What would your thoughts be if you received this text message?

[Cantsleep1234]

For context I have been messaging this person and sometimes I don’t reply quickly due to working or other things and this is what he says. Top message supposed to say ‘at messaging’ I’m guessing..I’m mid twenties and he is mid thirties.

Let me guess, you're a bloke. Some of us just don't have incredibly low standards.

No thank you. Even if you ignore the age gap.

He is saying his time is worth more than yours and you should be dropping everything to attend to his needs. He's starting to get cross because you aren't hence the smack bum comment.

He's testing your boundaries here, to see what you are willing to accept. Are you going to comply or run?

Is there an etiquette for messaging back?

Is it supposed to be within a certain time frame?

Surely it's only matters if there's an immediate answer required?

If you want to chat then you phone instead?

Do some people see them as the same?

He doesn't know the difference between you're and your, so that would be a no from me.

I know that wasn't the question...😂

In my twenties I probably would have found that funny and then I grew up and realised the controlling aspects behind this kind of speak.

Gives you the ‘the ick’. Run!

Nope, you guessed wrong. It's nothing to do with low standards. Clearly you have literacy problems if you can't understand my post though.

I wouldn't message back. It's a bit weird isn't it. No need to engage with someone weird when you are likely looking for someone not weird.

I'd be gone at the 'lol' at the end of both sentences never mind the rest of it.

'Need a smak bum' is gross and barely literate so I'd think he's a total idiot and bin him off. Too much energy wasted! MID THIRTIES! Can't believe it.

I mean, there are people going on about the age gap and how that gives the "ick" about the man, ignoring the fact that the OP is happy with that age gap.

Unless your previous messages involved sexual innuendoes similar to that and you joined in that sort of conversation then I would find it very creepy

Exactly this. Massive turn off

The content would put me right off but my husband is severely dyslexic and, yes, sends many messages to me incorrectly spelt. I don't think you should judge him on that.

Are there no men your age who know how to court and flirt? I'll give the spelling a pass if he's dyslexic or something.

Even if you're into a bit of spanking, this isn't how you do it.

Bloody hell 😳

Do you know him in real life? I hope not! I would do as others suggest, block and look for someone with manners and intelligence.

There's more to choosing a partner than them just being a good person though. Most people want somebody of a similar intelligence level and illiteracy giving the ick is completely understandable.

Completely agree. There are far too many other men out there to waste time on this one.

This was what I thought too.

Jesus, that’s some illiteracy right there.
No thank you

I think "smak bum" has been my introduction to the ick.

Editing to add:
No problems with people not being able to spell, a lot of nasty people on here. If spelled correctly I'd feel the same.

Dump

Get rid. He used “your” instead of “you’re”

Let me guess, he likes a woman to dress as a lady (stockings, suspenders...), can't cook, is 'looking for friendship, maybe more', has photos of cars on his profile and thinks Jeremy Clarkson should be Chancellor with Boris back as PM because he was 'stiched (sic) up by mainstream media'. Oh, and he's frequently watching pornography on his phone during his lunchbreak and is going to expect you to let him stay over on your first date.

Block block block.

Ick, find someone younger and less needy!

I'd think it's no wonder he's single.