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To think Lucy Letby should be made to attend court for the sentencing

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Viviennemary · 20/08/2023 22:06

I know there are other threads on this terrible case. But I just read she has refused to attend court for the sentencing which is to be on Monday morning. The judge said he does not have the power to force her to attend. Can't see she will ever be allowed out of prison. And rightly so.

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NOELScosmichelicopter · 21/08/2023 11:58

PinkCherryBlossoms · 21/08/2023 11:40

Before you move on, let's hear more about this specialist team that could easily be established, and the nuts and bolts of how your plan would work.

There are specialist teams that can be brought in for many situations including riots etc. People still die or are injured. Because these are high-risk situations. There's literally no way to remove all
risks.

WeetabixTowels · 21/08/2023 11:58

Can someone quote a post which showed sympathy to Letby please?

Tinklyheadtilt · 21/08/2023 11:59

Why do people here keep confusing the impracticalities of doing this with thinking people here has sympathy for the murderer. NO ONE has that ok? Get over yourselves.

PinkCherryBlossoms · 21/08/2023 12:00

NOELScosmichelicopter · 21/08/2023 11:58

There are specialist teams that can be brought in for many situations including riots etc. People still die or are injured. Because these are high-risk situations. There's literally no way to remove all
risks.

Indeed, but apparently it would be dead easy to sort. Because some posters are busy having an extended Dunning Kruger justice fantasywank.

WeetabixTowels · 21/08/2023 12:02

Riot squads are brought in for the protection of the public. Not so some randoms can gleefully tell arch a woman’s face react to news she knows is coming

NOELScosmichelicopter · 21/08/2023 12:09

peanutcrumble · 21/08/2023 11:42

@BeverleyMacker shocking from some on here. Wonder if they would feel the same if it was their baby murdered.

Would I want that person to be tried and convicted? Absolutely.

Would I want that person to suffer psychologically for the rest of their life and suffer? Yes I think I would.

Would I want them to get the death penalty? Would I want them to be attacked and harmed in prison? Would I want them to have no rights and be physically or mentally tortured?

I wouldn't.

My emotions about that individual might say yes. But as a human, do I really want that? and want it to apply to everyone? No.

Wakintoblueskies · 21/08/2023 12:10

Alison Kelly has been suspended. The first of many I hope.

NOELScosmichelicopter · 21/08/2023 12:16

It's the histrionic hyperbole.

"You must think her rights are more important, you must think the victims are unimportant"

Nope. Literally no-one said that.

But they don't want to hear about how difficult it would be to actually do, and apparently (going by many posts) don't care about the staff who would actually have to facilitate their demands.

WeetabixTowels · 21/08/2023 12:20

NOELScosmichelicopter · 21/08/2023 12:16

It's the histrionic hyperbole.

"You must think her rights are more important, you must think the victims are unimportant"

Nope. Literally no-one said that.

But they don't want to hear about how difficult it would be to actually do, and apparently (going by many posts) don't care about the staff who would actually have to facilitate their demands.

It’s pathetic - like baying for the woman’s blood with no consideration of consequences is the only valid opinion.

Wakintoblueskies · 21/08/2023 12:22

The boys’ mother attacks Letby for refusing to appear in court for some of the verdicts or her sentencing. She says:
Even in these final days of the trial she has tried to control things, the disrespect she has shown the families and the court show what type of person she is. We have attended court day in and day out, yet she decides she has had enough, and stays in her cell, just one final act of wickedness from a coward.

The poor parents. The victim impact statements are filled with so much pain, guilt at not doing more and blaming themselves. Harrowing. My heart goes out to them.

AllOfThemWitches · 21/08/2023 12:25

I think people here (presumably women mostly) are trying to relate to her somehow by suggesting she sees and hears the pain she's caused, as if that will make her think 'oh actually, I do feel kind of bad.' No, people who make a habit of killing babies are incapable of true remorse. You'll never be able to understand a person like her, she's not like you.

WeetabixTowels · 21/08/2023 12:26

AllOfThemWitches · 21/08/2023 12:25

I think people here (presumably women mostly) are trying to relate to her somehow by suggesting she sees and hears the pain she's caused, as if that will make her think 'oh actually, I do feel kind of bad.' No, people who make a habit of killing babies are incapable of true remorse. You'll never be able to understand a person like her, she's not like you.

I haven’t seen anyone suggest anything like that. I’ve just seen people arguing that it would be futile and physically distressing to force her to attend court

AllOfThemWitches · 21/08/2023 12:27

WeetabixTowels · 21/08/2023 12:26

I haven’t seen anyone suggest anything like that. I’ve just seen people arguing that it would be futile and physically distressing to force her to attend court

Sorry but you're talking rubbish. Lots of people have said she should be there to face the families, etc.

Onegoingonmaybe2 · 21/08/2023 12:28

@AllOfThemWitches that's why it would be traumatising for the victims to see that. She will have no remorse, if she did, she wouldn't have been in this situation today with blood on her hands. This would have continued if she carried on working there or another hospital.

echt · 21/08/2023 12:29

WeetabixTowels · 21/08/2023 12:26

I haven’t seen anyone suggest anything like that. I’ve just seen people arguing that it would be futile and physically distressing to force her to attend court

I think @AllOfThemWitches is trying to engage with what might be motivating some of the expressions of hatred and desire for vicarious vengeance on this thread rather than saying that's what they said.

Nothing would be good enough for such people: if Lucy Letby cried it would be crocodile tears, if impassive what a cow.

AllOfThemWitches · 21/08/2023 12:30

Onegoingonmaybe2 · 21/08/2023 12:28

@AllOfThemWitches that's why it would be traumatising for the victims to see that. She will have no remorse, if she did, she wouldn't have been in this situation today with blood on her hands. This would have continued if she carried on working there or another hospital.

Exactly, so there is absolutely no point in 'forcing' her to be there. Let it rot.

WeetabixTowels · 21/08/2023 12:31

AllOfThemWitches · 21/08/2023 12:27

Sorry but you're talking rubbish. Lots of people have said she should be there to face the families, etc.

Ah I have misunderstood what you said. Apologies

NOELScosmichelicopter · 21/08/2023 12:32

Wakintoblueskies · 21/08/2023 10:45

There could easily be and should be a specialist team just to do this.

Interesting that you have no issue with the poster’s use of ‘satisfy the demands of a few victims’.

That is vile.

Specialist teams exist for lots of things.

And all carry risks. You seem to think a specialist team wouldn't?

Firefighters are specialists in fighting fires. That doesn't mean people don't die or are injured.

Resuscitation teams in hospitals are specialists, people still die.

Police and prison officers can be specialist trained in riots, it doesn't mean there's no risk.

Do you really understand what you mean by a,specialist team?

WomanAtWork · 21/08/2023 12:33

I think, if they refuse to calmly attend court and listen to the judges and any Victim Statements, it should be played to them over speaker system in their cells every 1st Sunday of the month for the duration of their prison sentence so they have no choice but to listen.

TheYadaYada · 21/08/2023 12:33

I completely disagree that she should be forced to attend. And I question why some people think she should be, especially as I’ve read comments on Twitter like ‘she should be dragged there, kicking and screaming’ 🙄🙄

Restinggoddess · 21/08/2023 12:33

The issue is - at the moment they have the option to not attend. So by removing the option we develop a culture of them attending

Some may use the opportunity to cause a scene - construct the court in such a way as to mitigate this. Sound proof box which the sound of the court can be fed into but where the court does not hear the shouts etc
The dock being away from the victims family so fewer people see the spectacle of a guilty person kicking off. Personally have no problem in the use of handcuffs etc This person has put themselves beyond the social niceties
This will have to be done for some time to address a culture that has swung too far in the favour of the guilty

Whilst extra months or years cannot be added to a whole life term we could look at some of the privileges prisoners have. Haven’t we heard before of prisoners in more relaxed jails and having days out? Might not happen at first but never ceases to amaze me the opportunities they have. Clearly this will have an impact upon the prisoners and does not reflect a society that hopes for redemption- but there should be some sort of tariff of privileges

Once it is no longer a culture of allowing the guilty person to choose not to attend then the behaviour people fear - will be reduced. It should be normal to attend - we give these people too many rights and do not think of the victims and their families

BeverleyMacker · 21/08/2023 12:34

Why is everyone assuming she's going to put up a fight anyway?

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 21/08/2023 12:35

I think she should have to listen to the victim impact statements and the sentence but that could be done remotely. I think trying to force someone to be physically present is dangerous and potentially disruptive. People see Letby and think it’s easy but tell me how you would have got Levi Bellfield or Thomas Cashman into the dock without someone being injured?
I’d put a speaker in her cell so she had no option but to hear it.

BloodyPrime · 21/08/2023 12:37

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 21/08/2023 12:35

I think she should have to listen to the victim impact statements and the sentence but that could be done remotely. I think trying to force someone to be physically present is dangerous and potentially disruptive. People see Letby and think it’s easy but tell me how you would have got Levi Bellfield or Thomas Cashman into the dock without someone being injured?
I’d put a speaker in her cell so she had no option but to hear it.

Would you still want that if you thought she was getting a kick out of hearing about the impact on the victims?
And you can't force people to listen - she could just switch off, sing to herself, think about anything else - very easy to not listen to something if you don't want to.

Fallingthroughclouds · 21/08/2023 12:37

WeetabixTowels · 21/08/2023 10:32

This.

as much as it’s horrifying that she won’t attend, I don’t want to live in a country where people are manhandled and physically forced into going into the dock.

There will be plenty of manhandling going on in prison. It will be absolutely brutal, physically forced into the docks will be the least of her worries. She won't be forced into the dock, because this is the sanitary side that we see. All bets are off on what goes on inside though. I am guessing she will be tortured within an inch of her life though.

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