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Russell Brand - everyone knew

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Mooshamoo · 18/09/2023 17:06

I was watching the comedian Katherine Ryan say to Louis theroux that a British comedian is a sexual perpetrator. It is now believed that she was talking about Russell brand. She said on the video "when it eventually comes out about these type of people, Harvey Weinstein, Bill Cosby, this unmentionable British personality, it turns out that everyone knew. Everyone knew. ".

I was wondering did anyone on here on mumsnet know anything about Russell brand? A lot of us lived in London when her was living there. And many women on here would have been a similar age to Russell brand . I lived in London for a year and I saw Russell brand out on a night out once. That was the extent of it. I was wondering did anyone on here have any experience with him, or know about a friend/acquaintance that had any experiences with him.

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Aquarius1234 · 19/09/2023 01:13

I thought the reason he was mainly just doing podcasts etc, was cos he made his millions and had moved on from wanting TV gigs.
He also failed in America after a few movie bombs.. but still took the money and run. Terrible actor. He just was everywhere for several years.
It was like Rylan getting a bbc 2 radio gig just cos he was the 'in' thing.
RB was funny ish for a while but not suited to half the stuff that was thrown at him.

Efacsen · 19/09/2023 01:16

letthemalldoone · 18/09/2023 23:58

Worse than that - apparently his father was shagging 2 prostitutes at the same time in an adjacent bed!

Also, he was watching porn in the living room when he was at primary school while his father had sex in his bedroom.

Anyone growing up with a lifestyle like that has to be warped. No excuse though.

No excuse indeed

But maybe provides some explanation for his hyper-sexuality and lack of boundaries

And his 'campery' too

HangingOver · 19/09/2023 01:18

Used to work in comedy. All the comedians it ever came up with seemed pretty certain he was a multiple rapist. Never heard about the 16 y.o though. Come to think of it, I don't think I heard anyone say they liked him all the years I worked there.

Jumpingthruhoops · 19/09/2023 01:24

MartinChuzzlewit · 18/09/2023 23:47

I don’t want to give him the hits so won’t look on YT but can anyone tell me what are his conspiracy theories about?!

He's been called a conspiracy theorist merely for questioning mainstream narratives. Anyone who does that is a 'conspiracy theorist' apparently.

Except there's no 'theory' about it - every topic he covers on his YT channel he backs up with official govt statistics, financial reports, studies in The Lancet, BMJ and other such organisations, depending on what he's talking about. I strongly believe - as do MANY others - that these allegations are an attempt to get him cancelled.

I also find it interesting how most people who dismiss him as a 'conspiracy theorist 'have never watched any of his content.

Chocolatchip · 19/09/2023 01:41

Jumpingthruhoops · 19/09/2023 01:24

He's been called a conspiracy theorist merely for questioning mainstream narratives. Anyone who does that is a 'conspiracy theorist' apparently.

Except there's no 'theory' about it - every topic he covers on his YT channel he backs up with official govt statistics, financial reports, studies in The Lancet, BMJ and other such organisations, depending on what he's talking about. I strongly believe - as do MANY others - that these allegations are an attempt to get him cancelled.

I also find it interesting how most people who dismiss him as a 'conspiracy theorist 'have never watched any of his content.

He hyper focuses and cherry picks and then waxes lyrical to make an argument.

It's all subjective to suit his narrative.

That's not the same as prope balanced reporting of facts.

Part of me wonders if he hyper focuses so much he genuinely believes the distorted truth be pushes.

hihelenhi · 19/09/2023 01:42

In what way do you imagine Russell Brand is in ANY way a "threat to the establishment?" Seriously?

People with his theories are ten a penny. What "scary truths" do you think he is telling that would supposedly have Channel 4, the Times, and I dunno, Rishi Sunak? (what "establishment" are you talking about here?) literally quaking in their boots so much that they have to (checks notes) pay a bunch of women to make verifiable claims of at the very least serious sexual assault against him? From years before his supposed "enlightenment" at a time when he was spouting constant misogynist rapey shit and made a habit of crossing women's boundaries publicly?

The gullibility of his acolytes is off the scale. For goodness sake.

PyongyangKipperbang · 19/09/2023 01:58

Just checked my emails and Caitlin Moran came up as a Twitter notification saying "Kath Ryan is a QUEEN"

Couldnt agree more.

PyongyangKipperbang · 19/09/2023 02:02

He is a very strong voice in a local charitable organisation that provides rehab and job training for people recovering from addictions. We are waiting (hoping) for them to drop him like a brick. If they dont then the company they run to help fund the organisation will fall through the floor as it relies very strongly on local custom.

Jumpingthruhoops · 19/09/2023 02:15

Chocolatchip · 19/09/2023 01:41

He hyper focuses and cherry picks and then waxes lyrical to make an argument.

It's all subjective to suit his narrative.

That's not the same as prope balanced reporting of facts.

Part of me wonders if he hyper focuses so much he genuinely believes the distorted truth be pushes.

That's just it... in all his YT content I've watched, he doesn't appear to have a narrative; more just dissects a subject that's in the public interest in relation to politics, health, the media, whatever - using official reports, medical journals etc to explain what's going on. He doesn't give his opinion, just states the facts as they appear in front of him. So there's no 'conspiracy' or 'theory' - all of the information he presents, is freely available for anyone who cares to look. Initially, I was sceptical myself, until I watched a few of his vids and realised I couldn't really argue with someone citing a study from The Lancet!

WhalePolo · 19/09/2023 02:51

@Jumpingthruhoops

Which is cherry picking. Yes, a study may have appeared in The Lancet, but then you have to look at the authors of that study and their political leanings and any controversy surrounding them. Scientific consensus is what the majority of scientists believe is the safest course of actions at a point in time with the most robust, peer reviewed, unbiased research. A quick fact check of Russell Brand’s claims show he is misinformed, politically biased, cherry picking etc etc.

The notion that he is being cancelled because of his claims is hypocritical and ridiculous. He champions free speech. He has his platform - easily accessible platform - to give his anti-science views. He makes allegations, criminal allegations against scientists. So in the interest of free speech, why can a woman NOT - likewise - speak out about abuse using a media platform? If you are trying to deny that right - then it’s not ‘stay free free speech’ is it? If you are trying to cancel her that right in order to protect him - because you think it’s ‘MSM on a mission’ - then that is bias, and that is anti-free speech, and that goes directly against the right that you are ‘allowing’ to RB when he spreads Covid misinformation.

Ramalangadingdong · 19/09/2023 02:56

hamstersarse · 18/09/2023 23:48

I also read today that his dad made him sleep with a prostitute when he was 16

That is fucked up

And his father slept with two prostitutes on one bed while his son was on another bed with the prostitute the dad had bought for him to lose his virginity.

Brand describes his father buying the prostitutes like buying carry outs.

squishee · 19/09/2023 02:59

PrincessScarlett · 18/09/2023 20:29

Apparently Katy Perry gave an interview about her split with RB. She said initially she thought she was to blame for their marriage not working. But she's since realised the truth and it (the truth) was being put in a safe place for another time.

Yes I've just read that. It might be an overreach here, but Katy Perry wrote Roar quite soon after she and RB split. Some of the lyrics stuck in my mind for that reason:

"I used to bite my tongue and hold my breath
Scared to rock the boat and make a mess
So I sat quietly, agreed politely
I guess that I forgot I had a choice
I let you push me past the breaking point
I stood for nothing, so I fell for everything"

YDBear · 19/09/2023 03:09

This was a guy whose entire schtick was being a sexual predator. He wasn’t even hiding in plain sight. He wasn’t hiding at all. I loathed him at the time as a misogynistic user and still do. What I didn’t understand then was his legions of fans or why now they are all clutching their pearls saying they’re “shocked, shocked.”

WhalePolo · 19/09/2023 03:10

From Twitter:

“Conspiracy culture has given men like Russell Brand a powerful tool to dodge accountability.

If you’ve groomed your audience to deny reality and question everyone but you, what impact can allegations have?”

Ramalangadingdong · 19/09/2023 03:19

Jumpingthruhoops · 19/09/2023 01:24

He's been called a conspiracy theorist merely for questioning mainstream narratives. Anyone who does that is a 'conspiracy theorist' apparently.

Except there's no 'theory' about it - every topic he covers on his YT channel he backs up with official govt statistics, financial reports, studies in The Lancet, BMJ and other such organisations, depending on what he's talking about. I strongly believe - as do MANY others - that these allegations are an attempt to get him cancelled.

I also find it interesting how most people who dismiss him as a 'conspiracy theorist 'have never watched any of his content.

I don’t watch his content because I heard enough of his nonsense when he was mainstream.

Starlia · 19/09/2023 03:21

WhalePolo · 19/09/2023 03:10

From Twitter:

“Conspiracy culture has given men like Russell Brand a powerful tool to dodge accountability.

If you’ve groomed your audience to deny reality and question everyone but you, what impact can allegations have?”

This is so true.
Everyone is lying except me. I am the lone voice of truth and reason. You must never question me.

Donald Trump is exactly the same.

Physiologicalmalfunction · 19/09/2023 03:59

whatnet · 18/09/2023 23:20

Physiologicalmalfunction · Today 22:57

perhaps it is time to up that age of ‘consent’.

No, no no nooooo. Seriously, I had loads of lovely consentual sex age 16 with my boyfriend (we lasted 8 years). No, raising the age of consent is not the answer,. The answer is to make young people much much much stronger and more aware of predatory people who may exploit them. It's a valuable lesson at any age anyway.

I am happy for you that you had “loads of lovely *consensual sex at age 16” well done. The issue lies with those who do not see a 16 year old as a child, yes a child. “The answer is to make young people much much stronger and more aware of predatory people who may exploit them. It’s a valuable lesson at any age”

I will say it again, and here lies the problem 🤢. Children, particularly girls, in this patriarchal, misogynistic, VIOLENT culture and society we find ourselves in, in the UK need better protections. One immediate way, is upping the age of consent. Predators groom and use the ‘16’ card as a way of getting around the law, and enablers like you are complicit.

It is sickening and I would like to hear if RB as the father of daughters and all the others in his sphere would up the age of consent when THEIR daughters were teenagers/CHILDREN

'enablers like you are complicit'

I find that really offensive. You are clearly the type of person that thinks schoolgirls should wear skirts to their ankles otherwise they are 'luring men in'. You're a disgrace.

At 16 I moved out of home, I was going to college, working 3 part time jobs, paying rent, living with 3 great friends and my boyfriend. Why shouldn't I be independent and living my life including have consensual, legal, protected sex with my similar age boyfriend?

You can't remove the freedoms of a whole age group purely to protect them from a minority of vile and abusive men.

It's the freedoms of the men you should be going after.

user1492757084 · 19/09/2023 04:13

lifeturnsonadime · 18/09/2023 17:42

And as much as I think he’s a total sleazeball I think he’s as much right to anonymity as his accusers/victims.

This is interesting to me.

Why should someone who is abusing women and abused children and has used a position of power to do so have a right to anonymity?

Because until it is proven that he did those things he is legally innocent. Trial by media can lead to miscarriage of justice.

Accused people like Brand need to be tried by a jury that is not under the influence of media reports etc for the correct outcome to prevail..

CherryMaDeara · 19/09/2023 04:36

user1492757084 · 19/09/2023 04:13

Because until it is proven that he did those things he is legally innocent. Trial by media can lead to miscarriage of justice.

Accused people like Brand need to be tried by a jury that is not under the influence of media reports etc for the correct outcome to prevail..

They were saying on Sky News tomorrow’s papers programme that the police themselves realise that for men / celebrities like RB to be caught, they need other women to come forward so programmes like Dispatches are necessary because are women are often so scared to report rape.

You can hide behind your pseudo legal speak like but if the justice system supports the story released by Dispatches/The Times, then your warnings about a miscarriage of justice just look like fear mongering.

Bangwam1 · 19/09/2023 04:42

I saw a video of him in his 20s standing in front of a young girl with his arms around her/over her shoulders, almost on her breasts, and she did not look comfortable at all! That video seems to have disappeared off the internet. I know this was sinister because I had it happen to be when I was about 12, that’s exactly how they do it.

Piglet89 · 19/09/2023 04:45

Jesus Christ: the level of ignorance some have displayed on this thread is breathtaking.

  1. No evidence: there IS evidence; the Woman accusing him of rape in LA has text messages in which he apologises to her the next day, and repeatedly asks forgiveness. The journalists have verified the number from which these were sent was his phone number. She also went to a rape crisis centre, and one of the journalists has got her to hand over medical records, so there’s those, too.
  2. The poster who asked what the law is: in relation to the LA charges, that’ll be governed by the criminal law in the State of California, I think. I’m an England & Wales qualified lawyer, so it’s not my jurisdiction. I’ve researched it a bit but I want to get a reputable source and some of the ones I’ve found seem conflicting so I’ll leave it at “I’m unsure”.
  3. Age of consent. It’s 16 in the UK. But even if you legally CAN consent because you’re 16, what “Alice” is claiming is that she DIDN’T consent to at least some of the sexual acts with Brand. He forced his penis down her throat when she didn’t want him to and she had to use force to get him to stop. That’s rape.

https://www.met.police.uk/advice/advice-and-information/rsa/rape-and-sexual-assault/what-is-rape-and-sexual-assault/

“The legal definition of rape is when a person intentionally penetrates another's vagina, anus or mouth with a penis, without the other person's consent.”

4 People saying “But we knew he was a shagger!” I’m amazed this is being used as some sort of defence, TBH. If sex has become some kind of compulsion for you, as Brand has admitted in his memoirs that it has, you’re MORE likely, not less, to just ignore whether or not someone’s consenting to get your sexual fix, particularly if you’re a narcissistic person in a powerful position (i.e. famous).

5 People feeling sorry for his wife: she knew about his character, his past and how he’s behaved, she’s an adult and still went ahead and married him and had kids with him - that’s her decision. Don’t feel sorry for her at all. No wise woman would have touched this arrogant user.

6 Emily Maitlis was on an episode of “the News Agents” talking about how she interviewed him in 2018/2019 and asked him about his behaviour. They played a clip of the segment. She claimed he “slapped her down” and was massively self-deprecating. She talks about his intelligence and how he charmed her and how he uses Dickens and Faust references to put her in her place. He says at one point “I’ve amended for that behaviour”.

It’s ATONED, Russell, not amended. If you’re gonna claim to be the next Dr Samuel Johnson, at least use the right fucking words. Maitlis is miles better educated and more intelligent than he is and here she was putting herself down. Disappointing.

In event, being a verbose prick isn’t a defence against rape - and that’s the same whether we’re in the U.K. or California.

Flyhigher · 19/09/2023 06:38

Everyone is busy discrediting the victims. Just like in Sachsgate when Baillie was vilified. For years.

Switcher · 19/09/2023 06:44

EmpressSoleil · 18/09/2023 23:27

Haven’t rtft, it’s too long. But years ago a group of friends/colleagues and I were out for drinks and someone asked had anyone slept with a celebrity. Someone said their friend had sex with RB and another person quipped “does anyone not have a friend who had sex with RB”. That sums it up.

I detest the man, absolutely detest him, always have. I watched the documentary. The adult woman who said “in hindsight he groomed me” ffs. You cannot “groom” an adult unless they lack capacity in some way. Women upset he never called them after 1 night stands. What did you expect? These “claims” undermine the true victims. The 16 year old where he forced his penis down her throat, the woman who was raped. These are crimes. Being a manipulative sleaze bag isn’t. As much as we might wish it was.

yes I’m sure he’ll be outcast but will he be convicted of anything? Doubtful at this stage. But ultimately any fan who had consensual sex with him is not a victim. It was so obvious all along he was a sleaze. Regret is not rape. Let’s not muddy the waters here. Forced sex is rape and I for one would love to see him punished for that. But a lot of these accusations are just women who regret sleeping with him. The focus should be on the actual crimes he committed.

Well said.

Merrymouse · 19/09/2023 06:45

It’s ATONED, Russell, not amended

‘amending’ for behaviour is one of the 12 steps, so I think that is why he used that phrase.

grayhairdontcare · 19/09/2023 07:18

I think we can all agree that RB is not a child abuser.
Sleeping with a 16 year old when you are 30 is disgusting but not child abuse.
If it is classed as child abuse then " Alice "
Has a serious conversation to have with her mother who knew about the relationship and actually spoke to RB on the phone.

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