AIBU to think a Tiffany heart tag necklace will be loved by a 12 year old ?

[Gobbledeygook]

My DH is quite unwell, worryingly so. He wants to get a personal gift for our 12 year old girl as a life-long momento for her from him. He asked for my advice and I have suggested one of the iconic Tiffany heart tag necklaces, which can be personalised on the reverse. Is this the kind of thing a 12 year old would like do you think ?

These come in silver if you think they are more suitable for a child or not.

www.mercimamanboutique.com/en/bestsellers?gad=1&gclid=CjwKCAjw4P6oBhBsEiwAKYVkq4IiPydW3BArHwHqxlB4I24Gch9TwVl10q5HNsxOdV56V3z93GGcTBoCOVgQAvD_BwE

Tiffany is either live or hate.

For me the quality is not the same as it used to be but then nothing is these days.

Why does it need to be branded?

Surely just jewellery that's beautiful, and maybe engraved and not shit quality (like others suggest Tiffany is) would be cherished?

Lovely idea, op. I’m sure she will love whatever he gives her.

Another thought is this locket which is very simple on the outside with the heart inside. https://www.dinnyhall.com/button-locket-with-heart-charm-pen299a-ss

I love the sentiment but I would get her something made by an independent jeweller rather than mass produced as Tiffany's is. I've always thought Tiffany's is a bit naff.

www.rubytynanjewellery.co.uk/collections/necklaces

byimogenrose.co.uk/collections/necklaces

www.onlythroughshadows.com/shop/necklaces

That's a lovely idea - but I think you would get something better quality and more timeless from a good jeweller.

Could I suggest something plainer? Could she possibly choose it with him? Tiffany isn't to everyone's taste and it is such a large logo that if she grows up not liking it- it is hard to miss.

This is an absolutely lovely idea but just a heads up the chains on these are shocking quality - I’ve had two of these style necklaces from Tiffanys and the chains broke on both within a couple of months. They also have a habit of tarnishing so you have to maintain them quite a bit!

I'd stick with Tiffany over the other suggestions here as I think it's more likely to stand the test of time. It might not be the greatest quality but I reckon if you say Tiffany in 50 years it'll still be a known "special" make and mean something to your daughter. The tags are versatile too so it could be a bracelet, necklace etc. Lovely idea of your DH, wishing him better health.

I think it’s an absolutely lovely idea. However some people on this thread seem to think the quality isn’t that great. So maybe an upgraded non Tiffany chain to go with it? You can keep the chain for her for when she gets older. I think it is much nicer than other suggestions on this thread and in essence, all jewellery will date to a certain extent. However, your dd will likely continue to love and cherish it as it’s from her dad. I’m so sorry your dh is so very ill.

Can you still just buy the tags minus the chain? I’d do that if you could - then you get the lovely tags but can get a better quality chain from another jewellers!

My DD has Tiffany necklaces. She wears them a lot and we’ve had no damage to them.

I got one of these about 30 years ago now. It's on the original ball chain and still going strong. I think that would be a lovely gift, especially personalised.

What about something personalised with a thumbprint - maybe something on Etsy. I'd get her a back up too.

Its a sweet idea of your DH's and I also think this from FortoPud is a good idea too... although you've also had some nice suggestions for more personal items too. Hope you are OK too OP.

It's a wonderful idea.

I got a piece of jewelery from my godmother when I was 12 that I still wear over 40 years on. I think it would be hugely meaningful for your daughter.

Get it insured.

She will appreciate it, but will appreciate it even more so as it will remind her of her dad.

Just asked my teen. She said they are 'iconic' and Ariana Grande has one

Does it matter if it dates, that will be another reminder of the times she spent with him

I love the idea but would go with something less trendy and more unusual.

lovely idea but I would go for something unbranded if you have the time to find something.

I have a locket my parents bought me (not Tiffany) and although it’s not my style, I treasure it. I’m sure your DD will too. I hope it won’t be needed though… sending love. X

I think Tiffany is a timeless enough brand that even as popularity ebbs and flows it’s still a good option.

Monica V is a good option as well, avoid Abbott Lyon at all costs. Thomas Sabo is another great option.

I wouldn’t suggest pandora as that’s definitely a love hate brand.

What about a silver charm bracelet with just one charm that reminds her of your DH? Then if she chooses she can add more charms, if not a silver bracelet goes with anything

I think that's a lovely idea. She is still so young, though, you might want to help her look after it. My ds 15 can still be a little careless with things, even though she doesn't mean to. Their brain chemistry is so erratic, many teens struggle to take care of things as much as they mean to.

There is something so special about a Tiffany blue box and as a special keepsake i would say it is perfect. Over the years I have had quite a few Tiffany things and opening the box to get it out still feels special. I have had no issues with chains at all.

Yes to a lovely pendant necklace - possibly even some sort of locket with something engraved on it? Tiffany necklaces are tacky though and horribly overpriced and copied everywhere (ex Tiffany & Co worker bee here)