@Malvasylvestris
If someone came and stole my house, my farm
They didn't. Hamas rules Gaza. Israel has had no settler in Gaza for about 20 years I think.
Denied me water
they don't. Water is distributed from ground sources in accordance with the Oslo accord. About half of which is wasted in Gaza because they bombed the shit out of their infrastructure and then carried on bombing it instead of fixing it. They are also perfectly capable of desalinating water, so if they don't desalinate enough that is a political choice
and freedom of movement
Or to put it another way, if someone has been bombing the shit out of you and has committed decades of incessant terrorist attacks you have to make quite sure they're not bringing in weapons and bombs or putting terrorists into place to endanger your people. Egypt could open it's borders, but won't.
put my children in prison
They don't. Anyone in prison is there for a reason. Either entering illegally or being linked to terrorism.
Especially when any Jew is allowed the 'right of return' - how that must sting
Israel can let in anyone they want. Like any other country. If they choose to let in people who are unlikely to want to murder them, that seems like a sound choice.
Add to the above, there is nothing you have not described that hasn't happened to countless Jews in many Arab countries as well as those who had land or homes in Gaza or the West Bank. None of them are blowing up children or kidnapping toddlers or executing elderly civilians. I assume you're not advocating Jews attack Iran, Syria, Libya, Iraq and so on to fight for "land" that was their families 80 years ago or to demand rights in their country? If not, then it's you who might have a double standard here.