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To ask if we can please try to have Palestine and Israel thread where we acknowledge how awful it is for everyone, but try not to throw shit at each other?

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theotherfossilsister · 07/10/2023 19:48

Please

From someone who does have 'skin in the game.'

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Jazzandblues · 08/10/2023 22:30

With the young people I see, they all understand what is happening . They are not just accepting the propaganda coming out of Israel nor the fake cries of Zionists in the west. That is reassuring. It won't be like this forever.

Truthisbetterthanlies · 08/10/2023 22:30

Lifesingflowers · 08/10/2023 21:25

You are kidding right? Israel is protecting their country, however Palestine are labelled terrorist for protecting their own. Israel are kicking Palestine out of their home, rationing food and water. Pro Palestine here

Another straw man.

Palestinians aren't labelled terrorists because they 'protect their own'. They're labelled terrorists for committing acts of terror.

I challenge you to tell me how raping a woman till she's visibly bleeding through her clothes or spitting on the corpse of a naked tourist helps Palestinians to 'protect their own'. It doesn't. It is terrorism, pure and simple.

And you are a disgusting, disgraceful apologist for terrorism and mass murder.

LemonyTicket · 08/10/2023 22:31

@Efacsen

Some arms are smuggled in by sympathetic regimes (Iran, Syria) but also some is actually manufactured in Palestine. They are making guns for example.

Also though, the lines of allegiance are not necessarily black and white. President Abbas is working with the Israeli government to get a hold on terrorist activities in the West Bank. Apparently Hamas and PIJ (Palestinian Islamic Jihad) are trying to recruit poor children into terrorism and Abbas' forces have been charged with cracking down on these terrorist cells.

Israel just also openly approved a huge shipment or arms and tanks yada yada from the US to The West Bank, as it was said they would use them to take control of terrorists. No idea if maybe some of that went amiss and into the wrong hands.

Coughingdodger · 08/10/2023 22:31

LemonyTicket · 08/10/2023 22:07

Brilliant video @Ombrémermaid - an accurate and brief summary of reality that everyone should watch.

One part that people often miss is really well pointed out in this video. The leadership in Gaza could have spent the last 20 years developing things for their citizens. Desalinating water, working on agriculture, creating an economy and jobs. Yet they have indeed instead turned it into a terrorist state where people are impoverished - and some have the bizarre logic to come here and say Israeli's are not providing them with enough food. There's no other situation on earth where you'd expect someone else to provide food for their neighbouring country with it's own independent rules, but people expect Israel to operate under these very bizarre expectations!

I don’t think you have ever been to Palestine.

WhatWhereWho · 08/10/2023 22:31

Ibizafun · 08/10/2023 22:23

This absolutely

It was a massive failure of Israeli security though and that's being said within and outside Israel. And there have been questions over some Ukrainian decisions which might have put them in a better position against the invasion -this from Ukrainians too. Why should there not be if they are warranted.

Martin83 · 08/10/2023 22:31

Have you heard some brainless/spineless remarks by Lib Dem and Greens.

Along the lines "we stand for all the good against all the bad". I don't know is it political correctness or simple stupidity.

vittoria9 · 08/10/2023 22:32

WhatWhereWho · 08/10/2023 22:23

Testing nuclear weapons -really?

It's also well-known that Palestine uses schools and nurseries as rocket launch pads and weapons depots, so that when Israel targets them (having told those inside to leave beforehand through several warnings), they can then tell people like you "ISRAEL ATTACKS SCHOOLS", and then you can disseminate this "information"

ketchup07070 · 08/10/2023 22:32

@ChickenSoupAndLokshen Why do you think he is telling them to leave, if it isn't possible do you think? Also, he must know that they will be reluctant to leave homes they might never get back - it seems possible Israel will occupy Gaza as it does west bank, so any Gazans who leave may become permanent refugees.

Truthisbetterthanlies · 08/10/2023 22:33

Jazzandblues · 08/10/2023 22:30

With the young people I see, they all understand what is happening . They are not just accepting the propaganda coming out of Israel nor the fake cries of Zionists in the west. That is reassuring. It won't be like this forever.

Which bit of mass murder videoed live by Hamas counts as Israeli propaganda, or 'fake cries of Zionists', in your book?

Gosh you sound nice.

And completely normal. Not remotely like a psychopath.

Thebestwaytoscareatory · 08/10/2023 22:33

LemonyTicket · 08/10/2023 21:29

@chatenoire

I do not presume polls are completely accurate, but the data on Palestinian civilians approval over time has been according to Wikipedia indicating that most of the time Palestinian citizens do support these kinds of attacks :(

A 2001 poll conducted by the Palestinian Center for Policy & Survey Research (PSR) found that 58 percent of Palestinians supported armed attacks against Israeli civilians inside Israel.

A May 2002 poll by the center found that support for bombings of civilians inside Israel dropped to 52%.

Firing rockets from Beit Hanoun was supported by a majority of Palestinians (75%) but at the same time 83% of Palestinians favored a mutual cessation of violence suggesting they do want peace more generally but still support violence if it's tit for tat.

A report indicated support for attacks on Israeli targets stood at 34–40 percent in 1997–1999, climbed to 65–85 percent in 2000–2004, and dropped back to 41 percent at the end of 2004.

A 2005 poll by the center indicated that 50 percent supported "suicide bombings against Israeli civilians", and 36 percent supported "the resumption of military operations against Israeli targets"

A March 2008 report by Palestinian Center for Policy & Survey Research (PSR) noted that the level of support for armed attack against Israeli civilians inside Israel increased significantly with 67% supporting and 31% opposed, compared to support by 40% in 2005 and 55% in 2006.

A February 2008 suicide bombing that killed one Israeli woman was supported by 77% and opposed by 19%. An overwhelming majority of 84 percent supported the March 2008 incident where a Palestinian gunman killed eight students and wounded eleven in a Jerusalem school.

So I do think there are big numbers of civilians that support it, but in fairness a lot of them have been hurt or lost family members so it's hard to say how they would feel if they were living in peace.

I believe this is the most recent report from them, with data from up to December 2022. Looks like there's declining support for a two-party state from both sides, with only 30% and 31% saying their preferred option is to reach a peaceful agreement.

Interestingly, the report also shows that only 22% of Palestinians say they are willing to act in order to promote good relations between Israeli Jews and Palestinians vs 70% for Israeli Arabs and 56% for Israel Jews.

pcpsr.org/en/node/928

quiteoldad · 08/10/2023 22:33

It was an intelligence catastrophe. Shin Bet and Mossad are probably rated as the best intelligence agencies in the world. The failure of the former to even have a sniff of this Hamas operation is a catasrophic failure on their part.

Peterrs33 · 08/10/2023 22:34

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Truthisbetterthanlies · 08/10/2023 22:34

Coughingdodger · 08/10/2023 22:31

I don’t think you have ever been to Palestine.

Well that's a cryptic post.

Care to explain it, or state what relevance it has to LemonyTicket's excellent post?

Shumpalumpa · 08/10/2023 22:35

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Justaboutalive · 08/10/2023 22:35

If you pen up any group of people and treat them as less for many years and take what little they have via land grabs, you should not be surprised that bite back.

this is what Israel has done to the Palestinians over many years. It is now a hive of radicalisation that allows groups like Hamas to thrive. It hasn’t been helped by the US supporting the land grabs and the sheer stupidity of Trump moving the American embassy to Jerusalem - such a poor move for any attempted peace.

what is difficult to work out is how much is Iran and US (external)/and how much is Israel v Palestine (internal) . It has been going on so long now, working out who is to blame is impossible.

what I do know is that the fault does not lie with…

the kids at the music festival
the Palestinian families in the (now) bombed tower blocks.
the kidnapped Israelis
the Palestinian people living with no food, power, etc as Isreal have blocked it.

Truthisbetterthanlies · 08/10/2023 22:36

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Shall we play Antisemitic Trope Bingo?

I just scored It's All A Jewish Conspiracy.

Shumpalumpa · 08/10/2023 22:36

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Advocating mass murder of innocent civilians? By that logic Israel should be attacked because of the settlers

Abhannmor · 08/10/2023 22:37

quiteoldad · 08/10/2023 22:14

@Ketchup I think this has potential to escalate into global conflict, which won't be good for anyone. If America and the UK get involved, maybe other Muslim countries will, maybe even Russia or China

I'm not sure global conflict is on the cards. Proxy wars serve our purposes well enough so no need to escalate. In addition, the Palestinians have very little that we need and are therefore not worth fighting for. I can't see any sup[erpower springing to their defense, militarily. Iran, their closest ally wouldn't dare. On the other hand Israel has very useful Pharma, IT, defense and electronics industries, which are. That is the realpolitik of the conflict.

Until nations have leaders that are motivated by making the world as a whole a better place for all, rather than obtaining and maintaining power, the situation will continue.

The Norwegians had a good go at trying to resolve things 30 years ago, with limited success. It would be great if they had another go. The Norwegians are one of the very small number of nations that I would trust.

Well one thing is sure : Norway doesn't need anyone's oil. Or tech for that matter. The US is 100 % behind Israel. Russia is a hot mess - and can't even protect its former Soviet Republic , Armenia. And China isn't interested. The EU is focused on Ukraine.

Norway as good an honest broker as you'll get.

BlurredEdges · 08/10/2023 22:37

ketchup07070 · 08/10/2023 22:19

It's strange Netanyahu telling Gazans to leave. That's probably very difficult for many of them, and even if they did doesn't that mean they will become refugees if Israel goes in and re-occupies it?

He didn't. He told them to leave specific named places (the previous sentence).

LemonyTicket · 08/10/2023 22:37

@ketchup07070

I think this has potential to escalate into global conflict, which won't be good for anyone. If America and the UK get involved, maybe other Muslim countries will, maybe even Russia or China. It seems a dangerous game. I'd rather they were talking about restoring order, peacekeeping and negotiation than about making sure Israel has the best weaponry to punish Gaza

I have thought for a long time that Hamas were building up to another uprising, and the worry is, Israel has now exhausted all attempts at peace. I do realise they should pull out of the West Bank and behave a heck of a lot better, but 75 years of experience tells them it won't make any difference. They're simply not going to accept any deal where Israel continues to exist.

So once they start another uprising (which might be happening) I greatly fear that Israel will indeed just build up to wiping them off the map. They will reign hellfire now, won't they? And unfortunately there are only three ways this goes:

  • Palestinians accept a two state solution and Hamas is replaced democratically with an elected government who agree to live in peace with Jews.

or

  • Palestine (certainly Gaza) is blown away or otherwise completely taken over by Israel

or

  • The fighting and bombing and killing goes on indefinitely

I don't see any other outcomes and given how right wing this government are, and their increasing aggression - I think they will go for the second. It is truly tragic that leaderships have successively failed to simply agree to a two state solution and I am so saddened by the way things have gone.

Both places could have been prospering and living as allies. They was never any need at all for this.

Shumpalumpa · 08/10/2023 22:38

Truthisbetterthanlies · 08/10/2023 22:36

Shall we play Antisemitic Trope Bingo?

I just scored It's All A Jewish Conspiracy.

Nothing to do with religion.

The USA has often attacked itself to justify attacks on others.

Is that anti-semitic too? 🙄

Stop equating Israel with Judaism.

LemonyTicket · 08/10/2023 22:39

@vittoria9

When I visited Israel, something that struck me was just how much Arabs appreciated their Israeli citizenship. They did NOT want to live under the Palestinian authorities, and witnessing their harmonious relationships with their Jewish friends was very touching

Absolutely. There is no reason on earth they can't live side by side. My sister is married to a Muslim and both families get on brilliantly. We actually have so much similarity in terms of culture. Like anything, extremists get in the way.

etmoietmoietmoi · 08/10/2023 22:40

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Your one post away from blaming George Soros.

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