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To start the spooky stories thread?

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SurpriseItsMeHorseyNeighNeigh · 02/10/2023 21:57

Of course I'm not, it's Halloween, let's get scared.

So what is the spookiest/most unexplainable experience you had? We're talking paranormal here.

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SuzieBishop · 04/10/2023 12:31

I've got a nice spooky one - also it's my sister and brother in law's story.
They moved into a house outside of Glasgow a few years ago. They shoved some boxes on top of a cupboard to unpack later as it was stuff they didn't immediatly need. When it came to unpack these boxes - which hadn't been touched since the day they'd moved in and were sellotaped closed - they opened them and found some old photos of their new house and random people standing in front of it. They managed to get in touch with the old lady they had bought the house from to give her back the photos. She had put the house up for sale because her husband had died an she couldn't bear to live there anymore without him. My sister in law likes to think it was the husband who put the photos there as she'd missed them when moving out.

CoffeeCantata · 04/10/2023 12:37

Husband and I think of ourselves as sceptics...but then, I'm sure so do most of the people on this thread!

He often buys vintage magazines from charity shops, and has some copies of The Cornhill Magazine (a literarly magazine which is now defunct) from around the late 1930s. He particularly liked a short story called 'Winterwood' in one of these. It's by a very obscure author and neither of us had ever come across either the author or the story elsewhere.

One day he was sitting in the living room when this story came into his head for some reason, but he didn't say anything. My daughter (ages 14, not the happiest youngster and totally anti-reading where fiction is concerned) suddenly looked at him and said 'Winterwood!'. My husband was stunned and really unsettled. He asked her why she'd said that, and she couldn't give an answer - she just said 'I don't know - it just came into my head'.

We read this story when the kids were little and had never even mentioned it to them but just forgotten about it. It was inaccessible in the loft where the old magazines had been stored for years.

I've always hoped that telepathy was an actual phenomenon and that one day we'll understand how it happens. This incident shook us up. There were many incidents too, around that time, which would be classified as poltergeist activity and I suppose anyone who believes in such things would ask 'Was there an unhappy teenage girl in the house at the time?' Yes, there was. I still don't know what to make of it though!

CoffeeCantata · 04/10/2023 12:39

(Should have made it clear that only I and my husband had read the story when the children were very small, and pretty much forgotten about it. They had never heard it , or heard of it.)

If she'd said 'Great Expectations' or something, that wouldn't have been so weird.

Giggorata · 04/10/2023 13:50

Thank you @Graciebobcat, but I wasn't asleep at the time.
I’m quite an experienced lucid dreamer and I did the checklist. Definitely awake.

SurpriseItsMeHorseyNeighNeigh · 04/10/2023 13:59

BloodyHellKen · 03/10/2023 12:21

I've read about this before. There is a good documented case by a psychiatrist who saw their late spouse walking around their house very soon after they'd died whilst in the depths of terrible grief. Rather than think it was a ghost they proposed it was a grieving brain playing tricks/hallucinating. It's quite common apparently and I do wonder if many ghosts can be explained this way.

It's a forever debate isn't it?

Chronic skeptics will find and explanation that fills their need to stay skeptical, no matter how far they have to stretch to do it and people who are open to woo things will think it's a woo thing.

Unless there is some evidence at some point of one or the other, there will be no middle ground.

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UnctuousUnicorns · 04/10/2023 14:02

CoffeeCantata · 04/10/2023 12:39

(Should have made it clear that only I and my husband had read the story when the children were very small, and pretty much forgotten about it. They had never heard it , or heard of it.)

If she'd said 'Great Expectations' or something, that wouldn't have been so weird.

Two or three short stories with that name have been published in more recent years, they're mentioned online. Is it possible your DD has read or heard of one them?

MissMillyFluff · 04/10/2023 14:02

CornishClott · 03/10/2023 13:29

I was putting out the washing and looked up to see the elderly next door neighbour looking out of her bedroom window . I knew she had been unwell for a while but thought nothing of it . The next day her daughter came round to tell me she had passed away two days previously. It shook me up I can tell you . I know I saw her in that window .

I have a similar one. Me and DH had gone for an afternoon meal, when we came back (still daylight) we passed our neighbours house, I commented to DH "ahh there's Dneighbour" , she was sitting on the couch, facing the window, presumably watching TV. We waved at her and thought nothing of it. A few days later I was speaking to a mutual friend of neighbour and she remarked on how sad it was that she'd died. Shocked, I asked when this was.. it had been a week earlier! She'd passed away in her bed. She had lived in that house for about 40 years and I presume she didn't want to leave as we definitely both seen her a few days after her death 😳

UnctuousUnicorns · 04/10/2023 14:05

SurpriseItsMeHorseyNeighNeigh · 04/10/2023 13:59

It's a forever debate isn't it?

Chronic skeptics will find and explanation that fills their need to stay skeptical, no matter how far they have to stretch to do it and people who are open to woo things will think it's a woo thing.

Unless there is some evidence at some point of one or the other, there will be no middle ground.

Hallucinations don't drop solid objects out of the air above you, in front of your eyes, though, do they? And no, I didn't hallucinate it happening, as an both occasions I picked said object up off the floor and put it back where it previously was.

SurpriseItsMeHorseyNeighNeigh · 04/10/2023 14:13

UnctuousUnicorns · 04/10/2023 14:05

Hallucinations don't drop solid objects out of the air above you, in front of your eyes, though, do they? And no, I didn't hallucinate it happening, as an both occasions I picked said object up off the floor and put it back where it previously was.

Chill, I am on believing in the woo side.

But I promise you that some people will argue with you that you dropped that object yourself but don't remember it like their life depend on it. And if someone else saw it too, they were messing with you or it was mass hysteria. Some people just can't accept even the possibility of anything remotely supernatural.

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UnctuousUnicorns · 04/10/2023 14:14

Sorry, I hope that didn't come across as aggressive, that wasn't my intention. Just that ime not everything can be explained away by ""tricks of the mind".

Another time DH were in bed, lights off, when the standard lamp on the floor by our bed suddenly came on and flooded the room with light. It was operated by a dimmer knob that was only turned on by being turned, like a dial. And no, it wasn't DH, as he was, ahem, on top of me, as we were about to.... anyway, he would have needed arms the length of Mr. Tickle's to reach, so definitely not him. Needless to say, DH then pdq reached over and turned it off again! 😅

UnctuousUnicorns · 04/10/2023 14:18

SurpriseItsMeHorseyNeighNeigh · 04/10/2023 14:13

Chill, I am on believing in the woo side.

But I promise you that some people will argue with you that you dropped that object yourself but don't remember it like their life depend on it. And if someone else saw it too, they were messing with you or it was mass hysteria. Some people just can't accept even the possibility of anything remotely supernatural.

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Cross post!
I agree, I honestly think that many people are so absolutely terrified of the possibility of anything remotely supernatural being real, that they'll concoct all sorts of fantastical explanations, some of there far more whackdoodle than anything I've proffered, to "explain" it away, "rationally". I really do think it is fear.

MissMillyFluff · 04/10/2023 14:20

Whatafustercluck · 03/10/2023 15:18

Savernake Forest:

"Warning: it's very long (sorry) and very freaky, and if anyone can come up with a rational explanation I'd be extremely grateful because I'm generally a pretty rational non-woo where's-the-evidence person, but I've never been able to explain this and it still makes my heart beat faster and the hair stand up on my arms when I think about it, years later.

I was pet sitting for my friend several years ago. She had moved into a sort of small holding right on the edge of a village in the SW, with a huge garden that backed onto trees. At the time she had a right menagerie - chickens, ducks, a couple of Shetlands, cats and four black retrievers, three fully grown and one a half grown puppy. Originally DH had been going to come with me as a little holiday but the dates she ended up having to go away for work clashed with a couple of his medical appointments so he stayed at home with our dog and I went to petsit alone.

It was about halfway through my stay, a couple of nights to go. Late evening, already dark when I heard a massive commotion from the chicken shed, banging and thumping. I assumed a fox or something had got in so went out to check. As I was halfway across the garden the noise stopped instantly as if it had been shut off; by the time I got to the shed all was calm and the chickens were all settled, mostly asleep. No sign of any intruder or disturbance at all, nothing to explain the noise or any indication that the chickens had made a noise. Bit freaky but I didn't (and still don't) know much about The Way of Chicken so I locked up again and left them to it.

As I went back in the house a small black shape ran past me out of the back door and I realised the puppy must have got out. It streaked across the garden and off towards the woods. Cue much cursing, then calling her name in vain. More cursing when she didn't come back. I grabbed a torch and put one of the other dogs on the lead, partly for protection, partly because I thought the pup was more likely to come back if I had one of her canine companions with me and partly because I didn't fancy my chances of finding my way back to the house on my own even though there were a couple of vague paths that I'd followed when walking the dogs throughout the week.

Off we trudged into the wood along one of these paths, me calling pup's name at intervals and trying not to imagine murderers and rapists behind every tree trunk. We got to a point where it felt like the trees were starting to thin out and I remember thinking that I didn't remember a clearing on this path and we must have gone wrong somewhere when the dog with me slowed right down and started to resist going forward. I tried to jolly her along - while my stomach suddenly dropped like a stone - and she started growling, a really low serious rumbling growl. By this time I was practically shitting myself. I tried shining the torch ahead but the beam just sort of bounced back off the darkness if that makes sense? I got the sense of something - or somethings - moving but just sinuous deeper black shapes against the blackness and always on the periphery of vision. (The hairs on my arms are standing up again just remembering how completely and utterly terrified I was. I have honestly never known a feeling like it.)

At this point the dog sank right down, still growling, hackles up and refused to budge. I muttered something like "Jesus, you have got to be kidding me" and this ugly gurgling inhuman sort of voice hissed, right up close as if someone was right next to me "don't say that name". At the same time there was a horrible snickering sort of laugh. I cant express how utterly petrified I was. I can't remember having any coherent thoughts apart from the word "evil". That's the only clear thing I can remember. Me and the dog were frozen to the spot with pure fear. Then a different voice, really commanding, said "GO. BACK." That sounded more in my head but echoey, where the others had sounded out in the air IYSWIM?

Wherever it came from it did the trick. Me & the dog turned and belted back through the woods. She basically towed me, I just clung onto her lead stumbling to keep up and sobbing with fear. I lost the torch somewhere on that wild run but there was no way I was stopping to find it. How I didn't run blindly into a tree I'll never know, she guided me I guess. I can remember thinking desperately that I mustn't let go of her lead or "they" would get me.

When we got back to the garden she suddenly stopped - I did fall over her this time, onto my hands and knees - turned around and started snarling, proper teeth bared, rabid-looking snarls, back at the trees and the darkness. I thought I heard the snickering again but the blood was pounding in my ears so hard I can't be sure. I scrambled up and ran to the back door and she followed me but backing and snarling all the way as if holding something at bay. Oh, and the chicken shed was banging and thumping again. I got the back door open, me and her belted in, I slammed home every bolt behind us. The other dogs left behind were staring at the door and growling too with their hackles up and when I saw all three of them, puppy included, acting like that I started to cry properly because I honestly thought I was trapped in some horror film nightmare and was going to die. I don't know - I still don't know - what the black shape was that ran past me out of the house and triggered all of this because the puppy was right there in the kitchen.

Anyway I made sure every door and window was locked and bolted, I turned on every light in the house, I wandered round mumbling all sorts of weird half-religious half-spiritual shit to ward off evil spirits. Gradually the dogs settled down and stopped growling, and eventually stopped glancing at the door. Funnily enough I didn't sleep for one second that night and I rang my DH and begged him to come over the last couple of days. I know I didn't dream it because I was covered in scratches from running through the woods and had grazed hands from where I fell over the dog in the garden.

Nothing like that has happened before or since and I hope it never, ever does. It was the single most horrible, terrifying experience of my entire life."

That is so spooky! I believe there's a lot out there that we don't know about. I think I'll sleep with the light on tonight 😧

SurpriseItsMeHorseyNeighNeigh · 04/10/2023 14:42

Whatafustercluck · 03/10/2023 15:18

Savernake Forest:

"Warning: it's very long (sorry) and very freaky, and if anyone can come up with a rational explanation I'd be extremely grateful because I'm generally a pretty rational non-woo where's-the-evidence person, but I've never been able to explain this and it still makes my heart beat faster and the hair stand up on my arms when I think about it, years later.

I was pet sitting for my friend several years ago. She had moved into a sort of small holding right on the edge of a village in the SW, with a huge garden that backed onto trees. At the time she had a right menagerie - chickens, ducks, a couple of Shetlands, cats and four black retrievers, three fully grown and one a half grown puppy. Originally DH had been going to come with me as a little holiday but the dates she ended up having to go away for work clashed with a couple of his medical appointments so he stayed at home with our dog and I went to petsit alone.

It was about halfway through my stay, a couple of nights to go. Late evening, already dark when I heard a massive commotion from the chicken shed, banging and thumping. I assumed a fox or something had got in so went out to check. As I was halfway across the garden the noise stopped instantly as if it had been shut off; by the time I got to the shed all was calm and the chickens were all settled, mostly asleep. No sign of any intruder or disturbance at all, nothing to explain the noise or any indication that the chickens had made a noise. Bit freaky but I didn't (and still don't) know much about The Way of Chicken so I locked up again and left them to it.

As I went back in the house a small black shape ran past me out of the back door and I realised the puppy must have got out. It streaked across the garden and off towards the woods. Cue much cursing, then calling her name in vain. More cursing when she didn't come back. I grabbed a torch and put one of the other dogs on the lead, partly for protection, partly because I thought the pup was more likely to come back if I had one of her canine companions with me and partly because I didn't fancy my chances of finding my way back to the house on my own even though there were a couple of vague paths that I'd followed when walking the dogs throughout the week.

Off we trudged into the wood along one of these paths, me calling pup's name at intervals and trying not to imagine murderers and rapists behind every tree trunk. We got to a point where it felt like the trees were starting to thin out and I remember thinking that I didn't remember a clearing on this path and we must have gone wrong somewhere when the dog with me slowed right down and started to resist going forward. I tried to jolly her along - while my stomach suddenly dropped like a stone - and she started growling, a really low serious rumbling growl. By this time I was practically shitting myself. I tried shining the torch ahead but the beam just sort of bounced back off the darkness if that makes sense? I got the sense of something - or somethings - moving but just sinuous deeper black shapes against the blackness and always on the periphery of vision. (The hairs on my arms are standing up again just remembering how completely and utterly terrified I was. I have honestly never known a feeling like it.)

At this point the dog sank right down, still growling, hackles up and refused to budge. I muttered something like "Jesus, you have got to be kidding me" and this ugly gurgling inhuman sort of voice hissed, right up close as if someone was right next to me "don't say that name". At the same time there was a horrible snickering sort of laugh. I cant express how utterly petrified I was. I can't remember having any coherent thoughts apart from the word "evil". That's the only clear thing I can remember. Me and the dog were frozen to the spot with pure fear. Then a different voice, really commanding, said "GO. BACK." That sounded more in my head but echoey, where the others had sounded out in the air IYSWIM?

Wherever it came from it did the trick. Me & the dog turned and belted back through the woods. She basically towed me, I just clung onto her lead stumbling to keep up and sobbing with fear. I lost the torch somewhere on that wild run but there was no way I was stopping to find it. How I didn't run blindly into a tree I'll never know, she guided me I guess. I can remember thinking desperately that I mustn't let go of her lead or "they" would get me.

When we got back to the garden she suddenly stopped - I did fall over her this time, onto my hands and knees - turned around and started snarling, proper teeth bared, rabid-looking snarls, back at the trees and the darkness. I thought I heard the snickering again but the blood was pounding in my ears so hard I can't be sure. I scrambled up and ran to the back door and she followed me but backing and snarling all the way as if holding something at bay. Oh, and the chicken shed was banging and thumping again. I got the back door open, me and her belted in, I slammed home every bolt behind us. The other dogs left behind were staring at the door and growling too with their hackles up and when I saw all three of them, puppy included, acting like that I started to cry properly because I honestly thought I was trapped in some horror film nightmare and was going to die. I don't know - I still don't know - what the black shape was that ran past me out of the house and triggered all of this because the puppy was right there in the kitchen.

Anyway I made sure every door and window was locked and bolted, I turned on every light in the house, I wandered round mumbling all sorts of weird half-religious half-spiritual shit to ward off evil spirits. Gradually the dogs settled down and stopped growling, and eventually stopped glancing at the door. Funnily enough I didn't sleep for one second that night and I rang my DH and begged him to come over the last couple of days. I know I didn't dream it because I was covered in scratches from running through the woods and had grazed hands from where I fell over the dog in the garden.

Nothing like that has happened before or since and I hope it never, ever does. It was the single most horrible, terrifying experience of my entire life."

Yeah, I'd love to believe it's true but I don't believe someone who went througb that would tell the story using so many needless details. That reeks of fiction writing.

But who knows?

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CoffeeCantata · 04/10/2023 14:44

UnctuousUnicorns

No, I honestly don't think so. My daughter was highly resistant to reading fiction of any kind and only ever read her exam set-books under duress. It sounds ridiculous to say it, but I really believe that I would have been aware of pretty much everything she read...because sadly, it was hardly anything in the novel/story category.

And when we questioned her she was as baffled as we were! In fact, now she's an adult, she gets very spooked when we mention this.

Whatafustercluck · 04/10/2023 14:44

No, I agree @SurpriseItsMeHorseyNeighNeigh It's a good, well written, creepy piece of imaginative writing. But not real.

SurpriseItsMeHorseyNeighNeigh · 04/10/2023 15:05

WhileMyDishwasherGentlyWeeps · 03/10/2023 15:57

Sure. None of them have any grounding in fact or reality at all. The experiences are no doubt true (except maybe anything second-hand, third-hand etc) but what the experiences show is that coincidence and the human mind can be very misleading.

Woo is poo.

Someone doesn't understand the word debunk...

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NonMiDispiace · 04/10/2023 15:41

CornishClott · 04/10/2023 09:46

My friend is a nurse and she told me about an old lady on her ward who wasn't expected to last the night , she died peacefully in her sleep . One of the patients remarked how sweet it was that the old lady's husband had sat holding her hand all night . The old lady had been a widow . My friend often remarked that toward the end of life people would often say someone was at the foot of the bed and would often speak to someone that wasn't there .

My mother could see, and she spoke to, my father who’d died 5 months earlier - he was sitting in the corner of her room. She died the following day.

WhileMyDishwasherGentlyWeeps · 04/10/2023 16:59

SurpriseItsMeHorseyNeighNeigh · 04/10/2023 15:05

Someone doesn't understand the word debunk...

You mean, can I disprove with hard fact all of these unverifiable woo stories posted by people I know nothing about? Er, no, I can’t.

But then we’ve no reason to believe any of these stories have any truth or accuracy in them at all - except for Dracula the plumber, of course: that’s obviously true.

I’ll just go for: there’s no such thing as ghosts, demons, talking to the dead, goblins or Santa.

🙄

SurpriseItsMeHorseyNeighNeigh · 04/10/2023 17:36

WhileMyDishwasherGentlyWeeps · 04/10/2023 16:59

You mean, can I disprove with hard fact all of these unverifiable woo stories posted by people I know nothing about? Er, no, I can’t.

But then we’ve no reason to believe any of these stories have any truth or accuracy in them at all - except for Dracula the plumber, of course: that’s obviously true.

I’ll just go for: there’s no such thing as ghosts, demons, talking to the dead, goblins or Santa.

🙄

Do you just hang on this kind of threads to post that kind of things just so you get to feel superior for 15 seconds? Mocking grieving people's beliefs in some cases? That's sick and sad.

I don't believe in God and religions but there is one place you won't find me. Goading people who have done nothing to me on threads discussing their faith. Because that's pathetic.

But hey, you do you Dr party pooper.

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UnctuousUnicorns · 04/10/2023 17:42

WhileMyDishwasherGentlyWeeps · 04/10/2023 16:59

You mean, can I disprove with hard fact all of these unverifiable woo stories posted by people I know nothing about? Er, no, I can’t.

But then we’ve no reason to believe any of these stories have any truth or accuracy in them at all - except for Dracula the plumber, of course: that’s obviously true.

I’ll just go for: there’s no such thing as ghosts, demons, talking to the dead, goblins or Santa.

🙄

Like I said, if it makes you feel better. 🙂

Tambatamba · 04/10/2023 17:54

@WhileMyDishwasherGentlyWeeps tbh there's nothing more annoying than someone who tirelessly tries to derail a thread because they don't believe in x y or z.

So what? Read other threads....don't be controlling.

WhileMyDishwasherGentlyWeeps · 04/10/2023 18:07

A pp asked if anyone could debunk the stories because she hates them - with weeping emoji.

I responded by saying that the stories are the product of coincidence or tricks of the mind.

I then get responded to by a pp who says - a little rudely I thought, but it’s no biggie - that I don’t understand the meaning of ‘debunk’.

So I answered that.

Why the nastiness towards me? Apart from me being perfectly reasonable, this is AIBU, so opinions are kind of the point. 🤷‍♀️

Hibernatalie · 04/10/2023 18:11

Love this thread!!

We lived in a haunted house when I was a teenager. Someone/thing used to blow a raspberry in my ear when I was just falling asleep to wake me up.

My dad was woken by the sound of children riding bikes in the hall. He sat up in bed and at the foot of the bed was a young boy holding a sign saying "baptise me"

My mum opened the back door as the handle was was going mad up and down and she assumed the dog was jumping up. When she opened it, there was no one there and the dog walked up behind her, he'd been inside all along.

SurpriseItsMeHorseyNeighNeigh · 04/10/2023 18:15

WhileMyDishwasherGentlyWeeps · 04/10/2023 18:07

A pp asked if anyone could debunk the stories because she hates them - with weeping emoji.

I responded by saying that the stories are the product of coincidence or tricks of the mind.

I then get responded to by a pp who says - a little rudely I thought, but it’s no biggie - that I don’t understand the meaning of ‘debunk’.

So I answered that.

Why the nastiness towards me? Apart from me being perfectly reasonable, this is AIBU, so opinions are kind of the point. 🤷‍♀️

No. You believe that stories are the product of coincidence or tricks of the mind. You just think that makes you smarter than those who have different beliefs and you feel allowed tp belittle them.

Which is the wrong thead really, because no one asked "do you believe in woo".

I you are too scared or don't believe just don't read and leave others alone?

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UnctuousUnicorns · 04/10/2023 18:16

"I responded by saying that the stories are the product of coincidence or tricks of the mind."

In your opinion.