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Russell Brand

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Wassapp · 16/09/2023 22:07

AIBU to think... 'here we go again?'

Anyone watching? I've always said 'innocent until proven guilty' but also 'there is no smoke without fire'.

Having been sexually assaulted myself, one of the stories seem so similar to mine.

What's your thoughts?

This is the most confusing post, I know. I just don't know how I feel.

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Princessandthepea0 · 17/09/2023 18:22

RedToothBrush · 17/09/2023 18:04

But he's soooo intelligent because he uses big words and flounces around!!!!

And his followers are often too illiterate to realise he’s using them out of any contextual meaning.

newnamethanks · 17/09/2023 18:24

RB utube fans. You don't realise, because you're in it, but you are being groomed just like the 16 year old. Rinsing you and perverting your world view for his own ends. However, you're in a cult, you've drunk the Kool Aid. You'd probably be better off with L.Ron's lot, at least you might glimpse Tom Cruise once in a while.

RedToothBrush · 17/09/2023 18:24

graceinspace999 · 17/09/2023 18:17

Preferring to see justice prevail in a court of law does not make anyone a rape apologist.

Use of the phrase ‘rape apologist’ to attempt to stigmatise those who disagree with you is replacing debate with name calling.

We can be absolutely against rape yet still prefer victims use the legal system before contacting the media.

If we abandon the legal system what do we have ?

Accusations do not equal evidence no matter how much our emotions tell us otherwise.

But I do think this is part of the problem.

Many women do not think there is a justice system when it comes to rape.

Their options are to suffer another traumatic process or look to other channels.

ehupo7 · 17/09/2023 18:27

SpicyMoth · 17/09/2023 18:04

I guess I'm in the minority here, but one thing that has always remained true through my life experience has been the saying that there's always 3 sides to a story.

I don't think RB is innocent, I don't think he didn't behave poorly, but I'm not sure if I believe 100% the way everything was laid out in last night's dispatches either.

I think it's naive for everyone to be pretending they definitively know one way or the other and that there's no grey area when people lie and stretch the truth all the time for all manner of reasons :S

Feel the same.

Found the central allegations very credible. Also found some of the info presented questionable (eg uni students calling up the runners crying the next day because the person they had a ONS with didn’t ring them afterwards…).

At times it seemed they were looking for extra material to add to the general impression which undermined the more serious allegations as it demonstrated there was a clear impression they wanted you to be left with.

You can imagine the glee when they unearthed the JS clip from the archives, but I mean the fact it was JS on the line doesn’t tell you anything other than that the BBC were still allowing him on air in 2007. Being able to link the two names is obviously v useful for the programme makers tho.

And just to reiterate, all that said, the central allegations presented by the alleged victims were very credible.

bombastix · 17/09/2023 18:32

I find it hard to believe that someone so obviously narcissistic and contemptuous who has consistently displayed that behaviour has suddenly stopped. What looks to have stopped is a payoff for that behaviour in public.

He still seems highly manipulative to judge from his YouTube.

Narcs who suddenly get interested in a quiet life and charitable work are suspect. This reformed character is a nice narrative for people but it doesn't ring true to me.

JuliusWho · 17/09/2023 18:43

Princessandthepea0 · 17/09/2023 18:22

And his followers are often too illiterate to realise he’s using them out of any contextual meaning.

You’re being very baroque right now.

newnamethanks · 17/09/2023 18:44

Completely agree bombastix

graceinspace999 · 17/09/2023 18:48

TheOldCrone · 17/09/2023 18:21

The problem is the lack of faith in the justice system.

I knew someone who was raped and it was caught on CCTV. You could see her saying know. But her rapist was (or claimed he was) deaf and couldn’t hear her saying no. He was not convicted. This sort of story is not unique. Most rapes result in no sort of conviction for the rapist. They are incredibly hard on the victim who already has feelings of shame and worse. People are done with our justice system. It’s broken.

I agree. The current system is broken. Women are let down and re traumatised.
I was one of them. I used the system in the late 80s. The police were totally supportive. The CPS dropped the case. I was broken.

However I am proud I had the courage to go to the police. I am proud I tried my best to prevent them harming other girls.

Years later they were arrested again. My prior statements helped the police and helped this other victim.

I know the system is damaged but I want it fixed not replaced by name calling and chucking accusations around social media.

DysonSpheres · 17/09/2023 18:49

graceinspace999 · 17/09/2023 18:17

Preferring to see justice prevail in a court of law does not make anyone a rape apologist.

Use of the phrase ‘rape apologist’ to attempt to stigmatise those who disagree with you is replacing debate with name calling.

We can be absolutely against rape yet still prefer victims use the legal system before contacting the media.

If we abandon the legal system what do we have ?

Accusations do not equal evidence no matter how much our emotions tell us otherwise.

Indeed.

But emotions trump logic and due process.

ZoeCM · 17/09/2023 18:50

I'm glad I'm not the only one who doesn't understand how an attack can be "baroque".

Princessandthepea0 · 17/09/2023 18:50

JuliusWho · 17/09/2023 18:43

You’re being very baroque right now.

I certainly can be an in your face odd shape. The other word he likes is litany. Interesting one would use that as it means to be repetitive/heard it before. So yeah - not sure his fans have cottoned on to the fact he makes no sense.

CherryMaDeara · 17/09/2023 18:51

ehupo7 · 17/09/2023 18:27

Feel the same.

Found the central allegations very credible. Also found some of the info presented questionable (eg uni students calling up the runners crying the next day because the person they had a ONS with didn’t ring them afterwards…).

At times it seemed they were looking for extra material to add to the general impression which undermined the more serious allegations as it demonstrated there was a clear impression they wanted you to be left with.

You can imagine the glee when they unearthed the JS clip from the archives, but I mean the fact it was JS on the line doesn’t tell you anything other than that the BBC were still allowing him on air in 2007. Being able to link the two names is obviously v useful for the programme makers tho.

And just to reiterate, all that said, the central allegations presented by the alleged victims were very credible.

Can you give examples of the extra material that undermined the allegations?

Because I thought every single clip helped show what an utter soulless, depraved dickhead he is.

Mum198000 · 17/09/2023 18:51

Rb is a vile man. Grooming from a position of power seems to be accepted though sadly. I always felt the First Lady of France was a predator too.

WowIlikereallyhateyou · 17/09/2023 18:51

StaunchMomma · 17/09/2023 16:27

Seems like everyone in showbiz have known for years.

The creep knew his time was coming, hence he's settle himself in with the 'fake news' brigade.

When your only backers are Andrew Tate, Dan Wooton, Laurence Fox etc you just know you're fucked!!

My thoughts exactly.😂

bombastix · 17/09/2023 18:55

ZoeCM · 17/09/2023 18:50

I'm glad I'm not the only one who doesn't understand how an attack can be "baroque".

It is a narcissistic word salad. Once you've met one of these people and how they communicate, it absolutely leaps out at you. I don't think Brand is the reformed character he claims. He manipulated women and now he manipulates via his channel. This is the same behaviour. He likes fooling and manipulating people.

Wassapp · 17/09/2023 18:55

Castlerock44 · 17/09/2023 17:21

vm.tiktok.com/ZGJWWeC2Y/

Any wonder they want him silenced

How is getting someone to report that he sexually abused them going to silence him?

I keep seeing this stupid arguement over and over.

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ehupo7 · 17/09/2023 18:57

CherryMaDeara · 17/09/2023 18:51

Can you give examples of the extra material that undermined the allegations?

Because I thought every single clip helped show what an utter soulless, depraved dickhead he is.

yeah I mentioned at least one of them in the quoted post

cakeorwine · 17/09/2023 18:58

It's quite telling when vocal defenders of women's rights and who worry about their safety - people such as Laurence Fox, suddenly have a problem with women speaking up about abuse that has happened when it concerns someone with the same beliefs as them.

ChChChCherryBomb · 17/09/2023 18:58

I really feel for his wife and DC right now.

ehupo7 · 17/09/2023 18:59

ChChChCherryBomb · 17/09/2023 18:58

I really feel for his wife and DC right now.

yeah I do. v sad

pickledandpuzzled · 17/09/2023 19:00

These aren't just accusations though.

I mean, I can point at my dog and accuse him of stealing the bacon.

That's an accusation.

I can point at the dog and say I saw him steal the bacon- still an accusation.

If a journalist asks me about the bacon, checks the nannycam and asks DH about what he saw, checks with the neighbours and finds out they too have had bacon stolen by my dog, then compiles a report claiming he's a serial bacon thief backed up with all the information gathered, gets a lawyer or three to review it ....

That's not just an accusation.

Over40Overdating · 17/09/2023 19:02

You have to hand it to ‘the establishment’ - they really played the long game with Brand if the defenders are speaking the truth.

The attacks all occurred before he became a ring wing grifter & talker of bollox, when he himself was very much a player in main stream media. Yet it’s all been a perfect set up to discredit his word salads ramblings about Vaccines, Qanon, conspiracy theories & general gibberish years later.

If the illuminati / NWO are that organised & strategic, I can’t wait for them to take over.

Ladybyrd · 17/09/2023 19:02

I've read a lot of posts on here today saying "oh but he's always been honest about who he is / about having a lot of sex" etc.
But what if that was all a cover because he knew it would come out one day?

So was Jimmy Savile, in hindsight. Like Russell Brand, everyone assumed it was a joke.

I read My Bookie Wook and didn't pick up on it. Now I do. Makes me feel sick.

graceinspace999 · 17/09/2023 19:05

henlee · 17/09/2023 18:22

There are many hideous cases that required investigative jounrnalism to bring them to light (e..g, Saville, Rotherham) because of the systemtic enabling and covering up that occurs @graceinspace999

I completely agree with the points about going through the criminal justice system being the best option, and the problems that not doing this can lead to.

However, given a choice between no level of justice and continued risk from this person, or Brand having to (perhaps unfairly) deal with the consequences of this documentary being made, I'd choose the latter. What do you think?

He is a privileged person, with the kind of resources and power most of us can only dream of. I'm therefore more comfortable in him having to deal with the fall out of such a documentary, than say a random man accused of similar who worked as a school caretaker. We know he's incredibly litigious, and has already "lawyered-up" several times to silence victims.

They have identified five victims. One of the main points of the documentary is to enpower unknown victims to also report their experiences which could help build evidence for prosecution.

Yes there have been hideous cases where reports have been made with no police action being taken but this is where we need to improve the legal system not replace it with the media.

From what I’m reading and I could be wrong, the journalists approached the women. Another woman approached Brand’s literary agent.

Did any of them try the legal system first ?

If not why didn’t any of these responsible journalists strongly recommend reporting the crimes to the police. They could have offered to support them in this.

If this program was three years in the making then doesn’t that equal three years of re trauma for the women?

Why is this trauma not considered here?

DysonSpheres · 17/09/2023 19:05

henlee · 17/09/2023 18:22

There are many hideous cases that required investigative jounrnalism to bring them to light (e..g, Saville, Rotherham) because of the systemtic enabling and covering up that occurs @graceinspace999

I completely agree with the points about going through the criminal justice system being the best option, and the problems that not doing this can lead to.

However, given a choice between no level of justice and continued risk from this person, or Brand having to (perhaps unfairly) deal with the consequences of this documentary being made, I'd choose the latter. What do you think?

He is a privileged person, with the kind of resources and power most of us can only dream of. I'm therefore more comfortable in him having to deal with the fall out of such a documentary, than say a random man accused of similar who worked as a school caretaker. We know he's incredibly litigious, and has already "lawyered-up" several times to silence victims.

They have identified five victims. One of the main points of the documentary is to enpower unknown victims to also report their experiences which could help build evidence for prosecution.

He is a privileged person, with the kind of resources and power most of us can only dream of. I'm therefore more comfortable in him having to deal with the fall out of such a documentary, than say a random man accused of similar who worked as a school caretaker.

No. Absolutely not. This thinking is madness.

Justice is blind (or it should be). Hence it is depicted as woman blindfolded with a set of equal scales.

The second we start saying 'such and such a person is white, male, middle-class and rich therefore we can lower the bar of process and necessary proof to find him guilty, it is the end of our democracy.

They may be problems with the Justice system but then that needs to be addressed. Defaming someone publicly is not justice and purely in practical terms he is innocent until it is proved.

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