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Really annoyed and need a rant

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jamdodgers · 24/09/2023 15:44

On Thursday DH suggested going out for a roast today, I booked a nice local pub and was looking forward to it.

Turns out when he went to an event with friends this morning, they went to the cafe after and he had a fry up and now doesn't want to go out for dinner. He told me half hour ago and we are booked in for 16:30. So I've cleaned the house, walked the dog early, juggled this with my 4 month old baby who's really miserable at the minute due to teething, didn't eat any lunch and had 1 bit of toast for breakfast as knew I'd be having a big dinner for him to say we're not going.

I've just called him selfish and come up to the bedroom because I think this is out of order but he says I'm overreacting. I was really looking forward to putting some make up on and having a treat of a meal out but now I'm just stuck in like the rest of the time.

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Purplepeoniesdroppingpetals · 24/09/2023 18:08

Good for you. Enjoy!

Mumsanetta · 24/09/2023 18:11

Good for you @jamdodgers! He seemed pretty intent on ruining your afternoon - first by wanting to cancel and then refusing to even sit and just have a drink. Well done for not allowing him to ruin your day and I hope you have a good night out with your friends!

LoudestRoar · 24/09/2023 20:01

Hope you had a lovely evening!

smallshinybutton · 24/09/2023 20:15

If he doesn't sort himself out after this OP I'd consider your future with him. He's an arse

Beaverbridge · 24/09/2023 20:19

Selfish arsehole. Hope you had a lovely meal and plenty wine!.

OhamIreally · 24/09/2023 20:22

Looking forward to hearing how your dinner was. Hope your DH is more contrite after an evening alone with the baby.

MammaTo · 24/09/2023 20:31

Amazing!!

Make sure you stay out late enough to miss bedtime 🙌🏻

Defender90 · 24/09/2023 20:32

I applaud you! Hope you've had a lovely meal and yap with your friends.

mummy21blueeyed · 24/09/2023 20:49

i hope you had a lovely evening @jamdodgers

Backtoblack1 · 24/09/2023 21:05

Hope you enjoyed with your friends x

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