.

whatever Happens in the hereafter isn’t for us that’s for Allah but in this life there is no punishment for being born into another religion.

I am confused what you are saying. We are talking on this thread about islam and muslims (and arabic). Not about everyone from every religion?
In Islam muslims are punished for polytheism.
You even said
there is no punishment for polytheism in Islam, so you can’t. to reply to person about punishment of polytheism in islam.

There is no pumisment to people of other faits who practice polytheism but as muslim in sharia law you will be punished as it's a sin