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To ask if we can please try to have Palestine and Israel thread where we acknowledge how awful it is for everyone, but try not to throw shit at each other?

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theotherfossilsister · 07/10/2023 19:48

Please

From someone who does have 'skin in the game.'

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LemonyTicket · 08/10/2023 20:39

@SquashedSquashess

Israel was always intended to be a “two state solution”. However, anti-Semitic sentiment is held by many Muslims (I have Muslim family members, and they make jokes about Hitler having the right idea, before anyone wants to tell me I’m wrong. Obviously not all Muslims are anti-Semitic, but it’s not unusual). So Palestine’s dissatisfaction is not just about the nation of Israel geographically, but about Jewish people being given statehood. The Palestinians were never going to cooperate with a two state solution

I think this is what people miss. They go on about atrocities on both sides but basically it's a situation where one side wants to accept what the UN decided and the other side doesn't and never will.

No amount of negotiation or kind treatment etc. will ever change that. The history of it shows that from the very beginning it was civil war, and then acts of ongoing terrorism. There were very strong attempts at peace talks during the camp david summits but honestly I think what you are saying is right.

They are never going to cooperate with a two state solution. I don't know where it goes from there. But I do think the current leadership are benefitting from the unrest and chaos and are happy for it to go on forever. They are probably living nicely in luxury and couldn't give a toss.

Angrycat2768 · 08/10/2023 20:45

Pollyputhekettleon · 08/10/2023 20:29

I wouldn't see it as a matter of America choosing to stop supporting them or withdrawing, although things could get so bad domestically in the US that public sentiment turns, if only for monetary reasons. But it's more that America is a failing empire and Israel can't survive the world that's coming. Mass evacuation to the US would be their best outcome.

No I think that's why at the moment the US has no choice but to support Israel. If it got to a stage where they could not support them anymore, yes, it would be a disaster for Israelis. However this would not lead to peace in the ME or democracy or fairness because there are moderate Muslims who do not want to live under oppressive Islamist regimes and oppressive, violent regimes who want everyone to live under Islamist regimes whether they like it or not.

Truthisbetterthanlies · 08/10/2023 20:48

Dymaxion · 08/10/2023 20:39

Its such a massively shit situation for anyone who is living in that region.

If I were to cunningly fashion a tin foil hat, one thing I might say is that countries who were sympathetic to another country in another conflict, might be less generous in sharing their warmongering goodies as a result of what has happened here. It could also be described as politically useful to the current incumbents of one of the countries involved. I am probably giving both far too much credit though, its probably a case of Hanlon's razor ?

Nope. Your conspiracy theory signalling is too subtle for the likes of me.

Could you spell out your dog whistle, please, and say who exactly you were referring to when you said "It could also be described as politically useful to the current incumbents of one of the countries involved"?

And rephrase "countries who were sympathetic to another country in another conflict, might be less generous in sharing their warmongering goodies as a result of what has happened here" into something less cryptic, so that people actually understand the point you're trying to make?

Thanks.

Truthisbetterthanlies · 08/10/2023 20:50

Pollyputhekettleon · 08/10/2023 19:35

It's actually very western-centric to describe Islamic extremists as far right. Left and right wing derive from seating arrangements during the French revolution. That matters because it's misleading to impose it on a non-European ideology. The European far right are, among other things, ethnic nationalists, and actually not generally remotely interested in global conquest. Islam is pretty much the opposite of that, it's a universalist faith like Christianity, but with a goal of global conquest. The aspects of the far right you've picked out are not the whole story.

But of course you do have a point, there are major parallels. The Left believes that religious extremism among a group designated to be victims of capitalist imperialism can only be caused by that capitalist imperialism. This is why they'll obsess about the idea that the British created Wahhabism therefore jihadism/Islamic extremism generally (for some nefarious purpose that I forget). So the slightly more intelligent representatives of the left don't actually deny the problems with the fanatics, it's just that they blame imperialism/white people/capitalism for it.

They also believe that the ruling classes try to create islamophobia to divide and rule the working class in western countries, so they're desperately trying to prevent that by any means necessary including plenty of lying/wilful ignorance/minimizing/justifying etc.

There's also an unspoken reverse racism. They actually don't hold non-white people and ideologies to the same standards as themselves.

"It's actually very western-centric to describe Islamic extremists as far right. Left and right wing derive from seating arrangements during the French revolution. That matters because it's misleading to impose it on a non-European ideology. The European far right are, among other things, ethnic nationalists, and actually not generally remotely interested in global conquest."

I'm sorry, you might want to break it to all those who were invaded in WWII that actually the far right are not remotely interested in global conquest? Hmm

Angrycat2768 · 08/10/2023 20:51

Truthisbetterthanlies · 08/10/2023 20:50

"It's actually very western-centric to describe Islamic extremists as far right. Left and right wing derive from seating arrangements during the French revolution. That matters because it's misleading to impose it on a non-European ideology. The European far right are, among other things, ethnic nationalists, and actually not generally remotely interested in global conquest."

I'm sorry, you might want to break it to all those who were invaded in WWII that actually the far right are not remotely interested in global conquest? Hmm

Yes I was going to point this out!

Catusrusty · 08/10/2023 20:52

LemonyTicket · 08/10/2023 18:28

@Pollyputhekettleon

Thank you for making the point I was trying to make but doing a far better job

@LemonyTicket you've done a great job with your thorough rational posting.

lavender2023 · 08/10/2023 20:54

VisaWoes · 08/10/2023 20:01

The whole situation horrifies and saddens me from both sides.

obviously the recent attacks are terrible. taking civilian people out their homes, killing them, kidnapping them is very wrong.

2 million Palestinians are effectively kept in an open air prison in awful conditions . I have seen footage of Palestinian kids having their school books removed from them by Israeli soldiers because the books had the Palestinian flag on them. 70% of Palestinians don’t have access to a sewage network. Israel has just poured concrete down some water supplies and ripped up others. Many Palestinians inc children have been killed over the years.

I am very confused over the history and who has more claim to the land due to so much conflicting stuff.

so is the gist of it that back in the time of Jesus the Jews lived in Israel?

but at some point they left? This is what I’m not clear about, some people say they left of their own violation and just expected hundreds of years later to be able to come back? But then I’ve seen other stuff saying they were persecuted out the area and that at that point Palestinians were occupying Israel.

so Israelis believed they had a right to return. Palestinians said they didn’t have a right to return. But who is correct? 🤷‍♀️

what gave the United Nations the right to give the land back to Israel/Jewish people if the Palestinians had been there so long?

Jewish people have always lived in Israel. Of course the majority had to leave when the Romans forced them to and being in Europe/other parts of the middle east meant they developed a distinctive culture. There was a Jewish nationalism movement and in the end, the British decided to give them a state. It is actually a complex geopolitical situation, the ottomans had lost world war one and the British inherited this territory. I suppose from their perspective their way of exerting and maintaining control over the region was to give Jews a state within the area. However prior to that Jews were already voluntarily buying up land and forming settlements and attempting to emigrate to Israel even before world war 2. The arabs there were obviously not very happy about this, just like some people are not too happy about refugees and immigrants here. However people would always have dreams..and of course world war 2 intensified this ambition. They were granted a new state but we're attacked by the surrounding countries from the start. What the motley crew of Israeli militas did then was not all kosher but Jewish people wanted very much to have a Jewish home..and rhen the expulsion of jews out of arab lands and Jews fleeing troubled countries like russia and Ethiopia have swelled the numbers.

StowOnTheWold · 08/10/2023 20:56

Dymaxion · 08/10/2023 20:39

Its such a massively shit situation for anyone who is living in that region.

If I were to cunningly fashion a tin foil hat, one thing I might say is that countries who were sympathetic to another country in another conflict, might be less generous in sharing their warmongering goodies as a result of what has happened here. It could also be described as politically useful to the current incumbents of one of the countries involved. I am probably giving both far too much credit though, its probably a case of Hanlon's razor ?

Did you use Chat GPT or similar? I don't understand a word of it.

Helpmepleaseimbusy · 08/10/2023 20:58

SquashedSquashess · 08/10/2023 19:58

You should provide evidence to support your position @Helpmepleaseimbusy - I have provided plenty of descriptors you can Google and find news stories on regarding the current atrocities. Telling people they’re wrong with no future supporting reading or detail is unhelpful, and leaves you looking like the ignorant (and dare I say anti-Semitic) one in this conversation.

So I’ll wait for examples of Israelis beating Palestinian children and parading the half naked bodies of dead Palestinian women. But I won’t hold my breath.

www.hrw.org/news/2023/08/28/west-bank-spike-israeli-killings-palestinian-children

LemonyTicket · 08/10/2023 21:07

Thanks @Catusrusty . This isn't something I can usually discuss outside family as I find as a rule (hope this doesn't offend)

Right wing people can be Islamophobic and I can't identify with them on most social issues of any kind.

Left wing people can be very anti Israel to a point I can't talk to them about this at all.

The people on this thread have been very polite and it's been an enjoyable exchange on a serious issue.

SquashedSquashess · 08/10/2023 21:08

Glad I didn’t hold my breath. HRW has been accused of bias when reporting on human rights issues in multiple jurisdictions (and indeed, Gaza is one jurisdiction they are accused of treating with favourable bias).

These examples are one instance of stray fire, and shooting of 17 year old Palestinians who were throwing Molotov cocktails at Israeli soldiers.

Hardly on par with what has been inflicted on Israelis over the last 36 hours - the kidnap of children, the targeted purposeful killing of civilians, and the parading of bodies through Gaza.

Mustardseed86 · 08/10/2023 21:08

@LemonyTicket I've just been reading your posts and wanted to thank you for your incredibly informative and well explained thoughts on the situation.

SquashedSquashess · 08/10/2023 21:09

Thank you @LemonyTicket - your posts have been detailed and thoughtful on this topic

Whereforartthoudave · 08/10/2023 21:11

I really feel for the Palestinians. They are going to suffer even more now, the Israeli government are going to take awful, bloodletting revenge for the Hamas attacks.

Hawkins0009 · 08/10/2023 21:14

StowOnTheWold · 08/10/2023 20:56

Did you use Chat GPT or similar? I don't understand a word of it.

Hanlon’s razor

"is the adage that you should “never attribute to malice that which is adequately explained by stupidity”. This suggests that when assessing people’s actions, you should not assume that they acted out of a desire to cause harm, as long as there is a reasonable alternative explanation."

That bit is from Google

LemonyTicket · 08/10/2023 21:15

@Helpmepleaseimbusy

I literally cannot abide by killing anyone, much less children, but it's important to note reality here.

Palestinian leadership in Fatah and Hamas use children in warfare. They arm them deliberately, they used them as human shields and they went through a phase of using them as suicide bombers.

They do this deliberately because they know the international community will judge Israel for killing children. Unfortunately, a lot of the time the reality is that the "murdered children" are sadly armed children radicalised and use by their own people to kill Jews.

That is fucking tragic, but it's what happens. I saw a mother online where all three of her children had been used like this by Hamas and such was her indoctrination that she volunteered them as she felt it service to Allah.

You cannot compare this to Hamas deliberately bombing schools, kidnapping children, murdering the elderly or parading naked tourists around like corpse trophies.

The brutality of these regimes and similar ones such as ISIS is beyond comprehension and anything Israel does, while frequently abhorrent, it not comparable.

chatenoire · 08/10/2023 21:16

Personally I think it's a very hard time to be a Jew. I feel for my people, and I feel for the Palestinians. I'm sure the average Palestinian didn't approve of what Hamas did.

LemonyTicket · 08/10/2023 21:16

Thanks so much @Mustardseed86 and @SquashedSquashess - amazed anyone put the energy into reading my droning on!

vittoria9 · 08/10/2023 21:18

LemonyTicket · 08/10/2023 20:04

Good Grief. The fact people are posting this and commenting they agree with it is genuinely scary.

  1. Israel is in breach of international law

Yes, they are. Something should be done about it. That thing is not raping, murdering and kidnapping innocent people. And NO that is not the "only way".

  1. Palestinians are fighting to liberate their homeland from 75 years of Israeli oppression and terrorism

a) It is Jews homeland too.
b) You cannot "liberate" a country that never existed
c) Palestinian opression is 50 x worse against their OWN people
d) I don't think they're in any position to complain about "terrorism".
e) If they wanted peace they have been offered it many times

  1. The Israel military and settlers are the "militants" NOT the Palestinian freedom fighters

The Israeli settlers are in the west bank, ruled by Fatah. These attacks were done by Hamas who rule Gaza where there are no settlements. Also, settlers were not attacked. Innocent civilians including children and the elderly were targeted.

  1. Armed struggle is legitimate under international law

But seemingly only in one direction! Regardless, this is not "armed struggle", it is attacks on civilians on foreign territory, which is prohibited under Internation al Humanitarian Law (check article 51(2) of additional protocol I to the Geneva convention which says: "Acts or threats of violence the primary purpose of which is to spread terror among the civilian population are prohibited."

  1. Israel has been abducting Palestinians for many years. Over 1,000 Palestinians are currently being held in 'administrative detention' in Israeli dungeons.

Firstly, most of those are being held for being in Israel illegally with the intent to murder Israelis. Or, for acts of terrorism. The actual figure is just over 300 I think. If they stopped trying to kill Israeli's they might end up in prison less often.

Palestine has also been abducting and holding Palestinians for years. They do this to THEIR OWN people. It's reported by Amnesty via NGOs every year. Forced disappearances, arbitrary detentions, no trials. No one can give you numbers because they don't have rule of law.

Yes, I noted you are biased!

This is a really good summary

Whereforartthoudave · 08/10/2023 21:18

Israeli war plane are bombing entire blocks of flats in retaliation, the death toll of innocents will keep
climbing.

DownNative · 08/10/2023 21:20

Very good posts, @LemonyTicket. I will add my thoughts and some detail on Northern Ireland since its been mentioned again. To put it simply, Northern Ireland is NOT comparable to the situation in Israel and Palestine. No, ours was nothing on that scale.

But I've read your posts here.

Heelenahandbasket · 08/10/2023 21:21

Hummingbird233 · 07/10/2023 19:55

If any other country attacked another, people would be calling that country out.

Palestinians attack Israel, killing and hurting mass people - "it's sad on both sides".

WTF. Let's call this as it is. It's atrocious that Hamas, a terrorist organisation, gets to bomb civilians and hide behind a long standing conflict. What they've done is awful.

This. Someone attacks us Jews and it’s all “both sides” are terrible.

Lifesingflowers · 08/10/2023 21:25

You are kidding right? Israel is protecting their country, however Palestine are labelled terrorist for protecting their own. Israel are kicking Palestine out of their home, rationing food and water. Pro Palestine here

Helpmepleaseimbusy · 08/10/2023 21:25

Those who want other evidence - pls feel free to do a Google search. I don't feel the need to spoon feed people evidence. If they are truly interested in the subject and care, they can do the research themselves.
Let's also pls remember many things are not reported in the media.
It truly is an awful situation for the Palestinians.
#freepalestine #theworldwillnotforgetyou

SomeCatFromJapan · 08/10/2023 21:26

Is the bombing of the blocks of flats just random retaliation though, or is it targeted as there's intelligence suggesting it contains Hamas targets?

I'm not saying I know either way, just wondered if anyone had any ideas.

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