Having a disability & walking with a stick, I can honestly say that wanky pavement parking is definitely becoming more common.
If it wasn’t for the fact that I’d probably fall over (and don’t fancy a criminal record), every day I’m tempted to go properly hatstand & take out my frustrations on the offending vehicles as I schlep, once again, into the road & back onto the pavement.
Instead I do the thoroughly British ‘tut & grumble’.
The amount of nasty, entitled behaviour towards disabled people is ducking terrible.
This is going to be an epic ramble, even for me.
Strap in.
It gets worse though. A few months ago, DH was assaulted by the husband of a nasty woman who, the night before, had overtaken us on the inside as we went around the roundabout by our green’s communal parking bay, and pulling in to park across 2 spaces. DH asks politely if she could move her car over or if he can park behind her for a couple of mins to help me out (before moving to the next closest parking 200m away, ironically far closer to the woman’s house).
We’re lovers not fighters; DH didn’t raise his voice, he didn’t even get out of the car, but we were subjected to the nastiest tirade with such lovely statements as, “My children deserve this space more than handicapped people,” and “I’ve lived here for 25 years, I deserve this space!”. Now, we _have lived on the green since 1998, and this bloody Audi (why is it always an Audi driver?!) and woman only popped up a few months ago.
We log the woman’s behaviour with 101 of course. Having been a teacher, her rant & vile language was in front of her children, so it’s a safeguarding concern. That’s aside from her driving prowess.
The next day, we return from shopping, find a space & park up, and a bloke runs full pelt across the main road (lots of cars swerving to avoid him), assaults DH & stops us from getting in our house. His shouting attracted our friend’s & neighbours onto the green (so lots of witnesses), all the time goading us & trying to provoke a fight with saying DH is gay because he has long hair, I’m a lesbian because DH looks gay (impeccable master stroke of logic there, not), we’re unemployed chavs - we work from home lol - and the wonderful, wonderful;
“You’re not fucking disabled because you don’t wear a fucking badge!”.
Say what now? I didn’t realise me & my fellow disabled folk had to wear a visual aid to warm the normies of our afflictions.
I rather thought the appliances I use might be a handy hint, although no disabled person ever needs to prove their disability to anyone, because it simply isn’t their business.
Not the sharpest tool, he did all this perfectly framed by our 2 CCTV cameras & in front of our neighbours.
And I snuck a lovely pic of the guy as he jabbed his finger in my face.
Police are involved, guy wants to go to a community resolution to apologise, but not a chance. I’m sick of the ableist bullshit. And since another neighbour who also has had a run in with this pleasant couple has had the woman & her children shout the words ‘cunt’ & ‘chavs’ as she walks her autistic son to school, I’m quite happy to go into bat against these idiots.
I’m on propranolol & have been on lorazepam for a nasty cPTSD recurrence since (having a 6ft plus guy you’re never met launch himself at a 5ft woman who has been sexually & physically assaulted before does tend to do that to a gal).
This couple obviously have an issue with physically disabled people, they’d lose their tiny minds if they realised people had invisible or mental disabilities!
The Police have been great, but like everything that is terminally underfunded by this government, I bet these self entitled charmers will just get away with it despite the CCTV, pictures, plenty of medical evidence & witnesses.
Shame they didn’t clock the Blue Badge on the dash in the midst of this fuckwittery.
Might’ve save these fools a few red faces.