My mum is turning 60 in a couple of months and me and my sister want to get a family photoshoot done for her of us and the grandkids, she's mentioned one before and putting one up in her house.
My husband has asked if DSC will be included and I've said I dont know but really I want to say no.
My parents are separated but neither of them really have much of a relationship with DSC. They get on when they see them but they just don't see them often and don't think of them as DGC, in all honesty I doubt they even know when their birthdays are etc.. only get them a token gift at Christmas that sort of thing. Me and DH share DC too though who they are great grandparents too.
This means the difference in how they are seen is quite evident, not that anyone has complained but I feel it would make it weird to present my mum with a pic of her grandkids and then two other children she doesn't really know very well.
AIBU to go back to dh and say actually its probably best they don't come to the shoot. I obviously don't intend on booking it on a day they'll be here.