@quiteoldad
The tragedy of the situation is that for centuries Jews and Muslims had co-existed relatively peacefully across the Middle East. During the 17th 18th and 19th centuries, in what is now Iraq, Iran, Syria and Egypt there were large Jewish communities who whilst not necessarily dancing cheek to cheek, rubbed along with their Muslim neighbours
Not really. There were pockets of relative safety, but for the most part they existed with Dhimmi status where they were not equal citizens. Over hundreds of years leaderships changed. Sometimes there would be "tolerance" and other times not. It varied from country to country but Dhimmi were subjected to a number of restrictions. That was typically segregated quarters, wearing a yellow badge or special clothes, public subservience to Muslims, not allowed to marry or socialise with Muslims, extra taxes (the jizya), limited legal rights. Throughout the Ottoman rule for example, a Jew's testimony would not count in court against a Muslim.
Sometimes a certain leader would be more liberal and in a few places Jews were allowed to do more. They did certain deals to get certain things for themselves and as a result might have attained high rank, power or influence - but it was precarious consistently with a lengthy list of persecutions, arbitrary confiscations, attempted forced conversions, or pogroms. Not really the picture you paid at all.
So this is a bit of a myth really and what you have characterised is not really an accurate depiction. My own family were in Iraq until the Farhoud in 1941 and then in Egypt and even up until the 1950s they lived precariously on a whim and certainly were never equal citizens.
Arab nationalism rose in the 19th century, and with it, antisemitism. There were numerous pogrums in the run up to the establishment of Israel. Algeria in the 30s. Iraq, Libya, Syria and Yemen. Hundreds murdered and looted. They were quite a small population, so your characterisation isn't really fair. How would, for example, a small community making up 1% of the UK feel if they were frequently murdered and looted and stripped of property? Would they feel they were "living in peaceful brotherhood?"
It was the establishment of the state of Israel that brought out the worst. Initially, Jews were not expelled from Arab countries, but actually barred from emigrating to it, lest they strengthened it. They were being held as unwelcome guests. In the early 50’s persecution increased, life became intolerable and they were allowed to go, as long as they left behind most of their wealth
As I said, they were being persecuted and murdered fairly regularly. My own family fled with nothing from Iraq because as you say that what all they were allowed to do. I am not really on board with the idea that the existence of the state of Israel upset the apple cart. The truth was, Jews were already being persecuted and subjugated in their homelands and that was why they were happy and willing to abandon those homes and seek safety. As well as the right to simply exist, with fair right in law, wearing what they wanted, owning their own land and so on. Why would anyone want them to live any other way?
Israel has got to make some move to show that it is serious about co-existing. Hand over the all the settlements to the Palestinians and for the guarantee of no more rockets, and using the money that they save on Iron Dome and other defense, build a decent infrastructure for the west bank. Ditto Gaza. Just a thought
Israel has a government I genuinely can't stand - but everything in your post just makes me sigh. There's a narrative that everything was lovely when Jews were being subjugated and murdered (nothing to see here folks!) and after fleeing to form a united, safe group, on land that was either sold to them or legally given - they are kind of victim blames by you for upsetting the apple cart.
My family would have gladly stayed in Iraq (or Egypt) but people become refugees when their lives are dangerous and intolerable. It is not their fault no one wanted to give them equal human rights or anything close to it.
Israel is "serious about coexisting". That is why they have accepted every deal since 1936 and the other side has rejected it. They are dealing with extremists who don't want to negotiate and who outright state they intend to never do so.